The three of them chatted and laughed for a while, then continued to discuss, and finally wrote down a piece of paper full of content.
Zheng Gouzi looked at the content on the paper with bright eyes. This is the starting point of his happy life and his future expectations!
Zheng Gouzi was so excited that he almost got up from his seat and started taking action immediately.
He was excited, and Feng Laoliu, who was entrusted with an important task for the first time, was equally excited. If Zhang Yu hadn't still had a shred of sense, pulling him by the side, and the two excited people bumped into each other, I'm afraid they would have ignored the situation and directly
Start drying.
Compared with the two excited people who didn't know what to do, Zhang Yu was much calmer.
Regardless of what they just planned, Zhang Yu still has some self-awareness in this regard. Let him come up with an idea to add some excitement to the wedding. If he leaves it to him, he will do it himself.
It's definitely out of control.
As for the assistant Feng Laoliu, it's not that Zhang Yu doesn't believe him, but that all the big and small things are taken care of by the above brothers. Except for giving everyone a "surprise" on the wedding, everything else is done according to the rules.
, if he had not had the experience of getting married, he would not be as good as Zheng Gouzi in this regard. Although he is slightly deficient in some aspects, he has been in the society for many years and is familiar with the appearance of eyebrows.
Seeing that Zheng Gouzi could hardly sit still, but there happened to be Feng Laoliu next to him who had been encouraging him to take action immediately. Zhang Yu swallowed and regretted a little. He should not have let Feng Laoliu just now.
Blended.
Although Zhang Yu didn't want to pour cold water on others at this moment, but for Zheng Gouzi's sake, Zhang Yu still poured cold water on him in a small way.
Seeing that Brother Zheng was hit by his own basin of cold water and his whole body seemed a little wilted, Zhang Yu breathed a sigh of relief.
But all said and done, in order to avoid really screwing up Zheng Gouzi and spoiling his good deeds, Zhang Yu decided to find foreign help in this matter.
Brother Zheng finally found the right person, so he couldn't let things go wrong in the middle.
So, Zhang Yu took Zheng Gouzi, who had finally calmed down a bit, to find Mr. Sun, and wanted to ask Mr. Sun, the oldest person in the courtyard, to give them some advice.
When he heard about this, Mr. Sun was also happy.
He also watched the child Gouzi grow up, and now he is getting married, which is a good thing, a good thing!
Knowing that Zheng Gouzi did not have the guidance of his elders in this regard, Mr. Sun asked him to sit down and then told him bit by bit how to get along as a husband and wife.
Zhang Yu's eyes lit up as he listened, and he wanted to take notes and write them down.
This is Mr. Sun's personal experience, and it is much more reliable than some books that teach people about love and marriage.
This point makes sense. Write it down. You must write it down. Although he doesn't need it now, it will eventually be useful.
Feng Laoliu was unmoved at first, but his ears perked up as he listened.
It seems to make some sense. He has made his wife angry recently. How about going back and giving it a try?
Mr. Sun stroked his beard and watched the three children absorbing knowledge crazily. He smiled and said: "Everyone has his own experience in marriage, but wanting harmony between husband and wife is a science.
Husband and wife are happy together, this is difficult to say, easy to say, but there are only two points..."
After hearing Mr. Sun's words, the three people nodded.
After Zhang Yu explained his purpose, Mr. Sun smiled and shook his head: "You are looking for the wrong person when you come to me in this regard. Although I am old, I really don't know much about this aspect."
Hearing what Mr. Sun said, Zheng Gouzi was a little disappointed.
Seeing the uncontrollable smile in Mr. Sun's eyes, Zhang Yu stepped forward and said, "Old man, please stop teasing Brother Zheng. It's not easy for him to deceive a girl. If he goes too late, the girl
If he thinks about it again, he will really cry!"
Zhang Yu's words amused Mr. Sun.
The old man laughed, pointed his finger at Zhang Yu, and scolded: "You stinky boy!"
"No, I smell fragrant. I don't believe you smell it all the time." Zhang Yu said, while approaching Mr. Sun, pretending to let him smell whether he smelled fragrant or smelly.
After laughing for a while, Mr. Sun waved his hands repeatedly: "Okay, okay, old man, I can't laugh anymore."
Zhang Yu was also worried that Mrs. Sun would laugh out loud, so he quickly retracted the idea of continuing to joke.
Mr. Sun gently stroked his chest and said: "This man is too old to compare with you young people. He doesn't even dare to laugh like this."
Then, before Zhang Yu and the others could speak to comfort him, Mr. Sun continued: "If you come to me about this matter, you might as well go to Teacher Fang (the one who wrote couplets for the people in the courtyard during the Chinese New Year). In this regard,
People are the experts."
"Teacher Fang still understands this?" Feng Laoliu was surprised. In his impression, besides loving children, Teacher Fang was an out-and-out literati in other aspects.
It’s not that literati don’t understand this, but it makes people feel particularly torn when it comes to Teacher Fang.
"Of course, your teacher Fang is the best in this regard." Mr. Sun gave a thumbs up as he spoke, and then sighed: "Actually, what your teacher Fang is best at is ancient rituals. It's just that these days, everyone knows a lot of things.
Not willing to comply.
But whether it’s ancient rituals or the rules we follow now, it’s absolutely right for you to ask Teacher Fang. The matchmakers near us will come over and ask Teacher Fang when they can’t remember clearly.”
After listening to Mr. Sun's words, the three people ran over and knocked on Teacher Fang's door.
Seeing that it was them, Teacher Fang was stunned for a moment, then smiled and invited them into the room to drink tea.
After hearing that Zheng Gouzi was getting married, Teacher Fang was overjoyed at first, then frowned slightly and said, "I know the Tao family. Their family is not lowly. Getting married is a big deal. Is there anyone in the Tao family?"
Do you want to follow the previous rules or the current rules?"
Although there is a new set of rules for marriage now, some wealthy families still choose to follow the earlier rules.
Zheng Gouzi scratched his head, he didn't know this.
Looking at the looks of several people, Zheng Gouzi said tentatively: "How about I go back and ask?"
Teacher Fang nodded: "It's better to ask or explain clearly to avoid various misunderstandings."
Teacher Fang is also well-informed about the problems that may arise in marriage.
I have also seen many cases where the marriages of children were ruined because the parents did not negotiate well or did something undesirable in some aspects.
"Then I'll go ask now." Before he finished speaking, Zheng Gouzi had already ran out, and Zhang Yu's hand stretched out to stop him froze in mid-air.