As soon as they told my parents, my parents would refuse and they wouldn't even come to my place."
Daya was silent, and after a long time she said: "I think you should be on guard, I..."
Da Ya hesitated for a long time, then spoke with difficulty: "I'm not trying to instigate a relationship between you and your parents. I don't think your parents would find such a person for you and let you marry him.
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"No!" Lin Xiaoyan objected without thinking, "My parents love me very much, and they would never do this to me."
Da Ya: "I'm really not trying to sow discord. If you think back to your parents' attitude towards you these days, your mother should still love you.
But she has been crying for the past few days and can't handle anything, and she listens to your dad very much, right?"
Lin Xiaoyan thought for a while and nodded with difficulty: "Yes." Her mother listened to her father, and everyone in the entire brigade knew it.
Daya: "Think about your dad's attitude these days. Do you think your dad still loves you?"
"Love." Lin Xiaoyan blurted out without thinking.
Da Ya: "Don't answer me so hastily. Think carefully before you draw a conclusion."
In this case, if a fool's family says: As long as you get married, they are willing to give your dad a hundred yuan, do you think your dad will agree?"
Da Ya smiled bitterly and said, "It seems that you already have the answer in your heart. Don't deceive yourself because you think you can't accept the answer. This is about the rest of your life. You have to consider all aspects and not deceive yourself."
It is common for people in the brigade to favor sons over daughters, but some are more serious and some are less serious. Their family is the one who favors boys over girls. Lin Xiaoyan is also favored, but it is undeniable that her parents prefer her younger brother.
Lin Xiaoyan stubbornly closed her eyes, not wanting to answer Daya's question.
Da Ya continued: "You know your father's attitude. My personal feeling is that it is not necessarily right.
Lin Xiaoyan: "..."
Daya: "Your mother listens to your father, right?"
I think your dad doesn’t love you as much as he did before. He only wants money and benefits now, and doesn’t care about your life or death at all, otherwise he wouldn’t say in public that you were ruined by Zhou Feng.”
Although her mother liked her very much, she couldn't say that her mother liked her more.
Lin Xiaoyan said stubbornly: "My mother will not agree."
And you also have a younger brother. Although he is not very old, your father must love him more. Your father must want to build up a fortune before your brother gets a wife.
"Love." Lin Xiaoyan continued to answer stubbornly, she didn't want to think about it.
Da Ya: "Ask yourself, do you think your mother likes you more, or does she like your brother more?"
Da Ya: "Especially because your family is facing a famine. Last time your family of three was hospitalized, you spent a lot of money and borrowed a lot, so your dad is in urgent need of money now.
Lin Xiaoyan's closed eyes shed a line of clear tears. Yes, what Daya said was right, but she didn't want to admit it.
Lin Xiaoyan: "..."
Daya: "If your father insists on your mother's consent, do you think your mother dares to say no?"
Lin Xiaoyan: "..."
Daya: "Don't say that your father forced your mother to agree, as long as your father told your mother that this fool's family gave you a gift of 100 yuan to marry you.
Your mother's first reaction will definitely be to refuse, but what if your father repeatedly said to her: As long as we have this hundred yuan, we can pay off as many debts as we want.