You let Xingxing and Jun'er get married first. If they think it's suitable, we can get engaged first.
Don't you want to keep the star till twenty? You can keep it after they get engaged. They can get engaged first and wait until the star is twenty before getting married.
What Jun'er means is that if you don't agree with him and Xing Xing, he can wait until Xing Xing reaches twenty.
But aren't parents worried? They are afraid that in four years' time Xingxing will no longer have a fate with Jun'er, and Jun'er will have to wait another four years in vain.
So I want Jun'er to have sex with Xingxing first. If it's not suitable, we won't force it. If it's suitable, we can let Jun'er wait for four years. This way, the wait will not be in vain, and at least there will be a result."
Lin Zhengqing nodded and said that it was indeed the case. It seemed that it was time for Xingxing to keep an eye on him, otherwise it would be too hasty to wait until Xingxing was twenty before looking for him.
"And it may be different between the town and Kyoto. I don't know about Kyoto. Most of the young children in the town and village get married at 16 or 17, and few wait until 20.
If you don't plan to return to Kyoto in the next few years, you'd better keep an eye on the stars, otherwise you won't be able to find them until they are twenty years old, and they will all be wrong."
Lin Zhengqing frowned: "Then why is your son still not married when he is twenty?"
"Hey, don't mention it. Jun'er was in college before. When he came back during the holidays, we asked him to go on a blind date. He didn't go. We asked him to look for her in school, but he didn't look for us either.
He just graduated from college this year, and when he came back he still refused to go on a blind date. If he hadn't fallen in love with the stars the day before yesterday, her mother and I would have wanted to beat him to death."
Lin Zhengqing raised his eyebrows and said that he could not understand his mood. Several of his sons got married at the right age, and the third one even gave gifts to a woman on dates every day.
"I'm telling you this not to say that Jun'er is good or bad, but to remind you that Jun'er is twenty this year and it's hard to find a partner. Those who are the right age are all crooked.
Those who are younger than Jun'er are either after his money or fancy my position.
If you don’t go back to Kyoto, you’d better look for Xingxing as soon as possible, even if you’re not a soldier, you should still look for him early.”
Lin Zhengqing frowned, "Is it so serious? You can't find a good one at twenty?"
"It's so serious. If you don't believe it, ask your wife and the others to inquire. Just say that you have a relative's son who wants to find a partner. He is twenty this year. Don't say the salary is too high, just say thirty-five.
See if it's easy to find.
I can guarantee you that 80% of them are crooked and cracked, and the remaining 20% may not be what you want."
"Okay, thank you, brother, I'll go back and ask my wife to keep an eye on it."
"Let Xingxing and Jun'er get along. If it works, they can get engaged first instead of getting married."
"No, the driver's job pays well, but it's dangerous, especially since he drives a long-distance truck. It's even more dangerous, and he walks for a long time. I'm afraid Xingxing will be lonely at home alone."
Xiao Yijiang thought for a while and replied: "What if Jun'er changes his job? His mother and I also think that being a driver is too dangerous, and we have stopped him before, but he likes to drive around, so it is useless to stop him.
If he likes stars, I'll ask him if he can be transferred to the maintenance department. He is currently working in the maintenance department, and his grade is not low. If he works in the maintenance department, his salary will not be lower than it is now."
The more Xiao Yijiang thought about it, the more he realized that this was feasible. He turned to look at Lin Zhengqing seriously and said, "I'll ask him when I get back. If he changes his job, will he be with Xingxing everywhere?"