Xie Heng has never been unprepared in the business world, but even a man like him who takes one step at a time has never known the damage that giving birth to a child can cause to women.
It seems that men naturally feel that giving birth to a child is a simple matter.
Xie Heng came to Su Su, half-crouched in front of her, held her little hand, and said, "Su Su, let's talk about this serious matter."
Su Su was still a little dazed, because the more she knew, the more scared she became.
So when Xie Heng wanted to have a frank talk with her, she didn't react too well and nodded subconsciously, "Okay."
Xie Heng touched her long hair, pondered over her words, and then said: "You are still young now..."
Even though he had organized his words, Xie Heng still found it so difficult to speak out for the first time.
but--
He felt that Su Su was still young, and since he was so many years older than her, he had to explain all the losses to her openly and honestly.
"What I mean is... you are still young, and what you are suffering now... is just the beginning. When you get older in the next month, you will feel more uncomfortable, and the birth process, whether it is a natural birth or a caesarean section, is not
A simple thing, if you choose now...choose, terminate..."
He took a deep breath and said, "Although it will cause damage to the body, it may...maybe be much smaller in comparison."
Su Su was already confused, but now she was even more confused after hearing what he said. It took her a while to understand what he meant.
She asked blankly, "Uncle Xie, don't you want our baby?"
She asked in a low voice: "Didn't you say that as long as I listen to you, you don't mind whether it's King or you at that time?"
Tears fell from her eyes, "Are you lying to me?"
She cried and said, "But you said it, you said it...are you lying to me? Wuwuwu..."
Xie Heng's heart broke when he saw her crying. He held her in his arms and said, "I admit it, of course I admit it. I mean, giving birth will cause a lot of damage to your body. You...can
Choose not to."
Su Su sobbed and asked, "What about you? Do you want it?"
Xie Heng was silent for two seconds and gently wiped away her tears: "Mrs. Xie, my opinion is not important at this time. The child is in your belly, and you are the only one who bears the pain and risks. I have no position.
Make any decision with face, do you understand?"
She is the only one who can make decisions.
It was she who paid the price of childbirth with all her body and soul.
Only she is qualified to decide whether to give birth to this child.
Su Su sniffed and gently touched her belly with her fingers, "When I gave birth to a baby, did I have to cut my belly open layer by layer?"
If it was a natural birth, she saw popular science saying that most people need a lateral incision, which is to cut directly with scissors below.
When she thought about it, she felt like meat on a chopping board, cut haphazardly.
It's so scary that even dreaming would wake you up.
Xie Heng held her hand and said, "If it's a caesarean section, you need to take out the baby just like an operation."
Su Su fell silent.
She thinks it will be very painful.
It may hurt more than when your face is scratched.
Xie Heng did not let her make a decision immediately. Instead, she called in professional medical staff to give them a series of explanations from early pregnancy to postpartum recovery.
Su Su's detailed explanation made Su Su stay silent the whole time.