After Ji Yangyang was taken away by his parents at the swearing-in ceremony, Qiao Weidong's family had trouble again.
The cause of the matter was that Song Qian wanted to write "Admitted to Peking University and Tsinghua University" on her daughter Qiao Yingzi's balloon, but Qiao Yingzi disagreed.
Qiao Yingzi's ideal has always been to study the astronomy department of Nanda University, but Song Qian didn't listen. She thought that her daughter's grades were enough at Peking University and Tsinghua University, so why go to the second-tier Nanda University.
"Yingzi, what's so good about Nanjing University? How about we go to Tsinghua University?" Song Qian persuaded her daughter earnestly.
"Hasn't your ideal always been Tsinghua University?"
Qiao Yingzi said angrily: "Tsinghua is your ideal, not mine. I have always wanted to study astronomy, and the astronomy department at NTU is the best in the country."
Song Qian frowned and said: "What's so good about the astronomy department? It's not easy to find a job after graduation. Let's go to Tsinghua's finance department."
"I don't like finance, and I don't want to study finance. What I like is the stars and the sea." Qiao Yingzi argued with reason.
Qiao Weidong saw that the mother and daughter were quarreling fiercely, so he stepped forward to be the peacemaker.
"Yingzi, don't talk to your mother like that, your attitude is wrong!" Qiao Weidong first criticized his daughter, and then said to Song Qian:
"You too, if your daughter wants to learn astronomy, let her learn it! It's not like we can't afford it!"
Song Qian said angrily: "What do you know? What's the use of studying astronomy? The employment opportunities in the future will be very narrow and it will be hard to find a job!"
Qiao Weidong said nonchalantly: "My daughter, Qiao Weidong, still has to find a job. In the future, she will just stay at home and collect rent, and she will have nothing to worry about for the rest of her life."
Song Qian became even more angry because she couldn't stand her ex-husband's nouveau riche look.
"My daughter is admitted to Nanjing University and will go to the south to develop in the future. You want it but I don't!" Song Qian said angrily.
Qiao Weidong was stunned when he heard this. He didn't want his daughter to stay away from him.
"Is this good? My daughter likes to learn astronomy. As parents, we cannot support or object to it." Qiao Weidong thought for a while and said:
"But there is really no need to go to the south to go to university. There are so many good universities in our capital. Why go so far? Why not go to the Department of Astronomy at Tsinghua University."
Song Qian didn't refute this time, but Qiao Yingzi didn't want to!
"Dad, haven't you always supported me? Tsinghua's astronomy department is really not as good as Nanda, so just let me go to Nanda!" Qiao Yingzi took Qiao Weidong's arm and said coquettishly:
"Look at Fang Yifan. After his parents divorced, they still supported him in taking art exams, and the school also let him choose!"
Qiao Weidong frowned and said: "Our two families are in different situations. Besides, Fang Yifan is a son. If he goes out, he will go out. You are a girl. What if you go out and can't come back!"
Song Qian nodded tacitly. She was also worried that her daughter would go to college in the south. If she found a boyfriend in the south and stayed there, her daughter would be in vain.
As a daughter slave, Qiao Weidong cannot allow his daughter to stay away from him, not even for a day.
"Why can't you learn from Uncle Fang and Aunt Tong?" Qiao Yingzi couldn't bear it anymore, burst the balloon with one hand, and left the swearing-in ceremony crying.
Qiao Weidong and Song Qian never expected that their daughter would react so strongly. When they wanted to chase her, they were blocked by the crowd and watched helplessly as their daughter walked away.
Wang Gang and Tong Wenjie also noticed the movement in the Qiao family and hurried over.
"What's wrong with Yingzi? You were quite happy at the swearing-in ceremony just now!" Tong Wenjie stood next to Song Qian and asked.
"I don't know what's going on with this child. She insisted on taking the exam for the Department of Astronomy at NTU. Qiao Weidong and I both disagreed, so she ran away in anger." Song Qian sighed and said, "Forget it, Yingzi will definitely go home when she is tired from running.
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Wang Gang raised his eyebrows and looked at Qiao Weidong in confusion: "It's really rare that you, a slave girl, would refuse my daughter's request."
Qiao Weidong said anxiously: "I can agree to anything else, but going to the south to go to university is really not possible. It's not like we don't have good universities here!"
Wang Gang also guessed that Qiao Weidong was reluctant to let his daughter stay too far away from him, but thinking of Qiao Yingzi's illness in the plot, Wang Gang still kindly reminded:
"You should also pay more attention to the way you communicate with your children. Yingzi is a child with a sensitive heart. Don't go to a dead end because of this matter."
When Song Qian heard this, she gave up and pointed at Wang Gang and said, "Fang Yuan, what do you mean by this!"
Wang Zhengzheng said sincerely: "I think you need to take Yingzi to find a psychological counselor. Senior high school students are already under a lot of academic pressure, and coupled with their immaturity both physically and mentally, they can easily get into trouble."
"You are the one who is sick." Song Qian was completely furious and roared at Wang Gang: "Just take care of your own son and don't worry about other people's affairs all day long. My daughter is very good."
Seeing that her best friend was so excited, Tong Wenjie also accused Wang Gang and said: "If you can't speak, just shut up. No one will treat you as a mute!"
Qiao Weidong was also turning blue at this time. No parent likes to hear other people say something bad about their daughter, let alone a daughter slave like Qiao Weidong.
"Good advice is hard on the ears." Wang Gang sighed and said, "Actually, in foreign countries, it is very common to hire psychological counselors for children. Many schools even have specialized psychological teachers to relieve students' stress."
"Yingzi doesn't need that." Song Qian said stubbornly: "If you want to hire a psychiatrist, that's your business. Don't involve my daughter."
Qiao Weidong helped: "Yes, my Yingzi has been excellent since he was a child and won't have those problems."
Wang Gang reminded everything that should be reminded. He was not Qiao Yingzi's biological father. If something happened, it was Qiao Weidong and Song Qian who should be anxious.
After everyone broke up unhappy, Qiao Weidong and Song Qian went home to find their daughter, while Wang Gang and Tong Wenjie took Fang Yifan and Lin Lei'er to have a big dinner.
On the way, Tong Wenjie suddenly asked Wang Gang: "Do parents abroad really hire psychological counselors for their children?"
Wang Gang nodded and said: "Of course, why should I lie to you? In fact, many children will have psychological problems due to family and academic reasons. Early intervention and treatment will be beneficial to both the children and their parents!"
Hearing this, Tong Wenjie lowered her head and considered it carefully.
Wang Gang struck while the iron was hot: "You can search for news online. Across the country, there are many children who cannot bear the pressure of academic studies and jump off buildings."
Tong Wenjie seriously picked up her cell phone and started searching. She wouldn't know if she didn't search. She was shocked when she searched.
There have been news reports of students jumping off buildings in schools across the country, mostly because parents pushed their children too hard and failed to pay attention to their psychological changes, which resulted in tragedies.
Tong Wenjie even found a piece of news about a mother and her son driving across a bridge. The mother scolded her son because his child's academic performance had dropped. As a result, the child couldn't think about it and opened the car door and jumped off the bridge.
That child is only in junior high school, only fourteen or fifteen years old!
Seeing the shocking news, Tong Wenjie almost shed tears.
She remembered that she had almost taught her son a lesson because he was last in the exam, and she felt scared for a while!
Wang Gang saw that the time was about right and said, "I have actually consulted some psychological experts and feel that it is necessary to ask Fanfan and Lei'er to have a personal look at them.
I’m not saying there is something wrong with the child, I just want to find an expert to relieve their stress!”
Tong Wenjie looked at her son and nephew thoughtfully.
She's not too worried about her son. Fang Yifan doesn't look like someone with a hidden mental illness, but Lin Lei'er does!
Since his mother's death, Lin Lei'er has been like a learning machine. Sometimes Tong Wenjie is scared to see how crazy he is in studying.
"Fanfan, Lei'er, what do you think?" Tong Wenjie asked the children for their opinions.
"If you are willing to go, we will give it a try. If you don't want to, I will never force you."
Fang Yifan said indifferently: "Okay! I have never seen what a psychiatrist looks like in my life. Is it like on TV, where he gives you a bed to sleep on, and the doctor keeps asking questions next to you?"
"Psychological consultation means chatting face to face with the doctor and taking some small tests, which are similar to your usual exams. Don't be nervous!" Wang Gang said with a smile.
Lin Leier was a little apprehensive, but Wang Gang added: "It won't take too much time, it will only take an hour or two."
Fang Yifan sounded good, so he said to Lin Lei'er: "Cousin, let's go together! Aren't you best at taking tests?"
Seeing that Fang Yifan had said this, Lin Lei'er could only nod in agreement!
"Since you agreed, I will make an appointment and notify you after setting it up." Wang Gang said.
Tong Wenjie asked: "Do you want to talk to Song Qian too?"
"Forget it! With her and Qiao Weidong's attitude just now, it's impossible for Yingzi to see a psychiatrist." Wang Gang shook his head.
