Chapter 44 I’m meddling in other people’s business
Author: I tried my best
Chapter 44 I’m meddling in other people’s business
"Xiao Mei, we are having dinner, don't mention this." The wife wiped the corners of her mouth with a handkerchief, her manner was graceful, very much like a lady from a big family.
After saying that, she stood up, said she was full, and went back to the house.
Why are you full? I only ate a little bit of rice. It must have been affected and I lost my appetite.
Wang Xiuying glanced at her sister-in-law and endured her unhappiness.
She got up and went to the kitchen to instruct the nanny to prepare something to eat for her wife. Although the elderly did not eat much, they had to eat.
When she came back, she saw that Peng Mei had turned the topic to Jiang Yu again. This person was not done yet.
In fact, Peng Mei didn't have bad intentions, but she was born in a rural area and didn't understand the thoughts of these people at all.
She felt that saying the right words and arranging her life in a reasonable manner was what she thought she would do, and she never thought about whether others would be willing to do it.
Jiang Yu put down her chopsticks and said with a smile: "Aunt, there are some things that you think are reasonable, but others may think they are too ordinary. People are different, and you cannot use your thinking to restrict others."
Hearing this, Peng Mei was stunned for a moment, "I didn't restrain you, that's what I meant. You also know that the Lu family has only two generations, so you always have to consider the issue of your children. My aunt just thinks that you are young, so she has to take care of you now that you have a child."
It’s easy to get up.”
"When you are in your twenties, you will think that you can't take care of your work and your children at the same time. That's why I said this."
She really didn't have bad intentions, and although the way she spoke was not good, she was thinking about the Lu family.
Jiang Yu didn't agree with this idea. He couldn't say that he had any succession to the throne. This was too one-sided.
Regardless of whether she married Lu Jinshen or not, she never thought of using children to restrain herself in her previous life. Children are the icing on the cake of family love, not a burden.
As Peng Mei said, it is best to have the best now, and having children later will be a burden.
"Aunt, I understand your kindness. But having a child is not my business alone. Thank you for your kindness." She directly pushed the question to Lu Jinshen, not wanting to say too much.
With this age gap, coupled with the generation gap, she and Peng Mei couldn't understand each other.
Having said this, Wang Xiuying came out and said to Peng Mei: "Sister-in-law, my family doesn't have a baby. The couple can have the baby anytime. You see, Xiao Shen is not in Beijing for work now. What you are saying is not embarrassing.
Xiaoyu?"
Fortunately, my mother-in-law is considerate and does not stand on a united front with my aunt.
This made Jiang Yu sigh in relief and turned to look at her, wondering in her mind, was she really going to give birth?
But she and Lu Jinshen...
She doesn't understand other people, she doesn't even understand each other between friends, how can she give birth to a child.
This topic is a bit far away for her.
Seeing how protective she was of her daughter-in-law, Peng Mei couldn't help but sigh, "Xiuying, my sister-in-law didn't say bad things, but it's not okay for you to treat her like this."
"Okay, sister-in-law, stop talking, let's eat." Wang Xiuying changed the topic, obviously not wanting to say more.
She knew that Peng Mei was too old-fashioned in her thinking and always followed the same old ideas.
People are not evil-minded, they just like to point fingers too much and always act like they are doing good for others.
Seeing this, Peng Mei didn't say anything more, but she didn't agree with Wang Xiuying's approach in her heart. Daughters-in-law should be treated differently, and they should not be indulged blindly. No matter how close they are, they are not a real family.
Wang Jia saw that the atmosphere was not right and did not dare to speak. At home, it was Wang Zhicheng who gave guidance, and when he came out, it was Peng Mei's turn to give guidance to others.
In her opinion, it must be wrong for her mother to do this, because her father is the head of the family and does not guide other people's lives.
It's a bit annoying to be like my mother, but I don't know it.
After dinner, the nanny went to clear the table.
Jiang Yu felt sick to her stomach after eating this meal, so she didn't help and felt uncomfortable sitting on the sofa.
Seeing her like this, Peng Mei was even more convinced that this person was just not good enough. How could there be such a daughter-in-law who would not be able to do the job.
She previously said that Jiang Yu should live with her elders and have a nanny to take care of her, but she actually thought that she should come and take care of her mother-in-law.
But this time she didn't say much, because Wang Xiuying was unhappy just now, so she didn't say anything.
Jiang Yu checked the time and prepared to go home first.
"Xiaoyu, I'll find you tomorrow and let's go out for a walk together." Wang Xiuying did not forget her previous agreement, and she had to keep her promise.
In fact, Jiang Yu had no idea of going shopping. Seeing the smile on her mother-in-law's face, she didn't refuse.
"Okay, Mom, I'm leaving first. Don't send me away."
Watching Jiang Yu leave, Wang Jia tugged on Peng Mei's sleeve and whispered: "Mom, aren't we leaving?"
You've eaten, what are you still doing here?
Peng Mei gave her a look and asked her to stop talking.
Then he turned to look at Wang Xiuying and said, "Sister, I don't think it's okay for Xiaoyu to be like this. She's already married and still living alone? Don't be too kind, or she won't take you seriously."
It's a bit ignorant to still say things like this after everyone has left.
Wang Xiuying didn't hold back this time and said directly: "Sister-in-law, our family has its own way of living. You can't use your own ideas to guide us."
"I know what kind of person Xiaoyu is, and I'm not a fool, so sister-in-law, don't worry about it in the future."
This statement is very straightforward, almost as simple as saying, "You should stop meddling in my family's affairs."
Peng Mei naturally understood. Her expression changed again and again, and finally she sighed, "Okay, let me meddle in my own business! Jia Jia, go home."
After saying that, she got up and left.
Seeing this, Wang Jia quickly followed, not forgetting to say hello before leaving, "Auntie, I'm leaving first."
After everyone left, the wife came out of the house.
"Xiuying, you don't need to be angry with her. Don't you understand her after all these years?"
Hearing this, Wang Xiuying sighed, "Grandma, I know what you're talking about. You're just angry."
Of course she knows who the sister-in-law is after so many years. How long has it been since Jiang Yu came in? We don’t know each other well, so she can’t accept such an arbitrary identification of someone.
At least in her mind, her daughter-in-law is nice, polite, and has nothing to worry about.
The wife nodded, "As long as you know, by the way, didn't Jin Shen send a telegram? Did you mention letting Xiaoyu go? These two children have just gotten married and are on a blind date. Not seeing each other for too long will affect their relationship."
"Young people, you have to get along to have a good relationship. If you don't see each other for too long, you will feel even more alienated."
I have to say that the old lady had different ideas.
Wang Xiuying sighed and said: "Of course I understand that Jin Shen is not young yet and finally agreed to get married. I naturally hope that their relationship will be better."
"I've already sent the telegram. Let's see how he responds then. It's not good to force him."
When the two of them mentioned this, neither of them had any good ideas.
Today's update is late. I've been suffering from heart problems recently, I'm under a lot of stress, and I stay up late, so I feel very uncomfortable.