2189, the restaurant owner who runs a marriage agency
It was also after a quarrel that things returned to normal in the restaurant.
The time at this moment is also close to 2 o'clock noon.
Originally, everyone just wanted to have lunch in Haidong City near the Municipal Public Security Bureau, but an unexpected incident here made everyone a little uneasy.
To be more specific, I feel sympathy for what this young woman is going through.
Officer Wang took a sip of water and couldn't help but said: "Little sister, how about we break up? If your boyfriend can't handle the pressure from his parents, it will be useless no matter how you try to save him."
"In my opinion, rather than like this, it is better to separate reality."
"But Ah Hao and I have been together for several years." The young woman was also a little reluctant.
Lu Weiwei frowned slightly and said slowly: "Although it will hurt you a lot to say this, but if you listen to my sister's advice, the probability of you two getting together will be very small."
"I know, I know you are good to me, I will consider it myself, thank you."
The young woman seemed to be feeling extremely wronged. Before, the middle-aged woman scolded her, but now everyone is trying to persuade her.
Although everyone is telling the truth, how can there be any reason to end a four-year relationship?
The young woman took a sip of water, then stood up and bowed to everyone: "Thank you everyone for standing up for me. Thank you. I need to deal with the future matters by myself. I will make an appointment with Ah Hao and tell him
clear."
"This is best." Yuan Shasha nodded slightly and said happily.
The young woman thanked her again and said, "Then I'll leave first. I'm really sorry to delay your meal here."
"It's okay, think about yourself in everything." Lu Weiwei said.
"Yes." The young woman nodded silently, and then said: "Then I'll leave first, and I'll see you later."
"See you later."
Everyone was also in the restaurant, chatting briefly, and then the young woman left the restaurant and disappeared around the corner.
It was also after watching the young woman leave that everyone breathed a sigh of relief, as if the tense atmosphere just now had not dissipated yet.
"That middle-aged woman is simply too much." Lu Weiwei picked up a drink on the table, drank it all in one gulp, and said angrily:
"Who are you talking about? There are still people who discriminate against single-parent families these days. If there is a choice, can people become children of single-parent families?"
"Lu Weiwei, don't be angry, you won't do anything wrong for this kind of person." As Officer Wang spoke, he also picked up the water glass and took a sip of water.
Yuan Shasha didn't complain and said: "I think it's because that Ah Hao is too coward, and that's why that young girl is wronged."
"Otherwise, Ah Hao's mother would not invite her to the restaurant to discuss it."
After thinking about it, Yuan Shasha immediately changed her words and said: "No, this is not a discussion, it is simply a warning."
"In my opinion, if this Ah Hao misses this girl, I think he will regret it."
"Isn't that right?" Officer Wang picked up his chopsticks, put a few pieces of fried beef on the plate and put it into his mouth. After chewing it slowly, he said slowly:
"If that Ah Hao listened to his damn words and missed this girl, I think he would regret it for the rest of his life."
"Sometimes, he may feel that what he has missed is a person, but in fact, what he may have missed is another life."
Putting down his chopsticks and letting out a faint sigh, Officer Wang added: "Sometimes we always believe that if the girl we love doesn't marry us, she will not be happy in this life."
"Maybe it wasn't until a long time passed that I had to admit that she could be very happy marrying another boy."
"Yes, what Lao Wang said makes sense." Seeing Officer Wang, he would also feel the same way, but Lu Weiwei said unhappily:
"Actually, if she doesn't marry you, it's just that you are unhappy. Anyone she marries can live happily."
"The so-called fate is ice. If you hold it tightly in your arms, the ice will melt."
"Gradually, you will realize that the fate is gone, and it is time to say goodbye."
"But these are not problems of the original family. They are the importance and sense of surrender that we have not been able to satisfy throughout our lives."
Looking at the people coming and going at the door of the restaurant, Lu Weiwei said again:
"It seems that after that little girl experienced this turmoil, she is now at the beginning of her life, and no one is restraining her."
"If she still has some savings and her parents are still healthy, then she can do whatever she wants and eat whatever she wants. Nothing can make her growing ego feel threatened."
"She can do anything or not do anything, because time goes by quickly because she is comfortable."
"If you live a happy life, your life may become more and more like the wilderness. This is the ideal 18-year-old."
Seeing that Lu Weiwei seemed to have put herself into the young woman's body, she felt various emotions here.
The lady boss who was cleaning up the dining table couldn't help but snicker when she heard this.
Yuan Shasha noticed her and said with a smile: "Mrs. Boss, aren't we right?"
"Yes, everything you said is right." The proprietress is a fat middle-aged woman, and she has been paying attention to the conversation between Gu Chen and the others and the woman.
Since it was already past meal time, there were only a few people left in the restaurant, Gu Chen, so she wiped her hands with the towel on the dining table, took a cup of tea, and took the initiative to walk among the crowd:
"I also heard what the middle-aged woman said just now. It was indeed too much."
"Isn't it?" Seeing that the boss's wife also agreed with this, Officer Wang couldn't help but echoed: "You look like that kind of idiot at first glance."
"Haha." After shaking her head, the landlady also smiled and said:
"I don't know if he is mentally retarded or not, but I know very well that the man named Ah Hao is really not very good."
"Nowadays, many mama's boys are actually very stubborn. They obey their parents in everything. I'm afraid that the man named Ahao will listen to those damn words and choose to break up with this little girl."
This chapter is not over yet, please click on the next page to continue reading the exciting content! "You think, if this is really the case, what should we do?"
"If a girl gets this kind of result, what if she can't think about it? After all, because of emotional problems, she ended up jumping off a building. This year alone, I encountered two cases, both of which were either jumping off a building or jumping into a river."
"What happened next?" Gu Chen heard this and quickly asked.
The fat boss lady grinned: "Later, the fire rescue department solved the problem and it took a long time to persuade."
"The one who wanted to jump off the building was a boy, and the one who wanted to jump into the river was a girl. They were both emotionally hurt and out of control."
"If, I mean if, if that girl just now loved that boy."
"Then if the boy chooses not to side with her, I think the girl might become disheartened and very likely to commit suicide by jumping off a building."
Taking a sip of tea, the fat landlady shook her head helplessly: "I'm just afraid of getting involved in this kind of thing."
"Maybe he just graduated and takes relationships too seriously." Lu Weiwei lay on the seat and said involuntarily:
"That little girl comes from a single-parent family, and from her conversation with her boyfriend's mother, we can know that her father is also a gambler."
Shaking her head, Lu Weiwei also sighed helplessly: "It's really pitiful to encounter such a family."
"But this is not her fault. She may have stronger mental endurance because of her family since she was a child."
"But this kind of person often lacks a sense of security. If she encounters a relationship that can bring her a sense of security, she will desperately want to catch it."
"But even this boyfriend who can bring a sense of security chooses to turn his back on her and abandon her at this time. Then she may be really desperate, right?"
"So." As soon as Lu Weiwei finished speaking, the fat landlady also slapped the table and said involuntarily:
"So at this age, it is best not to touch marriage. This is one of the few decisions in this life that can change one's life."
"Aren't you going to touch the marriage?" Officer Wang was also very interested when he heard this: "It's not that serious, right?"
"Tsk!" Seeing Officer Wang retort to her, the fat landlady shrank back and couldn't help but uttered a "tsk" retort:
"Why is it not serious? Like the young girl just now, she is the least suitable for marriage now."
"Screwing this up is more fatal than screwing up anything else."
"For her, this marriage is not only extremely costly in terms of trial and error, but also irreversible. There is no age when you should get married, so don't just follow the crowd."
"Yeah." Gu Chen could understand after hearing the fat boss lady's explanation.
So she nodded slightly and echoed: "What the landlady means is that the girl is not suitable for getting married right away in her current state and needs to slow down."
With a snap of her fingers, the fat boss lady also shook her right index finger at Gu Chen: "This handsome guy is right, that's what I meant."
"Anyway, there is only the mind that should be married, and the feelings that should be married."
"The so-called mature mind is the necessary prerequisite for entering into marriage. Without this prerequisite, it will be difficult to control the situation of marriage."
"Let's get married. You are not choosing a person, but a relationship. This is the first reality that you must clearly understand."
Putting down the tea cup, the fat landlady also raised her fingers and gestured:
"In the final analysis, this low-class marriage is about renewing the relationship, while the middle-class marriage is about seeking synergy."
"What about high-end marriage?" After hearing what the fat landlady said, Yuan Shasha was particularly attentive and asked again immediately.
The fat boss lady chuckled: "As for this high-class marriage, it's about choosing comrades."
"Pfft! Choosing comrades? Why are you choosing comrades?" When Lu Weiwei heard this explanation, she instantly felt a little superior.
The fat boss lady didn’t mind, she just smiled and continued to explain:
"Why not choose comrades? Only by showing sincerity can we move forward. No matter what kind of relationship you choose? There is one prerequisite."
"That is the prerequisite for running any relationship well. It must be a win-win situation."
"It's just that the marriage relationship has been cloaked in the guise of love, which has led to many people seeing the outer layer but not being able to see the inside."
"And the coat of love will definitely become old and desensitized after being worn for a long time. This is all determined by genes. It is not a problem in marriage. Genes use love to trick you into marriage in order to reproduce."
"But once the mission is completed, the feeling of love will disappear."
"When love recedes and marriage becomes only a cooperative relationship, there will be no more hormonal invasion and basic rationality will be restored."
Seeing that everyone was listening with great interest, the fat boss lady immediately became excited and continued to explain:
"As for the two parties who have regained their rationality, as long as their heads are in order, they will definitely weigh the pros and cons."
"The focus will be on reality, and rotten marriages all begin with unequal relationships."
"When one party cannot see the value of the other party, it will start to be picky."
"To put it bluntly, the party being picked on will either feel wronged or fight back. It's okay to be unequal, but problems will arise in the long run."
With a faint sigh, the landlady continued: "So, if you ask me, it is more reliable to marry later."
"The greatest significance of getting married late is reflected in this, which gives you enough time to accumulate value and confidence."
"The prerequisite for equal cooperation is that we must be evenly matched. Don't expect to pay a low price to gain high returns."
Looking around, the landlady continued: "In addition, in order to prevent him from misjudging you, you must be sober enough."
"Especially for women, if you take care of your children at home, you are sacrificing yourself to fulfill your husband's needs."
"The opportunity cost and willingness cost are all there. Don't let your partner only use the value of raising children to measure you."
"To find your partner, you need to find someone who is on the same wavelength. This is the meaning. We can be harmonious but different, and we can be independent."
"But when it comes to value considerations, there shouldn't be too many differences. This is the prerequisite for true mutual understanding and mutual tolerance."
"Look at the background of marriage and how to find yourself before marriage, and then talk about how to find your partner and reduce the error rate."
"Marriage is a long-term relationship with a signed contract. Long-term relationships must look at issues from a developmental perspective."
"The meaning is to pay attention to the other person's unchanging rather than changeable attributes, personality and family of origin, life attitude and academic qualifications. These things all have very stable attributes."
"There is a high probability that things will not change after marriage and the path will not be reversed."
"However, whether I treat you well or not is a matter of behavior and willingness. It will change due to motivation and is not stable."
"So don't get too carried away, just make appropriate reference."
"The so-called finding a mature person is to improve stability."
After a pause, the fat landlady said again:
"The second is to focus on what you need, rather than what the other person has. The other person's career and ambitions attract you no matter what."
"If you want to live a Buddhist life, don't get along. Two parties with mismatched needs will never be able to work together in the long run."
"Thirdly, while paying attention to the long board, you should also pay more attention to the short board. You will gradually get used to the long board and gradually regard it as the standard. All the trivial matters after marriage and all the petty petty issues come from your inability to tolerate the other person's short board for a long time.
"
"And people who have little contact with the opposite sex are more likely to have wishful thinking."
Listening to the fat boss lady talking incessantly, Lu Weiwei was also stunned for a while, but she couldn't help but interrupt and said:
"Houselady, what did you do before you opened a restaurant? Why do you know so much about these things?"
"A marriage agency." The landlady said with a smile.
... If you like I Am a Super Police Officer, please collect it: (www.sodu777.net) I Am a Super Police Officer search novel website has the fastest update speed on the entire Internet.
