Because of Xiaoyu's sudden mood change, Lin Jinshun was particularly worried. After taking him home, he called her into the living room to have a heart-to-heart talk with her.
Lin Jinshun looked at her and asked softly, "Xiaoyu, tell me why you suddenly want to go to the city. Didn't we agree before? We should study hard here."
Xiaoyu lowered her head and said nothing.
Lin Jinshun pulled her over and sat next to him, "Child, don't be like this. Tell me what you think. I am your guardian now. We are dependent on each other. I have the obligation and responsibility to supervise you. If you have any thoughts, please tell me."
You have to tell me, grandpa, is it right to listen to your thoughts? After all, you are just a child. I have experienced more than you. There should be no barriers between us. If you have anything to do, talk to grandpa more."
Lin Jinshun's attitude towards Xiaoyu was very loving and tolerant. Finally, Xiaoyu raised her head and looked at him.
With tears in her eyes, she spoke muffledly,
"Grandpa, to be honest, I envy my cousin so much. She is loved by my uncle and aunt, and she has many good friends. Her friends are so outstanding and kind. Even Gu Ping'an can become friends with them and get them.
With help and transformation, I became even better.
I also want to be pampered and valued like my cousin. I also want to have many excellent friends who are willing to help me become better. I am just a little girl, what did I do wrong? Why is the world like this?
Isn’t it fair?”
Over the years, seeing Lin Wei acting like a little princess, she really felt pitiful.
Her parents are both dead. Even if they were alive, they wouldn't be able to give her that kind of life.
"Child, nothing is absolutely fair, but you all live in such a good society. They have Shunian, you also have Shunian, and you are not hungry or cold. This is already good.
Don't you see that the children in our rural areas are growing up happily? City people also have the troubles of city people. You only see their superior side and don't know that their pressure is very bitter.
Your uncle and aunt love your cousin very much because she is their daughter. If you live with them, you would also want to be equally loved. Do you think it is possible? And your cousin’s friends, they also have their own
Their living circle is not of the same class as ours. Even if you get to know them, can you integrate into their circle?"
"Those children's families and upbringing are not comparable to ours. At least now, you haven't made yourself stronger and better. You can't integrate into their lives. Even if you get to know them, so what.
Your uncle is just a migrant worker. Among those children, your cousin actually has the same low self-esteem and timidity as you do in front of your cousin. She also envies their lives."
"We shouldn't always think about comparison. There are some circles that we can't fit into. It's useless to squeeze in. We can only make ourselves stronger and better. Others
Talents will value you."
Lin Jinshun took Xiaoyu's hand and reasoned with her sincerely,
"I know that when your cousin comes back, you are a little impetuous. Children are comparing themselves to each other. Grandpa can understand it. But you must remember the principles I told you before. You must have your own opinion at all times and know yourself.
Whatever we want, we should try our best to use our own abilities to get it, and we cannot wait for other people's sympathy and mercy."
Lin Jinshun said a lot, but I wonder if Xiaoyu heard it. She just suddenly raised her head, looked at Lin Jinshun, and asked, "Does my cousin really feel the same way in front of his friends as I do in front of her?"
"of course."
Lin Jinshun sighed, "It's actually not easy for your uncle. Otherwise, would I have to stay in the city to help them take care of their children for so many years? Your uncle's education level is not high. He has not graduated from junior high school.
When he was young, he took a lot of detours. Later, thanks to the help of his sister, a noble person, he got on the right path. He is not a boss. He is just a part-time worker now. Due to the restriction of education level, he has never been able to get promoted.
I am currently working as a sales manager in a branch company, and the work pressure is very high.
No matter how hard it is, he will never treat your cousin badly, so your cousin is living a good life. You may think that their living conditions are very good in the city, but think about it, kid, what will happen to your uncle if you really go to the city?
Can they afford the expenses for two children? They don’t have the energy to share their love with you.
Also, if you go to the city, I have to go to the city. There are so many of us, which is even more of a burden to them. The expenses in the city are high and the pressure is too great. When the time comes, you will find that it is better to be practical in the countryside, especially if you borrow
When you stay at your uncle's house, you always feel like you're being dependent on someone else, and it's far less comfortable than being at home."
Xiaoyu suddenly felt enlightened after listening to Lin Jinshun's words.
She was envious of her cousin, but her cousin was actually envious of others.
"Xiaoyu, can you understand what I'm saying?" Lin Jinshun looked at her and asked.
Xiaoyu nodded, "Understood."
Lin Jinshun smiled and said, "Is your uncle's life described by grandpa different from your imagination?"
"Um."
Lin Jinshun said, "Children and people, what is often shown in front of others are their good sides. You have to know that if you have troubles, others will also have them. Everyone's troubles are different. We can't compare with others. As long as we let others
Just keep getting better day by day."
Just like him, others think that his son and daughter are capable in the city, and he enjoys blessings. In fact, only he knows the pain in his heart.
"Grandpa, I remember."
Xiaoyu looked at Lin Jinshun and asked curiously,
"Grandpa, did my uncle get where he is today with the help of my aunt?" Because of Xiaoyu's sudden mood change, Lin Jinshun was particularly worried. After taking him home, he called her into the living room to have a heart-to-heart talk with her.
Lin Jinshun looked at her and asked softly, "Xiaoyu, tell me why you suddenly want to go to the city. Didn't we agree before? We should study hard here."
Xiaoyu lowered her head and said nothing.
Lin Jinshun pulled her over and sat next to him, "Child, don't be like this. Tell me what you think. I am your guardian now. We are dependent on each other. I have the obligation and responsibility to supervise you. If you have any thoughts, please tell me."
You have to tell me, grandpa, is it right to listen to your thoughts? After all, you are just a child. I have experienced more than you. There should be no barriers between us. If you have anything to do, talk to grandpa more."
Lin Jinshun's attitude towards Xiaoyu was very loving and tolerant. Finally, Xiaoyu raised her head and looked at him.
With tears in her eyes, she spoke muffledly,
"Grandpa, to be honest, I envy my cousin so much. She is loved by my uncle and aunt, and she has many good friends. Her friends are so outstanding and kind. Even Gu Ping'an can become friends with them and get them.
With help and transformation, I became even better.
I also want to be pampered and valued like my cousin. I also want to have many excellent friends who are willing to help me become better. I am just a little girl, what did I do wrong? Why is the world like this?
Isn’t it fair?”
Over the years, seeing Lin Wei acting like a little princess, she really felt pitiful.
Her parents are both dead. Even if they were alive, they wouldn't be able to give her that kind of life.
"Child, nothing is absolutely fair, but you all live in such a good society. They have Shunian, you also have Shunian, and you are not hungry or cold. This is already good.
Don't you see that the children in our rural areas are growing up happily? City people also have the troubles of city people. You only see their superior side and don't know that their pressure is very bitter.
Your uncle and aunt love your cousin very much because she is their daughter. If you live with them, you would also want to be equally loved. Do you think it is possible? And your cousin’s friends, they also have their own
Their living circle is not of the same class as ours. Even if you get to know them, can you integrate into their circle?"
"Those children's families and upbringing are not comparable to ours. At least now, you haven't made yourself stronger and better. You can't integrate into their lives. Even if you get to know them, so what.
Your uncle is just a migrant worker. Among those children, your cousin actually has the same low self-esteem and timidity as you do in front of your cousin. She also envies their lives."
"We shouldn't always think about comparison. There are some circles that we can't fit into. It's useless to squeeze in. We can only make ourselves stronger and better. Others
Talents will value you."
Lin Jinshun took Xiaoyu's hand and reasoned with her sincerely,
"I know that when your cousin comes back, you are a little impetuous. Children are comparing themselves to each other. Grandpa can understand it. But you must remember the principles I told you before. You must have your own opinion at all times and know yourself.
Whatever we want, we should try our best to use our own abilities to get it, and we cannot wait for other people's sympathy and mercy."
Lin Jinshun said a lot, but I wonder if Xiaoyu heard it. She just suddenly raised her head, looked at Lin Jinshun, and asked, "Does my cousin really feel the same way in front of his friends as I do in front of her?"
"of course."
Lin Jinshun sighed, "It's actually not easy for your uncle. Otherwise, would I have to stay in the city to help them take care of their children for so many years? Your uncle's education level is not high. He has not graduated from junior high school.
When he was young, he took a lot of detours. Later, thanks to the help of his sister, a noble person, he got on the right path. He is not a boss. He is just a part-time worker now. Due to the restriction of education level, he has never been able to get promoted.
I am currently working as a sales manager in a branch company, and the work pressure is very high.
No matter how hard it is, he will never treat your cousin badly, so your cousin is living a good life. You may think that their living conditions are very good in the city, but think about it, kid, what will happen to your uncle if you really go to the city?
Can they afford the expenses for two children? They don’t have the energy to share their love with you.
Also, if you go to the city, I have to go to the city. There are so many of us, which is even more of a burden to them. The expenses in the city are high and the pressure is too great. When the time comes, you will find that it is better to be practical in the countryside, especially if you borrow
When you stay at your uncle's house, you always feel like you're being dependent on someone else, and it's far less comfortable than being at home."
Xiaoyu suddenly felt enlightened after listening to Lin Jinshun's words.
She was envious of her cousin, but her cousin was actually envious of others.
"Xiaoyu, can you understand what I'm saying?" Lin Jinshun looked at her and asked.
Xiaoyu nodded, "Understood."
Lin Jinshun smiled and said, "Is your uncle's life described by grandpa different from your imagination?"
"Um."
Lin Jinshun said, "Children and people, what is often shown in front of others are their good sides. You have to know that if you have troubles, others will also have them. Everyone's troubles are different. We can't compare with others. As long as we let others
Just keep getting better day by day."
Just like him, others think that his son and daughter are capable in the city, and he enjoys blessings. In fact, only he knows the pain in his heart.
"Grandpa, I remember."
Xiaoyu looked at Lin Jinshun and asked curiously,
"Grandpa, does my uncle rely on the help of my aunt to get where he is today?"