Tang Jianye analyzed the problem very thoroughly. He looked at the problem from an angle that Lin Jinshun had never thought of before. He only wanted to bring Xiaoyu to his hometown to reduce Lin Yongqiang's burden, and not to let Lin Yongqiang's life suffer because of Xiaoyu's existence.
There are any conflicts in the small family, and I don’t want Tang Min to think of the past because of seeing this child.
those unpleasant experiences.
He wanted to raise Xiaoyu during his lifetime and not cause trouble to Lin Yongqiang in the future.
But he really overestimated his ability.
Taking your children to school at this age often makes you feel overwhelmed.
When he was young, he was not the kind of father who didn't know how to educate his children. When Lin Yongqiang and Lin Jiao were young, they were not disciplined by him, and he did not dare to discipline them. He always felt that he had stayed in the city all these years and was not like other people.
He has made some progress in his studies. He thought that as long as he was patient and taught his child sincerely, she would definitely listen. But he ignored one problem. The times are changing.
Changes, the thinking of many children now is completely different from that of children in the past.
His set of educational methods may really not be used. Lin Jinshun looked sad, and Tang Jianye enlightened him with sincerity, "Old Lin, don't worry too much. Sometimes you should consider problems from the perspective of a child. Just say it."
In this small town, everyone who lowers their head and looks up is an acquaintance. The child has such an origin and what kind of parents his parents are. I think the classmates in his class must know it very well. How can she not feel inferior in school? Even if her classmates don't
I'm afraid no student would be sincere about bullying her.
Make friends with her. At least their parents must have warned their children secretly and stayed away from Xiaoyu. As time goes by, the children will become more and more sensitive and have low self-esteem. She can think of using this method to force you.
give her
Transferring schools at least shows that she still wants to change the status quo and has not accepted the arrangement of fate." Yang Yun agreed with Tang Jianye's statement, "Old Tang is right, sometimes children make mistakes. As teachers and parents, we should not do it at the first time.
Punish her first, and then patiently communicate with the child to find out her motivation for doing this. Her behavior may be wrong, but the original intention is reasonable. Teachers and parents should treat specific issues carefully, especially like this
Children of this age must use the right method in education, otherwise it will be counterproductive
On the contrary." After hearing Yang Yun's words, Lin Jinshun was very melancholy, "Then what should I do now? She deliberately made me feel that the students were bullying him. If it was really for me to transfer her to another school, I couldn't really transfer her to Binhai University.
Going to the city? If Xiaoyu
Going to Bincheng to study, I think there will be more problems in the future, and I feel that no one will be at peace." Yang Yun said to Lin Jinshun, "This child needs to be properly educated. The fact that she can come up with such a solution shows that her brain is very flexible and smart.
But often this kind of cleverness, if used in the wrong place, will lead to big problems in the future.
question."
Lin Jinshun also fell into deep confusion. He didn't know what to do next. Should he really transfer Xiaoyu to Bincheng, or continue to educate her and let her study hard here.
As Tang Jianye said, people in this small town are all too familiar with each other. In Xiaoyu's case, both teachers and classmates' parents know that no one would sincerely make friends with the children of criminals.
Back then, Kou Laosan was like a bully on the street.
Collecting protection fees, gambling and robbery... He and his gang of so-called brothers can be said to have committed all kinds of evil.
Back then, even his Yongqiang family almost fell into their hands.
Later, Lin Jiao also joined them, and she was equally arrogant and arrogant.
Those who do business and open shops in the town have suffered greatly in those years. They say that it was Hedong in the 30s and Hexi in the 30s. This is not even 30 years ago. Those people are still opening shops in the town. Their
Children or grandchildren are also studying in schools in the town. Perhaps among Xiaoyu’s classmates are those who were
The victim's children.
So in such an environment, how can Xiaoyu be treated well?
Even if Kou Laosan and Lin Jiao died and no one would hold them accountable, it would still be impossible for their children to get close to Xiaoyu.
Tang Jianye said, "Old Lin, don't be afraid of causing trouble to Yongqiang. Yongqiang can still bear this responsibility. Educate him as early as possible and make corrections. Even if he doesn't have a big future in the future, his child will at least be on the right track."
It is said that human genes are very powerful things, and the elderly often say that the upper beam is not straight and the lower beam is crooked. Tang Jianye is afraid that if Xiaoyu continues like this and grows older, the three views will really be unbreakable...