Tang Jianye analyzed the problem very thoroughly, and he looked at the problem from an angle that Lin Jinshun himself had never thought of before.
He only wanted to bring Xiaoyu to his hometown to reduce Lin Yongqiang's burden, and not to cause any conflicts in Lin Yongqiang's family because of Xiaoyu's existence, and he didn't want Tang Min to think of those unpleasant experiences in the past because of seeing this child.
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He wanted to raise Xiaoyu during his lifetime and not cause trouble to Lin Yongqiang in the future.
But he really overestimated his ability.
Taking your children to school at this age often makes you feel overwhelmed.
When he was young, he was not the kind of father who didn't know how to educate his children. When Lin Yongqiang and Lin Jiao were young, they were not disciplined by him, and he did not dare to discipline them.
He always felt that he had made some progress after staying in the city for these years and studying with other people. He thought that as long as he was patient and sincerely educated his child, she would definitely listen. But he ignored one problem. The times are changing.
Changes, the thinking of many children now is completely different from that of children in the past.
His set of educational methods may really not be used.
Lin Jinshun had a sad look on his face, and Tang Jianye enlightened him earnestly, "Old Lin, don't worry too much. Sometimes you should consider problems from the perspective of a child. You said that in this small town, everyone who lowers his head and raises his head is an acquaintance. That child has
With that kind of background, what kind of people his parents are, the classmates in her class must know very well, how can she not feel inferior in school? Even if the classmates don't bully her, I'm afraid no student will sincerely make friends with her
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At least their parents must have warned their children secretly and stayed away from Xiaoyu. As time goes by, the child will become more and more sensitive and have low self-esteem. She can think of using this method to force you to transfer her to another school. At least
It shows that she still wants to change the status quo and has not accepted the arrangement of fate."
Yang Yun agreed with Tang Jianye's statement, "Old Tang is right. Sometimes children make mistakes. As teachers and parents, we should not punish her first. We should patiently communicate with the child and find out what she did.
Her motives may be wrong, but her original intention is reasonable. Teachers and parents should treat specific issues with caution, especially for children of this age. The right method must be used in education, otherwise it will be counterproductive."
Hearing Yang Yun's words, Lin Jinshun was very melancholy, "What should I do now? She deliberately made me feel that the students were bullying him. If it was really for me to transfer her to another school, I couldn't really transfer her to Bincheng?
If Xiaoyu goes to Bincheng to study, I think there will be more problems in the future, and I think everyone will not be at peace."
Yang Yun said to Lin Jinshun, "This child needs to be properly educated. The fact that she can come up with such a method shows that her brain is very flexible and smart, but often this kind of cleverness will cause big problems in the future if it is used in the wrong place."
Lin Jinshun also fell into deep confusion. He didn't know what to do next. Should he really transfer Xiaoyu to Bincheng, or should he continue to educate her and let her study hard here.
As Tang Jianye said, people in this small town are all too familiar with each other. In Xiaoyu's case, both teachers and classmates' parents know that no one would sincerely make friends with the children of criminals.
Back then, Kou Laosan was like a bully on the street.
Collecting protection fees, gambling and robbery... He and his gang of so-called brothers can be said to have committed all kinds of evil.
Back then, even his family Yongqiang almost fell into their hands.
Later, Lin Jiao also joined them, and she was equally arrogant and arrogant.
Those who do business and open shops in the town have suffered greatly in those years.
It is said that thirty years have passed in Hedong and thirty years have passed in Hexi. It has not been 30 years yet. Those people are still opening shops in the town, and their children or grandchildren are also studying in schools in the town. Maybe they are among Xiaoyu’s classmates.
The children of the victims back then.
So in such an environment, how can Xiaoyu be treated well?
Even if Kou Laosan and Lin Jiao died and others would not hold them accountable, it would still be impossible to let their children get close to Xiaoyu based on their feelings.
Tang Jianye said, "Old Lin, don't be afraid of causing trouble to Yongqiang. Yongqiang can still bear this responsibility. Educate him as early as possible and make corrections. Even if he doesn't have a big future in the future, his child will at least be on the right path."
It is said that human genes are very powerful things, and the elderly often say that the upper beam is not straight and the lower beam is crooked. Tang Jianye is afraid that if Xiaoyu continues like this and grows older, her three views will really be unbreakable...()