"Mom, then - according to what you said, you and dad want to compromise? My brother doesn't want to compromise, so why did you agree to it instead?"
Xue Ling sat at the head of the bed, looked at his sleeping eldest son, and gave a low, bitter smile.
"Everyone in our family has a very good advantage - they value emotions. From the seniors to the juniors like you, everyone is a person who attaches great importance to emotions. People who value emotions are good and it will be easy for them to go wherever they go.
When you make friends, it is easier to be trusted by others. But things are often too much and too little. We attach too much importance to emotions and are easily hurt by them."
"Isn't that right?"
Xue Ling laughed softly again and asked, "If you really regard money as dirt, you should give up dirt for love, right? Isn't this obvious?"
"...You can't say that." Xue Yang curled his lips: "The money and house are not earned by us, they are given by our parents. If it is our own, we will naturally be happy to share it with the other party. But the key things are not the same!
Giving us the things our parents own is considered legal inheritance. It is reasonable and legal. Why does the other party want to divide our family's property before they even come in? Why? We still have to rely on money from our parents to pay tuition and living expenses, so we are not qualified to talk.
What great abilities do we have? But we are willing to struggle and go through ups and downs and failures. Why do you think you are qualified to share the fruits of decades of hard work of my parents just because of a marriage certificate? Why?"
"Yeah." Xue Ling nodded and asked, "Is there anything else? Do you think it is legal and legal for you to share the money that you will work hard for in the future with your partner, but the other person should not covet what your parents gave you now, right?"
"That's for sure!" Xue Yang shrugged: "Don't women advocate feminism and the true equality of men and women all day long? She and I fell in love and got married. We are legally equal. In marriage, we are equal.
They are also equal. I have never thought about her parents' money. I think we should have to work hard on our own. In the future, whatever our parents give us can only be used as help. So why should she share my parents' money and house?
"
Xue Ling chuckled in approval and stood up with his hands behind his back.
"That's a good point. But men and women have different perspectives and see problems differently. In our cultural background, many women have to depend on men when they grow up and get married, so they are used to feeling insecure. When two families are financially responsible,
In the case of non-equivalence, the parents of the other party will naturally want to make more considerations for their daughter, hoping that their daughter will be more secure in the future and will not have to suffer any injustice."
Xue Yang shook his head disapprovingly: "Brother's girlfriend is not a traditional woman. She is a high-level intellectual and a woman of the new era. Mom, sometimes I really don't understand. How can women today be so greedy!"
"What kind of greedy method?" Xue Ling asked curiously.
Xue Yang replied: "They want the freedom and independence of women in the new era, but they also want a sense of security and protection. If the man she chooses is responsible enough, how could he not be able to give her a sense of security? Why can't they understand what true security is?
The protection and security of a woman lies in how she chooses a man. It depends on herself. It varies from person to person and cannot be generalized. A man like my brother is tall, handsome, good-tempered, highly intellectual, and a future elite figure in the medical field.
How could his girlfriend feel that she needs to rely on the name on the real estate certificate to ensure her happiness instead of relying on him as a person? I really don’t understand what women think!”
"Haha!" Xue Ling was so happy after hearing this, "Your mother is also a woman. I didn't expect it to be that complicated!"
Xue Yang also smiled and put his arm around her shoulders.
"Mom, you are not an ordinary woman. You are a woman who is truly confident and truly trusts that your husband can give you happiness. The happiness you think is not material, but in the heart. It is precisely because you have the right concept that you can always be so happy.
.”
Xue Ling laughed again and nodded in approval.
"Our family Yangyang may have the potential to be a philosopher. Look at how high-sounding these principles are-"
"Where!" Xue Yang interrupted him and puffed up his chest confidently: "What I said are real and good principles that are close to people's hearts. They are not the kind of rotten chicken soup that is based on fancy words and high-sounding words!"
Xue Ling was amused by him again and patted his chest.
"Okay, okay. You stay with your brother, and I'll bring him some sobering tea."
"oh oh."
…
That afternoon, Cheng Huanran finally woke up, but he had a splitting headache and couldn't get up.
Xue Yang had no choice but to find a brain massager used by his grandmother to help him relieve the pain.
"How is it? Feeling better?"
Cheng Huanran murmured in confusion: "It doesn't seem to hurt so much anymore..."
"Why are you drinking so much? As a doctor, it's impossible not to know how harmful alcohol is to your health!" Xue Yang snorted coldly: "You do it knowing you can't do it - you deserve it!"
Cheng Huanran looked at him funny and asked, "Why are you at home? You haven't gone back yet?"
Xue Yang pouted aggrievedly: "The Queen Mother asked me to take leave to stay with you at home."
Cheng Huanran chuckled and ordered: "Pour me some water."
A certain younger brother had no choice but to be obedient.
Cheng Huanran drank the water, twisted his head in discomfort, and continued to lean on the buzzing massager.
"...Do you have anything to eat? I seem to be hungry."
Xue Yang rolled his eyes and said, "Mom had the porridge cooked in the big kitchen early in the morning, and it's still being kept warm."
After saying that, he lazily wandered out.
Cheng Huanran looked at the familiar, spacious and warm room and closed his eyes unconsciously.
No matter what happens outside, it is always best to go home, and your family is also the best.
"Son!" Xue Ling hurriedly walked in and asked with concern: "Are you awake? Are you feeling uncomfortable?"
Cheng Huanran apologized and whispered: "...Mom, I'm fine. I'm sorry, I made you worry again."
"Bad boy!"
After studying medicine for so many years!”
Cheng Huanran buried his head in grievance: "Mom, I was wrong."
Xue Ling couldn't help but sigh lowly and helped him turn down the air conditioner.
"How about it? Do you need your parents to help you negotiate with Xiao Qiao's parents? Son, our family does not lack a house, and your name does not lack it. If you really like this girl, why not add her name? Even in the future
If you can't live on, it's not a big deal to give up half of your house. As long as you work hard enough, money can be a foreign possession."
The money she gives to each child, as long as it is not spoiled or wasted, does not involve bad habits, as long as it is carefully cared for and cherished, it will be enough for them to live a nourishing and relaxed life for several lifetimes.
"The elders give you huge amounts of money so that you can live a better life, so that you will be more qualified and capable in the future and not be trapped by money, instead of becoming a burden and shackles for you."
A flash of tears flashed across Cheng Huanran's eyes, and he took Xue Ling's hand.
"Mom, it would be great if everyone could be as confident, capable, wise, considerate and kind as you..."