Wan Yun was stunned when she heard this, and finally came to her senses after a while.
"Mom...I...I am actually very confused. He always says that we are very suitable and wants me to marry him...but I have no confidence in him, really."
Wang Qing smiled bitterly: "When I got married, I had a lot of confidence in him, full of longing and hope for our future, and even more confidence in our marriage. But what happened in the end? They divorced within a few years. He had nothing
Bad habits or bad habits, the people are very good, and the parents are also honest people. We have reached the point of divorce. Do you think a man who even you have no confidence in him can give you happiness? Can he go with you?
How long have we been together?”
Wan Yun was confused by the old mother's question and hesitated for a while, unable to speak.
Xue Ling took her hand and lowered her voice: "You were too impulsive tonight and scared all of us. Xiaoyun, it's easy to get married but hard to get divorced. Take a photo, sign, and get a certificate, it seems
It's very easy. But once you get married, your wealth, life, family, and work are all involved, plus your future children. It's easy to get married, but it's difficult to untie them."
"I..." Wan Yun buried her head in embarrassment and whispered: "I always said that I should think about it, but he kept urging me and said that as long as I get the certificate and the rice is cooked, my parents can only agree.
.I...I am actually very anxious and scared."
"You silly girl!" Wang Qing scolded: "Your parents have given birth to you and raised you for twenty years, but you can't compare to a few words from a man? We don't approve of him, so we naturally have reasons and reasons for disapproval. On this point, you
Have you ever thought about it?! Have you ever?!”
Wan Yun's eyes were red and she didn't dare to answer.
Xue Ling couldn't help but echoed: "If he wants to marry you, he must do it legitimately and openly to gain your parents' approval on his own, instead of lying to you behind your back! He is forcing your parents to do this.
Submit, use you to threaten and coerce your parents, forcing them to recognize your relationship. Xiaoyun, have you ever thought about how disappointed and angry your parents must be with you? Your parents can't do anything to him.
In this way, you will only take your anger out on your daughter. Before you officially get married to him, he will only think about himself and completely ignore you and not consider you at all. You must follow such a man.
Can he live a happy life? Is it possible?"
Wan Yun shrank her neck timidly and murmured: "...He is indeed very selfish. He only thinks about himself and his family."
"Then why do you still love him?!" Wang Qing asked angrily: "What can a selfish person give you? Marriage is the union of a man and a woman to live together, which means that both men and women must contribute to the family. He is so selfish
, everything will depend on you to be busy and pay for everything in the future - do you want to exhaust yourself to death? Are you the kind of woman who is very capable and strong? Are you?"
Wan Yun shed tears and shook her head gently.
"...I'm not."
Wang Qing asked angrily: "Then why did you steal your household registration book to marry him?! You are pushing yourself into a pit of fire, do you know that?!"
"Okay, okay." Xue Ling hurriedly held Wang Qing down and persuaded: "The children are back. Let's analyze it carefully and explain it to her carefully. She can understand it by talking and persuading her."
Wang Qing held his forehead tiredly and lay back down again.
"I'm... really pissed off by you tonight..."
Wan Yun choked up: "Mom, I'm sorry."
Wang Qing let out a long sigh and pulled the quilt over him.
"You are really sorry for me and your dad... If you live a good life, even if you marry far away, we will feel more at ease. If you live a bad life, we will not be happy even if we eat delicacies from the mountains and seas every day. You
, I haven’t been a mother yet, so I don’t understand the heart of being a mother.”
Wan Yun was buried in her arms, sobbing softly.
Wang Qing patted her back and started crying too.
Xue Ling coaxed the two of them not to cry, told them to go to sleep quickly, and then turned and returned to the room.
I was so tired and sleepy that I could hardly open my eyes, but I was surprised to find that Cheng Tianyuan still hadn't come back.
She took out her cell phone and found a voice message he had sent more than half an hour ago.
Xue Ling hurriedly clicked on the voice button.
——Daughter-in-law, Ahu is not feeling well. Xiaohuzi and I will take him to the hospital for a check-up. After you finish your work, go to bed first and don’t wait for me.
Xue Ling frowned after hearing this.
Ah Hu has always had a serious problem with his three highs. He was probably shocked by this tonight, and the old problem has come to his door.
Xue Ling couldn't help but sigh and put the phone aside.
I closed my eyes and fell asleep quickly.
At around four o'clock, everyone went to bed one after another.
Summer morning comes early. In less than an hour, the east begins to whiten - it's dawn!
When it was bright in the morning, several old people got up.
After washing, they all went to the back garden to tidy up flowers and plants without disturbing the young people who were still sleeping.
After all, Xue Ling is older, and her sleep quality is not as good as that of young people. She woke up around eight o'clock.
My head is still slightly dizzy, but I'm feeling much better and I'm in good spirits.
She hurriedly washed up and turned around to go out.
Wang Qing also woke up and was drinking water in the living room.
"Ling Ling... I was too disturbed last night."
Xue Ling gave up and said, "Why are you being polite to me? By the way, did you call Ahu?"
"I just got a shot." Wang Qing sighed and whispered: "Xiao Huzi said that his father was sleeping and his blood pressure was so high that he could hardly measure it. He is currently receiving an intravenous drip and won't be able to come back for a while. I will listen to what the doctor says later.
I hope to be discharged from the hospital tomorrow and the day after tomorrow.”
After saying this, her eyes turned red again.
"As we get older, we have a lot of problems. It's fine when things are fine at home, and we just need to take care of ourselves. Once something happens, our children have no time to take care of themselves, but we are powerless, and may even fall down, adding to the chaos.
"
Xue Ling couldn't help but comfort her: "Don't worry too much. As you get older, your problems will naturally increase. It's not a big deal, so don't worry about it."
Wang Qing sighed tiredly and whispered: "Ling Ling, I have to advise the younger generation not to get married and have children too late, otherwise they may be as helpless as us in the future. We marry late and have children, our children have just grown up, and we are already old.
We haven't been able to help the children enter a stable period, and we are already overwhelmed and unable to do what we can."
"Yes." Xue Ling nodded: "Don't worry, I will definitely tell the children this. Xiao Huzi married early and had children early. He already had a son at a young age and will soon be the father of two children. He will be the father of two children in the future.
No worries about this.”
Wang Qing smiled sadly and stood up.
"Little Tiger is very cute, and he is going to be a big brother soon. Youyou is about to give birth, and she always doesn't sleep well at night. I'll go back and see her, and come back later."
Xue Ling should be well.
Wang Qing paused in his steps and turned his head.
"The two of them... please help keep an eye on them."