"Your brother-in-law and I are the most honest and helpless parents in the world. She can do whatever she wants and do whatever she wants. How dare we put pressure on them? We didn't even urge them."
Xue Ling whispered: "Xiaomei is over thirty, and Xiao Zeng is almost forty. They are indeed a little older."
"Isn't that right!" Xue Cong said: "Today's young people are already twenty-three or four years old when they go to ordinary universities, and they are twenty-six or seventy when they go to graduate school. If you wait a few years to pursue a single and free life, you will be in your thirties in a blink of an eye.
.After a few more years of dating and looking for a partner, a few more years of getting married and pursuing a world for two, they were in their forties in a flash. The two of them had a flash marriage, and they were planning to have children right after they got married—but they were still too old."
She helplessly whispered: "The doctor said that the best age for a person to have children is between 20 and 30 years old. Try to solve your childbearing plan before 30 years. The longer you delay, the harder it will be. In addition, young people nowadays are under great pressure in life.
She likes to look at mobile phones and stay up late, and her body is exhausted without even realizing it. Xiaomei claims that she goes to the gym three times a week and says she is very healthy, but when she checked, she passed several test indicators."
"No way?" Xue Ling stared in surprise: "She...she looks quite healthy."
Xue Cong shook his head: "No, anemia, kidney deficiency, gastrointestinal deficiency, although they are not serious problems, they add up to enough. The doctor said that young people like to squander their health. I always feel that I am still young anyway, so there is nothing to worry about.
Nowadays, young people are more and more likely to die suddenly, have high blood pressure, and have cerebral infarction. Xiaomei doesn't like to eat randomly, but she is under too much pressure at work and often misses three meals on time. Sometimes she works overtime until all night, and her body is exhausted.
.”
Xue Ling sighed and whispered: "I also often tell the children not to stay up late. Going to bed late and getting up late is a bad habit. We humans have evolved from working at sunrise to resting at sunset. Now we turn on the lights and turn on the lights.
With mobile phones and game consoles, I can’t bear to sleep.”
"There is another reason for drinking too much coffee." Xue Cong explained: "Xiaomei's work is intense and she often relies on coffee to refresh herself. Colleagues drink coffee and tea, which are all refreshing things. Coffee hurts the nerves.
Stomach, her stomach was damaged by drinking. The doctor said that her spleen and stomach were weak, but she didn't pay enough attention to it. She also ate some ice cream from time to time, which made it worse."
"The stomach and intestines mainly rely on nourishment." Xue Ling reminded: "You should cook more porridge for her, morning and evening. She has been in the company for so many years and has such a high professional title. She can rest for a year or two to take good care of her body and have a good baby.
A healthy baby, and then continue to strive for a career."
"They originally planned to have a litter of cubs." Xue Cong sneered: "They were full of confidence and boasted, but they found that it was so difficult to conceive a child, so they quickly changed their plans. Now they just want to conceive one as soon as possible, and strive to
Give birth to one or two.”
Xue Ling chuckled: "Young people of our time basically get married in their early twenties. We have children too early, and we basically become mothers in our twenties. Marrying later and having children later is not just a concept for young people.
The reason for the change is probably related to the changes in the social environment. In the past, there was not much economic disparity between people. They worked a job, had children and took care of the family, and life was like this. Nowadays, young people have many pursuits and ideas, and they like to pursue themselves.
, some even plan to stay single for the rest of their lives without getting married, saying that marriage is a mess, since people only have one lifetime anyway, why bother to find a trap for themselves to jump into."
"I can't even accept it!" Xue Cong held his forehead and smiled bitterly: "I am retired now. When I have nothing to do, I browse some self-media writing on my mobile phone. I feel dizzy when I look at it. I feel like people nowadays...
…It’s too selfish and terrifying.”
"We definitely can't accept it." Xue Ling said: "Young people say there is a generation gap at a certain age. There is a gap of more than thirty years between us and today's young people. How can we accept their novel and unique ideas!"
"Maybe it's too complicated." Xue Cong sighed quietly: "It makes people's greed complicated and terrifying."
At this time, Xue Yang brought two cups of steaming black tea.
"Mom, Auntie, I'm sorry to keep you waiting for so long. There happened to be no spring water in the living room, so I went to the big kitchen to get some and boil it, which took a lot of time."
Xue Cong took it with a smile: "It doesn't matter, we sisters always forget the time when chatting. I happen to be a little thirsty, and your tea comes at just the right time."
Xue Yang put down the black tea and then took his mother's leftovers to the kitchen.
"Your children are very well behaved."
In terms of raising children, you have done much better than me."
Xue Ling smiled and said: "Your little beauty is so powerful and has a unique personality. Not everyone can match her. I am too mediocre, just ordinary people, and cannot be considered outstanding."
"It's already outstanding enough." Xue Cong glanced at her and whispered: "Don't ask for too much. Even if your child is not at the top of the pyramid, it is definitely at the top. I only gave birth to one child, but I have no time to care about her.
Her dad is also free, so she has such a strong temper and doesn't accept our opinions easily. She is too independent and has a weak sense of family, so she doesn't know how to care about her parents."
Having said this, she sighed quietly.
"In the final analysis, it is actually our parents' fault for not educating her well. I was very busy when she was a child, and her father was also very busy. We were all busy developing our careers and did not have enough time to accompany her when she grew up.
The only good thing is that she has not grown crooked and has not become a dangerous product in this society. This child is smart, independent, highly motivated, and has a strong personality. Not only does she study well, but she also has excellent artistic skills. Her father and I first
We were all very happy, until our children went abroad and refused to come back. They only made a few video calls throughout the year, and gave us two old people big red envelopes during the Chinese New Year, and then nothing. At that time, we were really scared..."
"We were afraid that she would forget her roots, her family and her parents, and that she would become a child who was indifferent to family affection. Until we tried every means to coax her back, let her live at home, and make breakfast with her in the morning.
Let her go home to sleep at night, and the family of three will go hiking or picnicking, eating out, etc. on weekends. Try to spend as much time together and chatting as possible, so that she can integrate into the family unconsciously."
"She joked that the things she envied other children after she was three years old did not come true until she was thirty years old. Although it came a little late, it was better than nothing. We also found that she got close to us a lot after she came back. Due to family affection,
Blood is thicker than water. For parents and children, there are some things that don’t require too much effort, but just lack of thought."