"No." Cheng Tianyuan shook his head gently: "It's not that you can't pursue happiness because of poor grades. It's just that you are not old enough to pursue it now. You are only fourteen or fifteen years old, just a yellow-haired girl. You know what love is and what happiness is."
"Who says I don't understand?" Xue Han said loudly with red eyes, "I really love him! I am very happy with him, free and comfortable. I can do whatever I want, and he depends on me for everything!
He also loves me very much!"
Cheng Tianyuan secretly felt that it was extremely ridiculous and said: "There is no real freedom in the world. We live in this world and are subject to a lot of laws, regulations and moral controls and restrictions. Ninety percent of those who can do whatever they want are
In prison, relying on you means loving you? What stupid reason do you have?"
"You don't understand!" Xue Han shed tears: "You don't understand at all! How do you understand what love is! People of your generation didn't have the so-called love! You and your aunt even had an arranged marriage! You didn't enjoy it yourself
The beauty of free love, you just think that there is nothing as beautiful as love in the world!"
Cheng Tianyuan was slightly stunned and raised his eyebrows.
"Who told you that your aunt and I had an arranged marriage? We just got married first and then fell in love. Who said we don't have the so-called 'love'? On the contrary, the love between your aunt and I has been flowing steadily, and gradually it has become a love like family.
.I don’t need the beauty of free love. My love and marriage are both happy. I don’t need to compare with anyone else. I just need to compare with your father Xue Heng. I am definitely much happier than him."
"You -" Xue Han muttered dissatisfied: "My father and my mother are divorced, how can you compare with them?"
Cheng Tianyuan calmly put down the water glass and said: "Your father and your mother are also in free love. Both parents agree. Everyone says that they are a talented and beautiful couple, a match made in heaven. At that time, your father had already made a lot of money, and you
Mom has her own employer, so she doesn’t have to worry about food, rice, oil and salt. But they lived a good life in a mess and ended up getting divorced. Who said that free love must be good? They are not an arranged marriage, but a marriage where a man and a woman love each other. Yes.
With their typical example in front of you, do you think you can still blindly think that free love is good? Can you?"
"It's different..." Xue Han's eyes rolled in his sockets: "I'm just a few years younger than Miss Xiaoxin. They agree with her, but they don't agree with me... Is it because my boyfriend is not good enough or rich enough?"
money?"
Cheng Tianyuan sighed helplessly and frowned: "You kid! Why do you have problems with you, but you only look for the problems in other people? Can you find them?! No matter it is our family or yours, who is short of money?
Whose family is this? The first thing you want to marry must be a person, not money, otherwise what’s the point? Our family is not short of money, so why should we pursue other people’s money?”
"I - what else is that?" Xue Han started to cry and choked: "My dad scolded me for not being smart, and scolded me for cheating on his trust in me... He was very disappointed in me."
Cheng Tianyuan asked: "Comparing my feelings with my own, if you were deceived by your father for so long, would you be disappointed? Would you feel uncomfortable?"
Xue Han shook his head and cried: "It's different... I just fell in love, I didn't do anything heinous."
"Falling in love is not a sin." Cheng Tianyuan said: "It's just that you shouldn't lie to your closest parents for a long time, and you shouldn't completely abandon your studies and only pursue fun and love. Many animals' cubs can run and run after they are born.
Jump, but we humans are different. We must study for a long, long time to keep up with this era, and even have to learn for life. Otherwise, today's technological advancement is so rapid, and if we don't study, we will soon be abandoned by this era. You are in school
Once the study time is missed, it will be difficult to have such an opportunity again in this life."
"I...I'm not suitable for studying." Xue Han muttered: "I'm not suitable for studying."
Cheng Tianyuan said: "Then you can't just drop out of school. You are only a teenager. Xiaohan, my uncle tells you something. Our family was very poor back then. We were so poor that we often ate wild vegetables and could not eat meat even once in a year and a half. I was very poor.
I love to read, and my grandparents have always supported me in my studies. But my family is too poor to pay my tuition fees, so I have to live frugally and borrow money from people everywhere to pay my tuition fees. I insist on studying in high school and passing the university entrance examination.
, just when I received the admission notice, your grandpa fell ill again, and the family couldn’t even afford to take care of the pot. At that time, rural areas were generally poor, and every household was equally poor. The family could afford a ten-dollar bill.
There were very few people. I didn’t want my grandparents to beg neighbors and fellow villagers to borrow money, turn around, tear up the admission notice, and run to the county to work as an accountant for a supply and marketing cooperative to make money. At that time, I was so eager to continue studying, and I occasionally thought of that keynote at night.
I couldn’t help but shed tears when I received the university admission notice, and my pillowcloth was wet with tears several times..."
Xue Han was stunned when he heard this.
For her, a little princess who grew up in a honeypot, this was something that could only have happened hundreds of years ago, and would never happen to people today.
She can easily carry tens of thousands in a bag, so how can she understand the embarrassment and hardship of not being able to pay even ten yuan!
Cheng Tianyuan sighed softly: "So I always hope that your mother will study hard. No matter how poor or miserable you are, you have to send your mother to school. Who would have thought that your mother dropped out of school halfway... and almost failed to study. Fortunately, she later graduated from a technical secondary school and was in high school.
With the help of my aunt, I was able to settle in the imperial capital and be assigned to work in the workplace. Not being able to go to college is my biggest regret in this life. I don’t want my children to have the same regrets as me in the future, so I always strictly require them to complete college studies, or at least go to college.
Graduation. Now all of them have gone to college, and your eldest cousin has graduated with a master's degree. They have finally lived up to my expectations for them."
Xue Han looked at him with pitiful eyes and whispered: "Uncle, actually...actually going to college is not necessarily good. Many college students are working for you. Auntie's group has a lot of top students. The money they earn
There are not many of you, and there is no way that you are more powerful."
"Idiot." Cheng Tianyuan chuckled: "Studying in college may not necessarily lead to making a lot of money. I understand this truth. But that is my lifelong dream, and it is a dream that cannot be fulfilled. It is my first dream in life, but it is a pity that I
But it couldn't be realized. It's still the same sentence - the regret of my life."
After a pause, he sighed and advised: "Xiao Han, don't be unconventional when it comes to what to do in life, and give up what is really important. For you, the most important thing now is your family and studies. You are a student
At your age, you must study. If you drop out of school at this time, you will regret it for the rest of your life."