Xue Ling, after all, was thinking from an older generation, and whispered: "Most parents do it for the good of their children. The starting point is good, but the method may not be right, and the final outcome may not be satisfactory."
Some things and some feelings are difficult to determine whether they are right or wrong.
She has experienced many people and things in her two lives, and she understands this truth very well.
Different people, different positions, different emotional experiences, and different perspectives can still have a variety of views on the same thing.
No matter how good the parents’ intentions are, it may not necessarily be good for their children.
But most parents in the world love their children so much that they even worry about the next generation until they die. They also have their own difficulties and helplessness, which their children may not understand.
Of course, the ideas of one generation are completely different from those of the next. After all, parents are relatively old gingers, and their views on things will be more sophisticated and far-sighted than their immature children.
In short, as long as the word "love" is involved, whether it is family affection or love, it is difficult to distinguish right from wrong.
"Madam, I understand what you mean." Ah Chao walked around the steering wheel and explained: "Since I have become a father, I can fight tooth and nail for my daughter - really! I can understand my parents to some extent, to a certain extent. But sometimes
After many years, I still resent them a little."
"Will you still do it now?" Xue Ling couldn't help but ask.
Ah Chao nodded and whispered: "I was really insistent at that time. I told them that even if I made the wrong choice, give me a chance to regret it, so that I can truly have no complaints.
I regret it. But they just won’t listen, no matter what they say. That incident is like a scar on my heart...it will never heal."
Xue Ling squinted his eyes and looked at the dark night outside the window, and said warmly: "Time can heal all scars. Don't remember the scars, otherwise the old wounds will still hurt from time to time."
"Alas!" Ah Chao smiled bitterly: "It has indeed gotten better over the years. Time is indeed a good medicine."
Xue Ling chuckled: "Yes, time is indeed a good medicine. Ah Chao, everyone moves forward, and no one can go back to the past. Since you are determined to live a good life with your wife, let the past go. This is for you
Speaking of which, it’s a relief, right?”
"Yeah." Ah Chao whispered: "I'm pretty good to my wife. Except she's a little lazy, she doesn't have any big problems. She takes good care of her daughter and the house is in order, that's enough. In the past
I didn't dare to tell her a word about the matter. It was just the past and had nothing to do with her. I only blame my parents and don't dare to anger anyone."
Xue Ling couldn't help but ask: "Do your parents regret it?"
"Those years when I was single, they were really anxious and regretful." Ah Chao frowned and replied, "Later, when I got married and had a daughter, they seemed to have forgotten everything. I didn't say it, but in my heart
I remember it."
"Is it possible to resent him forever?" Xue Ling laughed hoarsely.
Ah Chao shook his head: "I don't know. Anyway, I still blame them now, and I guess I will still blame them in the next few decades."
The car became quiet.
Suddenly, Xue Ling asked without thinking: "Achao, what do you think of this young man Lin Qingzhi?"
"He?" Ah Chao chuckled and replied: "I am an old emperor. I have never eaten pork and have seen pigs running away. I have heard the name of the Lin family for a long time, but it's a pity that I only heard about it. I didn't know it at all.
I’m not qualified to deal with such a young master, and I don’t even have a chance to get close. I’ve been with you, madam, in these years, and I’ve met a lot of big shots. This young man Qing is very low-key. I was lucky enough to meet him when he came into contact with the third young master.
Hold him."
Xue Ling asked again: "What do you think... of him?"
"Ouch!" Ah Chao laughed loudly: "Madam, how am I qualified to comment on such a condescending young man! He doesn't seem to be like us mortals! Any more words would be blasphemous!"
Xue Ling laughed: "Is it that exaggerated?"
"Yes!" Ah Chao said truthfully: "He looks like the kind of otherworldly person. I heard that the Lin family has countless wealth. No one can estimate how huge their wealth is. After all, they are old nobles.
Origin, how much is hidden in the family vault, who can tell!"
"Yes." Xue Ling nodded: "He is indeed a very elegant and refined young man. It is indeed rare for him to have such magnanimity at such a young age."
Ah Chao hurriedly echoed: "More than a hundred years ago, we would all have to kneel down and kowtow when we met! Haha! Someone on the Internet said that seeing Young Master Qing's appearance, the ancient nobles and princes finally had an appearance that they could look up to!
"
"Online?" Xue Ling couldn't help but ask, "Has he still appeared on the Internet?"
As far as she knows, the Lin family has always been very secretive and low-key, rarely appearing in the upper class circles of the imperial capital. Only the older generation of highly respected elders have the opportunity to come into contact with the older generation of Lin family. In the past ten years, the Lin family has not been in the imperial capital much.
The media appeared.
Ah Chao replied: "Someone secretly took a photo of him. It was a profile of a certain figure. He looked very elegant - the sense of déjà vu of ancient scholars. Before, Xiao Huang and I picked up Third Young Master and had contact with Young Master Qing's bodyguards.
. We were afraid of accidentally offending Mr. Qing, so we planned to check his information online. Unexpectedly, there were just a few candid photos and nothing else. His bodyguard said that his Mr. Qing didn’t like to do things that were flashy online.
Pai. As long as it goes a little too far, the lawyer will publicize it."
Xue Ling smiled slightly: "There is a reason why the Lin family has been able to stand firm for more than a hundred years despite the ups and downs."
"Yeah, yeah." Ah Chao lowered his voice: "In the past, no one in the Imperial City didn't know the Lin family. Now the Imperial City has changed a lot, and there are many more outsiders than us locals. How do outsiders know how deep the Lin family's heritage is -
I wonder if it’s hundreds of billions? It’s probably more than that.”
Xue Ling chuckled: "Other people's wealth may shrink or change. Their family owns a lot of real estate, most of which are antiques. The value of these cannot be estimated. On the contrary, they will continue to increase in value. Don't talk about outsiders, even they can estimate
Most families themselves can’t estimate it.”
After a pause, Xue Ling asked funnyly: "I asked you how he is evaluated in your bodyguard circle. You couldn't come up with a suitable adjective for a long time, and you just kept saying how rich and powerful the Lin family is - I know this.
You don’t need to emphasize it.”
"Hahaha!" Ah Chao explained: "The Lin family is definitely a well-regarded family in the industry, and the remuneration they give is so high! It's just that they don't hire people casually, and the conditions are very high, so not many people can go."
Xue Ling became interested for a moment and asked curiously: "What are the conditions?"