Zheng Xiaoyi was stunned for a moment, then started laughing like a self-mockery.
"Sister, look at me! Haha! I keep saying that I have confidence in him and believe that he is a man who will never mess around! Alas~~ Actually, in the final analysis, it is still me...I..."
"Don't have confidence in yourself?" Xue Ling asked with a smile.
Zheng Xiaoyi glanced at her and said coquettishly: "Sister, you are too smart! No, why are you so powerful? You hit my heart with one word! It hurts my heart!"
Xue Ling laughed and patted the back of her hand.
"What's wrong? You're getting older, and you feel like you're old and shabby, and you can't compare to those of the younger generation?"
Zheng Xiaoyi smiled bitterly: "That girl is very good-looking and very attractive. The key is - she is younger than me!"
Xue Ling couldn't help laughing again and asked: "Ah Huan is more than ten years older than you, and he still has people chasing after you. You are younger than him, but you don't have confidence? What about it?"
Zheng Xiaoyi curled his lips and said, "I can't help it. He seems to be the same in the past ten years. He has the same figure and looks. He is still so mature and steady. He doesn't seem to have aged much. I am different! I used to be young and beautiful.
Now we have entered the ranks of middle-aged aunts. The lower abdomen has begun to grow bigger, and beautiful and slim pants can no longer be worn. Skirts or rubber pants can only be used, otherwise the fat on the waist cannot be covered. The skin on the face is not as tight as before, and the skin is starting to loosen.
It's so loose that I sometimes don't dare to look at myself in the mirror after washing my face."
When I was young and beautiful, I was busy studying, working, and having a family every day.
After finally having some free time, I found that I was no longer young and my condition was not as good as before.
On the other hand, my husband, who was sleeping next to me, was not out of shape, and his appearance was similar. He still looked gentle and elegant.
It doesn’t mean I don’t care, but I feel sad!
Xue Ling squinted her eyes and asked in a funny way: "You think others will never grow old? Fool! Aren't I the same? Who hasn't been young? Who hasn't been beautiful? But children will grow up and old people will grow old. We naturally
They will also start to age. Don’t believe in any anti-aging words, and don’t believe that anyone can stay young forever. Those are just advertisements for cosmetics and skin care products, words to make women happy. Face it calmly, no one can avoid it.”
Zheng Xiaoyi was still a little aggrieved and whispered: "Why do I feel that Ah Huan is about the same..."
"Who said that?" Xue Ling explained funnyly: "He is also a little older, but you face him every day and don't notice much. In addition, middle-aged men who know how to take care of themselves are indeed more resistant than us."
"Yes!" Zheng Xiaoyi said depressedly: "We are obviously so many years apart, but we look almost the same. Last time we went shopping together, a shop assistant even guessed that I was older than him!"
"That's because they don't have to conceive and give birth to children." Xue Ling sighed helplessly: "When the children were young, they stayed up late every now and then. It was really impossible not to stay up! At that time, you had to go to school and work, and also take care of your family and children. Every day
I am so busy that I am dizzy. You are busy and I am busy. We are neighbors who live together. If we don’t make an appointment to have dinner together in advance, there is almost no chance of meeting each other. Do you remember? "
Zheng Xiaoyi smiled bitterly and laughed: "I remember. I dare not think of those dark days now - it was too scary!"
Xue Ling said with emotion: "A woman's youth and youth cannot withstand the torment of her children. When you become a mother, unless you don't care about your children, there will be endless work to do every day, endless things to do every day, and there will be no time for leisure.
Come down. When the child is finally older, you can finally take a breath, but more than ten years have passed and you are already at an age where you are not confused."
"Yes!" Zheng Xiaoyi hugged her arm and leaned on her shoulder: "Sister, it feels so comfortable and good to chat with you! You are from here, you are older than me, and you are smarter and wiser than me, so you
It always speaks to my heart at once.”
Xue Ling smiled fondly: "I finally said the right thing - because I have been here before!"
Zheng Xiaoyi let out a long "Hey" and couldn't help but ask: "Sister, have you noticed that we women really work hard?"
"Yes." Xue Ling nodded: "Good women work harder than good men, good mothers and fathers work harder, and women who have to work and take care of the family work harder than men."
Zheng Xiaoyi whined twice, as if sighing and feeling helpless.
"Being a good woman, a good mother and a strong woman... is really, really difficult. Thanks to my father-in-law and mother-in-law, I had a good foundation. He also started working earlier than me. We already had a car and a house when we got married. But.
Despite this, I still feel that my life was very hard, especially when my children were young. It was busy, chaotic and depressing. When I look back now, I don’t know how I survived.”
Xue Ling chuckled: "Haven't we already got over it? I'm a little luckier than you. When I was vigorously developing my career, my children were still young. Ayuan was willing to give up the opportunity to develop his ambitions. Most of them
The focus is closer to my family, so I don't have any worries. He made sacrifices and made everything perfect for me and our family."
"Yeah." Zheng Xiaoyi nodded in agreement: "Brother-in-law is indeed great. On the contrary, when I graduated and started working, he was already the chief physician, and soon rose to the level of vice president. At that time, the pharmaceutical group was also in the development stage.
He often goes days and nights without being able to go home. If the children depend on him, they don’t know if they will grow up. For the sake of my family, I have to weaken my career."
Xue Ling sighed: "It's all sacrifices. That's what a family is like. Without sacrifices and sacrifices, the family can't function at all. In the end, the family will be broken up. If you can understand each other, feel sorry for each other and care about each other's efforts, you give a little,
If I give something, no matter how much, the family can be harmonious and happy. Every family is the work of many people and it is not easy to put it together."
"Sister, your children are grown up now, and your financial situation is so good." Zheng Xiaoyi asked with a smile: "You don't have any regrets, right? You can finally have some leisure time."
Xue Ling raised his eyebrows and replied: "I don't think so, I am still very busy every day. There are old people, young people, and younger ones. There is no free time at all. Don't think that people with good financial conditions can do it.
Live a very comfortable and relaxed life. Everyone suffers, but his suffering may be different from yours, in different ways."
Zheng Xiaoyi couldn't help but mutter: "I...I have always envied you."
"Really?"
The husband sings and the wife follows suit. I also envy you that you are many years younger than me and you don’t have as many wrinkles on your face as I do.”
Zheng Xiaoyi was stunned for half a second when he heard this, then he laughed.