Mother Xue, who was breaking peanuts at the side, interrupted: "In my opinion, Shan You is a very filial child. Although she doesn't have any ideas, she respects you and your wife from the bottom of her heart."
"Yes." Xue's father agreed: "Although she is a little weak, she is kind-hearted, gentle and pleasant. Don't force her, give her some time."
Ahu smiled bitterly: "I know that too. We knew from the beginning that Shanyou was a good girl. But... Shanyue and his wife were too thoughtful. They encouraged her to do this and that all day long. After all, they are biological parents. She
Sometimes there’s nothing you can do, right?”
"I originally thought we were far away, the mountains are high and the emperor is far away, but they are too worried." Wang Qing lowered his voice: "They just make people worry! Now they want a villa, now they want a luxury car, and now they have to buy insurance. Shan You
Apart from some small income from the Internet, there is no other income. Aren’t those things bought by the little tigers with their own money? But they are always picky about the little tigers!”
Xue Ling has known Shanyue and his wife for decades and knows them quite well.
"They are not honest people, but they are not bad people either. Shanyue is bold and happy, but he is easily tempted to go astray. With his vision and hard work, he could have made a lot of money and even become a wealthy person.
He is a very rich man. But he took the wrong path several times, and each time he lost all his money, and lost all his money again, resulting in a thin family fortune."
"But they only have Shan You's daughter." Cheng Tianyuan couldn't help but remind: "Everything they own will eventually be given to her. Even though Xiao Huzi bought them a lot of valuable things, they are all in Shan You's name, not in the name of Shan You."
In their name. In the end, they are all doing it for their daughter."
"Yes!"
Using all the excuses to let Xiao Huzi go to the South Island to buy a villa and a house is just to find some financial support for my daughter, and it can even be said to be a retreat."
Wang Qing complained depressedly: "My daughter is already married, and they still think of a way out for her all day long... Do they have no confidence in Xiao Huzi, or do they have no confidence in their own daughter?"
"It's no wonder them." Cheng Tianyuan took the last bite of the porridge and wiped his mouth, "The divorce rate is extremely high now. A lot of young people don't like to get married, and they also like to have flash marriages and divorces. Looking for ways to help their children
Some of the retreat options are actually forced by desperation."
"Yes." Father Xue shook his head helplessly: "If marriage can give young people a sense of security, and they can give each other a sense of security, and at the same time they themselves can feel a sense of security, then naturally they don't have to worry too much. The key is that today's young people don't know how.
You can say they are realistic, but they seem to be more than realistic. You can say they are too calm, but they do a lot of crazy things all day long that scare the elderly from heart disease. In short, I don’t understand what is wrong with today’s young people.”
Mother Xue laughed and wiped the tips of her hands with a wet towel.
"If you could understand, you would be a young person! You are already in your 80s or 90s, and I still expect you to understand today's young people!"
Father Xue chuckled and scratched the few remaining white hairs.
"People at that time were not as fancy as we are now, and we didn't know what romance was. But most couples just wanted to live a good life. At that time, there were not even one or two divorces in the streets, or even in the entire factory area."
"Yes, yes." Xue's mother agreed: "There are very few in cities and counties, let alone rural areas in the countryside - some people don't even know that divorce is possible!"
"Times have changed." Xue Ling said with a smile: "With abundant materials, people will naturally pursue more spiritual freedom and enjoyment, and like to do whatever they want."
"It's too indulgent!" Xue's mother said solemnly: "Human beings, like animals, cannot be indulged, otherwise they will easily get lost and unable to find themselves!"
Xue Ling chuckled and ate by herself.
"It makes sense, but young people don't like to hear it."
Cheng Huanran on the side wiped the corners of his mouth and narrowed his eyes when he heard this.
"I prefer to listen. After all, I am a relatively traditional young man."
"You are still young!" Xue's father joked: "You are almost thirty - you are still young! When other people are your age, their children are already teenagers! Look at you, you want money, a house and a car.
There are cars, there are billions of women in the world - but you can't find a wife! Your grandpa and I married your grandma back then with just a shabby dormitory and a few crumpled love letters!"
Cheng Huanran: "..."
Well, he was wrong, very wrong. Facts have proved that as long as there is an age gap, the generation gap will always exist.
So Cheng Huanran ran away quickly.
"I'm full! I'm going to work!"
Father Xue laughed loudly.
Mother Xue stared at her daughter and asked: "Aren't you nervous? Ah? How old is your eldest son? You don't know? Other mothers spend all day looking for relatives, friends and best friends to introduce their sons to women, and they go to blind dates every day.
.Are you still my mother?"
Forehead?
Xue Ling asked innocently: "What does it have to do with me that he can't find a partner? He gets whatever he wants, and he looks like a human being. If he just can't find one, what can he do?"
"You - you indulge him too much!" Xue's mother scolded angrily.
Ahu on the side laughed and asked: "By the way, our little Huzi is several years younger than Ranran, and his son is already in kindergarten - are you really not nervous? Don't you want to take care of it?"
Cheng Tianyuan was slightly embarrassed and asked: "How should we manage it? How about finding someone to go on a blind date? Can he accept it? If you have the ability to find someone on your own, it would be too embarrassing to rely on your parents to find someone to introduce you!"
"Look! Look! This is such an unacceptable attitude!" Xue's father said with a smile: "You are just too indifferent, that's why he is so carefree and indifferent. Without pressure, where is the motivation?"
Xue Ling suppressed a laugh: "We shouldn't put this pressure on him! If he has the motivation, he will naturally pursue it. If he can catch up, that's his ability. If he can't catch up, it's because he doesn't have the ability."
"Then - what if he stays alone like this?" Xue's mother glared at her daughter and asked, "Do you really don't care? You just keep letting her go?"
Xue Ling shook his head: "I don't care. Unless he asks me for help, I really don't care. Mom, children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. We really can't control that much. Everyone has to live their own life well. I gave birth to him,
Raising him doesn't mean I have to help him live his life. I gave him guidance and taught him well when he was a child. Now that he is in his thirties, he knows what to do on his own. We shouldn't interfere too much at this time."
"What is this 'interference'?!" Xue's mother laughed and scolded: "When you wanted to marry A Yuan, you were not very willing at first! If your father and I hadn't persuaded you that he was a man worthy of your trust,
You are a lifelong good man, you may not be able to get married. If we don’t interfere, how can you have such a big and happy family now! Ah?!”