Xue Xin was frightened and rushed forward to hug her mother's arm.
"Mom, I was wrong, I was wrong! Don't be angry! I didn't mean to quarrel with him, it's because he always doesn't listen to me."
When Chen Xinzhi saw that his mother-in-law was angry, he did not dare to speak anymore and stood aside with his head lowered.
Xue Xin acted coquettishly: "Mom, I am really too busy, otherwise I would have gone home long ago. I want to go home every day -"
"My natal family." Xue Ling interrupted her and corrected her mistake: "You are already married. Your and Xinzhi's family is your home. This is just your natal family."
"Mom~~" Xue Xin pouted aggrievedly: "Why are you willing to push me outside? I know you are angry with me, but there is nothing I can do! I am extremely busy in the studio and can't spare any time.
Time comes back."
Xue Ling snorted coldly and asked: "Your Aunt Wang Qing has been ill for several months, so you hurried to the hospital with a few bags of nutritional supplements, said hello in a hurry, and then left in a hurry. Let me ask you - who
Who taught you to be so cold-hearted? "
The large living room suddenly became quiet, and the atmosphere became stagnant.
Xue Xin's face turned red and white, and she was extremely embarrassed. She didn't know how to explain it.
Chen Xinzhi felt sorry for her and apologized in a low voice: "Mom, it's my fault. She goes out early and comes back late, and even reverses day and night. She always makes a fuss and has no memory. She originally wanted to go to the hospital to visit Aunt Wang Qing.
Unexpectedly, she forgot about it later. It’s all my fault for not reminding her, it was my negligence.”
"It's not your fault." Xue Ling said solemnly: "It's your fault that your father and I neglected to discipline her. The third child and she were born from the same compatriots. Even though he is thousands of miles away and busy every day, he will still come every once in a while.
Give us a video. Say hello to Wang Qing and Ahu, video chat with your grandparents, and video chat with a few nephews and nieces when you have time, and send them small toys and gadgets from abroad. And what about you? What about you?"
Xue Xin shrank her head and buried her face in embarrassment, not daring to refute even a word.
Chen Xinzhi secretly thought something was wrong, and was about to step forward, but was stared back by Xue Ling.
Xue Ling said softly: "Xinzhi, although she is married to you and is the daughter-in-law of your Chen family, no matter how long she has been married or whose wife she is, the fact that she is my daughter will never change. She is
My daughter, even if she is eighty years old, as long as I am alive, I will be her mother. If she does something wrong, I have the responsibility to teach her."
"...Yes." Chen Xinzhi nodded hurriedly and whispered: "Mom, don't be angry. If you have something to say, speak slowly."
Xue Ling didn't want to speak slowly, so she gently shook her daughter's hand away.
"Xiao Xin, you are the youngest in the family. You have grandparents, grandparents, parents and several older brothers who love and care for you. So you have enjoyed more love and care than other brothers since you were a child. Just thought that
In this way, as long as no one reminds you, you will get carried away and only know how to focus on yourself and do everything according to what you want. Over time, you will not know how to be considerate of other people and neglect to respect your elders and juniors.
of love."
"Mom..." Xue Xin's eyes turned red, she retreated to Chen Xinzhi and murmured: "I... I'm really just too busy."
Xue Ling couldn't accept such a reason and said: "You are still young. Pursuing a career is a good thing and what you should do. But have your father and I taught you that there are many other important things in life besides career?
Something?"
Xue Xin was stunned and did not dare to speak again.
Xue Ling snorted: "Looking at it, who doesn't have a career? Responsible adults all have their own careers, big or small. When your father and your mother were pursuing their careers, they were busy day and night. But
Have we ever left the elderly alone? Have we ever left you alone? Career is very important, but why do we pursue our career? You said - why do you pursue your career?"
"I...I..." Xue Xin murmured: "Pursue my dream and make more money."
Xue Ling nodded: "It's right to pursue your dreams, and it's right to make money, but you should understand why you make money. Come on, tell me again. What do you make money for?"
"Just... just to realize my dream." Xue Xin whispered: "Have your own career, buy whatever you want, and realize your own financial freedom."
After hearing this, Xue Ling couldn't help but let out a long sigh.
"It seems like your dream is only for yourself. My kid, I'm right. If no one talks to you, you will become a selfish guy who only centers on yourself."
Xue Xin shed tears of grievance and nestled beside Chen Xinzhi.
Chen Xinzhi hugged her, but still didn't dare to interrupt.
Xue Ling stared at her daughter and said: "I have been young, and I have pursued my dreams. My dreams also include making a lot of money, but the purpose of making money is for my family, my family. I hope you
Live a richer life and have a more secure life. Moreover, I will not ignore the people around me, especially you, because of making money. I will clearly distinguish the priorities and will never be confused. If I ignore my family for the sake of making money
With family members, there is no point in making more money."
Xue Xin choked with sobs and whispered: "Mom, I...I'm just too busy lately..."
"I hope so." Xue Ling said: "You have done something wrong, and it is my duty as a mother to remind you. What should you focus on, how should you balance career and family, relatives and friends - these are all problems that you must face and solve.
"
Xue Xin couldn't help but protest: "Mom, sometimes I really can't balance it - unless I give it up, there's no way I can balance it all."
"Who said that?"
There are no absolutes in life. There is neither white nor black in the world. If you can't take both into account, then you have to give up? Who said that?"
"I...I was wrong." Xue Xin whispered repeatedly: "I just don't know how to balance."
Xue Ling was a little helpless and reminded: "Remember, if you give up, you will gain. If you don't give up one part, you won't get the other part. There is no need to give up, but to make reasonable arrangements to give up part. You may not see what you get for the time being, but the days are long.
If you do, you will slowly discover it.”
After a pause, she added: "Also, don't be too tight and don't put too much pressure on yourself. Too much is never enough. Only by exerting all your strength can you have the strongest strength. Relax appropriately and you may be able to walk faster.
some."
Xue Xin didn't know if she understood, so she whispered "Oh".
Chen Xinzhi nodded in agreement: "Mom is right."
"Stop talking now." Xue Ling glared at her daughter: "Don't keep grandpa and grandma waiting for too long. Let's go eat first. You still have a long way to go to learn!"