Xue Ling laughed dumbly: "Then do you want to consider buying it in advance?"
"I won't buy it." Zheng Duoduo explained: "At the same time, there are several small companies working on the same type. I can buy one and spend a lot of money on it, but I can't buy them all. First, this is not something she and I know well.
They should not act rashly in this field. Secondly, even if they succeed in buying it, they may not be able to run it successfully."
"Oh?" Xue Ling couldn't help but ask, "Is it because of Xiao Tong and her classmates?"
Zheng Duoduo nodded: "Sister, you have always been very accurate in judging people. You should know that Xiao Tong is not the kind of person suitable to be a leader."
"Yeah." Xue Ling smiled slightly: "Some people are suitable to be generals, and some people are only suitable to be soldiers. Xiao Tong has very good abilities, and her reaction and learning abilities are very good, but she does not have the courage and scheming to be a big leader.
There’s aura.”
Zheng Duoduo said "Alas!" and said: "She always thought that she had a good personality, good academic performance, and strong working ability. Now that she has finally graduated, it is time to show her talents. It is not bad to be ambitious, but it is difficult to meet with others.
Reality! Don’t think that graduate students from prestigious universities are so great. Now, no more than a decade ago, highly educated people are everywhere. If you go out and grab someone with either a master’s degree or a doctorate! But a high diploma does not mean high ability.”
Xue Ling listened for a long time and finally heard his specific troubles.
"So, you and Xiao Tong are at a stalemate here? Is there anything else?"
Zheng Duoduo thought that since he had said it, he would tell it all.
"It's not just that! She is also a mother for the first time, so it's inevitable that she has no experience, but she can't check her mobile phone and computer all day long to study randomly! Sometimes it's just a small problem, and she insists on looking at this and this, and then
I just scare myself and come up with a lot of theories. I haven’t even started taking care of my children yet, and I’m already making myself anxious.”
Xue Ling chuckled and asked, "Is there any more?"
"Yes!" Zheng Duoduo sighed and replied: "My mother is the mother of two sons. She raised Tietou and me with her own hands. She is very experienced in raising children, but little Tong always secretly dislikes my mother's inappropriate way of raising children.
That’s right, saying that failure to cultivate children’s learning abilities may cause children to lose at the starting line.”
Xue Ling: "..."
Zheng Duoduo rolled his eyes secretly and said angrily: "The child is only over one year old, where is his starting line?! A little kid who only knows how to drink milk and eat sticky food every day, there is no need to worry about his future?! I said
Well, Sister Lingling's children were not even one or two years old when they were engaged in some kind of "education class" education. Wouldn't all of them become top students? She said that things are different now, and children should pay more attention to quality education and various abilities.
Training - I was so angry that I told her directly that after she graduates, she will train her children by herself! My mother worked hard to raise her children, and it was hard work without any credit. My mother's efforts should not be denied! Wait for her
After graduation, I will ask Tietou to find an excuse to bring my mother here."
Xue Ling was amused for a while and then stopped.
"Don't be angry, it's just a small problem."
Zheng Duoduo didn't think so, explaining: "Sister, employment issues and childcare issues are both big issues. I really didn't expect that we would have such big differences on these two issues. She wants to start her own business, and I can support her.
But she is really not suitable! I tried to persuade her, but she didn’t listen, thinking that I just wanted to keep her working for me in the group. There are so many people in the group, and I am missing her? Huh?”
"She is not missing an employee." Xue Ling chuckled: "But she is the only wife, isn't she?"
Zheng Duoduo curled her lips aggrievedly: "Stop talking, ever since she went to graduate school, she has been surrounded by a bunch of self-righteous leftover women. Every day she boasts about various notions that women are omnipotent and all kinds of feminist rhetoric, which makes me a little annoyed. Sister, I'm not
I look down on women, but the one I love most is my mother! The woman I admire the most is you - you are both amazing women."
"Yeah." Xue Ling pursed her lips and smiled: "Okay, okay, it's really not a big deal."
Zheng Duoduo was delighted when he heard this: "Sister, what do you mean..."
"Leave her alone and wait and see what happens." Xue Ling expressed her thoughts directly and said warmly: "Xiao Tong came to work in the group after graduation. It can be said that she has climbed to the top in one step and came to your hands. You and I have specially trained her.
She, but she may think that this good platform is also one of her abilities. If she really wants to start a business, you should let her give it a try. She is now the wife of the CEO, a master's student from a prestigious school, beautiful and capable
, is when she is most energetic. If you stop her and pour cold water on her, how can she be willing to do so? It would be weird if she doesn't make trouble with you."
Zheng Duoduo laughed bitterly and explained: "Sister, aren't I afraid that she will be frustrated and hurt? She is my wife, how can I let her be whipped and tortured by society. Why should I work so hard? Isn't it just for the sake of the whole family?
Are you living a peaceful and smooth life, comfortable and healthy?"
"Women nowadays don't like to be little women under the protection of men." Xue Ling said with a smile: "She is still young, and it will be very good for her to undergo some training. Xiao Tong is not the kind of weak woman who cannot bear setbacks, so you don't need to worry about things in vain.
"
Zheng Duoduo couldn't help but ask again: "What about the children's education?"
Xue Ling chuckled: "It's still the same sentence - wait and see what happens. If she wants to take care of the children by herself after graduation, you can let her. Xin Zhi has always been very resourceful. Then you can secretly discuss it with him and let Xin Zhi
Find a good reason to take Sister Achun away. After Sister Achun is gone, she can raise her son however she wants."
"What if she can't handle it?" Zheng Duoduo was extremely worried and asked: "She has to start a business and take care of her children - how can she be so busy?"
Xue Ling shook his head: "Don't be afraid, let her give it a try. Anyway, there is a nanny at home to help, and sooner or later you will be my husband. She is not alone. Sometimes loving her is not about helping her do everything, not helping her make decisions, but more
Instead of persuading her with earnest words, quarreling with her and being in a stalemate, you should relax, give her time and space, and let her endure and hit the wall. Maybe she can truly appreciate the preciousness of someone helping her to protect her."
Zheng Duoduo hesitated, feeling extremely reluctant and tormented.
Xue Ling chuckled: "Everyone's personality is different. If it were my Xiaoxin, then I wouldn't dare to make such suggestions to Xinzhi. Xinzhi himself knows very well that Xiaoxin is the kind of person who can't live without the protection of others
She is a delicate girl like Yi. But Xiao Tong is different. You can let her try appropriately. If she falls and is dead, you can take action again. At that time, the effect will be completely different."
"...It seems not very good if my father-in-law and mother-in-law know that I won't help her." Zheng Duoduo hesitated: "Sister, you have to help me then."
Xue Ling was amused for a while: "If you don't stop her or help her in starting a business outside, you are helping her. You can't ignore the children at home, and you have a share in the children. Don't worry, you can control them appropriately. I
I will definitely help you."
"Thank you, sister!" Zheng Duoduo finally smiled: "I love you the most!"
"Okay, okay, let's go back early to spend time with our children."