Xue Huan felt that his eldest brother was a little too nervous and even worried.
"Xiaohan has grown up. She doesn't like to quarrel with you like she used to when she was rebellious. She is more sensible now. When she gets married in a few years, her ability to recognize people should be better.
"
Xue Heng, however, did not have much confidence in his daughter. He smiled bitterly: "She is a little sensitive by nature, and she doesn't know how to refuse other people's kindness to her. With a temperament like hers, as long as any man shows his attentiveness to her, she will be tempted very quickly.
."
"As long as you can be nice to her, that's enough!" Xue Huan teased: "Are your requirements for your son-in-law too high? You haven't even written your horoscope yet, and you have already set your requirements?"
Xue Ling laughed loudly: "Yes! You have already listed the standards for your future son-in-law in your heart, right?"
"No." Xue Heng smiled and shook his head: "She is the one getting married, not me. What do I do by setting standards? Is it useful? It's useless! I'm just in case, making complete preparations. If I can sincerely treat
Xiaohan is good, then everyone is happy, right? But if the other party has ulterior motives and is just coaxing her temporarily for supplies, then I have to be careful."
Xue Ling nodded in agreement: "We do need to be careful. If it's someone who knows everything, we don't have to worry. But the child is far away now and knows many people, so we can't take care of them all. People's hearts are unpredictable, so be careful.
It’s also good.”
"Yes." Xue Heng couldn't help but sigh lowly: "Xiaohan is a child who hides his thoughts deeply, but the emotions on his face are obvious. Such a person will easily suffer in the future."
Xue Huan advised: "When she graduates, it will be much safer to recruit her to the nursing home. With our help, it will be much safer."
"This is a good idea." Xue Ling praised it very much: "Xiaohan has a sensitive temperament and is not suitable to work in an outside company or unit. Otherwise, she may easily suffer losses or offend others. You are here to take care of her and train her carefully. Wait for her
I'm in my early thirties and I'm mature and stable, so I can feel more at ease then."
Xue Heng smiled bitterly: "We think it's good, but will she agree? Today's young people like to be lively and don't like to live in the suburbs. We are all half-elderly, so we like the quiet environment like a nursing home. Young people like
If you love entertainment, why would you want to stay in a nursing home!"
"Please advise." Xue Ling said: "At that time, you can find an excuse, saying that you are too busy, or that you are not in good health, and let her help temporarily. If you help, as time goes by, maybe she will like it.
The environment there is not necessarily the same. There are always more solutions than difficulties."
Xue Heng nodded: "Let's give it a try then. I'm just worried that she will fall in love with someone out of town in college and run away with her as soon as she graduates. She won't even have a chance to respond to us, and she won't be able to turn around any plans."
It’s all in vain.”
Xue Ling and Xue Huan both laughed and said, "If that's really the case, there's nothing we can do about it."
"If that's true..." Xue Heng smiled bitterly: "There is really no way. She has to walk her own path in life. As parents, we can only do our best to teach her, love her, and protect her as much as possible. But
It is beyond our reach. If we are really far away, we will only have as much as we can achieve."
"Don't think too much." Xue Huan stopped and said, "The opportunities in life are very wonderful. Most of the time, we can't expect them. When we encounter them, we should try our best to accept them calmly. Otherwise, what else can we do?"
Xue Ling nodded in agreement: "Yes, at our age, we can also see it."
"Yes." Xue Heng chuckled: "My mentality is much better now than before. Since I got used to living in the suburbs, surrounded by quiet mountains and forests, my mood has become much calmer without realizing it. I am less irritable and anxious, and I have more troubles.
Some calmness and poise.”
Xue Ling couldn't help but ridicule: "The eminent monks and masters all live in seclusion, otherwise how could they have such high cultivation? If you stay for a few more years, you may be able to see through the world of mortals."
"I have already seen through it." Xue Heng laughed loudly: "It's just that there is no need to become a monk!"
Xue Huan joked: "You don't have to lose your hair, it's almost all gone."
The three of them laughed again!
The chatting time flew by quickly, and soon it was noon.
Xue Ling stayed with them for lunch in Xinyuan and told them that they would be engaged on the Mid-Autumn Festival and would hold a wedding in the back garden at the end of the year.
Mother Xue laughed and said: "Ran Ran said, step by step, so that we don't have to worry. They are not in a hurry, but we are anxious all day long!"
“Are you not in a hurry?”
"It's already a lot." Dad Xue said with a smile: "I told them that we can't catch up in time, so we can only catch up with Yangyang and them in quantity."
"Hahaha!" Everyone laughed again and again.
"What a great idea! Try to have six children!"
"Of course you are the eldest son and the eldest grandson, so you should have more children!"
Xue Ling explained: "They said they didn't want to go to a big hotel and have a fancy hotel. They just invited some of their best relatives and friends to come to Xinyuan to witness their happiness. I originally thought that since he was the eldest son and the boss, he still had to make it lively.
That would be enough. With our current manpower and material resources, our family is still capable of having a grand wedding. But they all insist on not having it."
"An An seems to be a very quiet girl." Xue Zhilan nodded: "She probably doesn't like to be too lively."
Xue Ling chuckled: "They insist not to do it, and we can't force it. They are the ones who want to get married, so let them make their own decisions."
"Yes, yes." Xue Heng nodded: "Today's elders must have this correct attitude. Times have changed, and people's concepts have also changed. Respect young people's own choices, and don't regard their weddings as our elders'
It’s a big scene of human relations for generations. Today’s young people don’t like this.”
“I respect that!”
."
"Wow!" Xue Huan was extremely envious and said, "That's great! Just wait with your legs crossed to become a mother-in-law!"
Xue Ling greeted: "I won't invite friends from outside, only our own relatives. Your whole family, plus Ahu's family, and cousin Xue Cong's family - that's all. You have to arrive early,
Let’s see what those kids can do.”
"Don't worry, no matter what you do, it will be better than us." Xue Heng said with a smile.
"I'll definitely be there!" Xue Huan replied: "The children should have a holiday by then, so they all called over one by one to join in the fun."
Xue Zhilan nodded hurriedly: "Just these few families, the scene is lively enough. If you just calculate it, there must be dozens of people, right?"