Xue Zhilan shook his head: "When I was looking for a partner, no one thought so much...even if I regretted it later, I could only live with it."
Many people of their age do not have marriage certificates. Some workers in the workplace or people who live in big cities are more aware of marriage laws, so they will get a marriage certificate that looks like a grand prize.
The strange thing is that even if they don't have a marriage certificate, many people will not get divorced. Even if their lives are not satisfactory, they will make do with it and will not divorce randomly.
Therefore, there is almost no so-called divorce rate among people of their generation, and even if there is, it is extremely low.
Xue's father told the truth: "My third brother told me at the beginning that he was not satisfied with both of his daughters-in-law, but he has always been an open-minded person and just thought that his son would like her. Anyway, it was his son who married the wife, not him, so he didn't
How to control it."
"You are not satisfied after you get married, right?" Xue Zhilan asked.
Dad Xue nodded: "Yes! Otherwise, how could he find out that it was not good? The third brother said that whether a person has ability or not is one thing, but being narrow-minded and selfish is a matter of moral character. He said that he regretted teaching his son to read
He writes and teaches his sons to read and understand, but he forgets to teach them how to choose a partner."
"This..." Xue Zhilan smiled bitterly: "Even today's parents may not understand this. I am a person who has read books. When our children grow up, we are all ashamed to talk about such topics. My wife and I originally
They just let nature take its course, minding their own business, thinking that their children will naturally find a partner when they grow up - there is nothing to teach about this."
I believe that most parents are like this, and they are not the only ones.
"Facts have proved that a marriage with parental guidance will be more real." Xue's father explained: "It will also be stronger and happier. After all, parents are people who have been there and have experience in choosing a partner. Especially the kind that they have already regretted.
, and we should guide our children not to make the same mistakes when it comes to marriage matters."
"It makes sense." Xue Zhilan agreed: "In many cases, the so-called enlightenment should not mean laissez-faire, but slowly teach you how to choose a suitable partner during your daily interactions with your children. The ancients said - Marry a virtuous wife,
It is the best teaching material.”
"The ancients said it in too general terms." Father Xue chuckled: "However, this is an eternal saying. A virtuous and intelligent woman is naturally the best. With good character, even if her ability is mediocre, her family will still be stable, stable and happy.
.”
Cheng Tianyuan watched Xue Sheng and the others leave, walked back to the living room, and heard the two old men chatting happily.
"Dad, uncle, you should have taught us earlier! I'm just sighing now - it seems too late."
Both old men laughed.
"In the past, when we were young and became parents, we didn't understand."
"That's right! I realized it slowly as I got older and my ideas matured."
Cheng Tianyuan joked: "I have been married to a daughter-in-law all my life, and I finally realized that the ancients never deceived me."
All three of them laughed.
Suddenly, Xue Zhilan remembered something and asked: "Ayuan, Master Qing has been a big help this time, should we prepare some thank you gifts?"
"No need." Cheng Tianyuan said: "We are all our own people, no need to bother."
Xue Zhilan knew that Lin Qingzhi walked around Xinyuan a lot and was inseparable from Cheng Huanchong, so when he heard what he said, he didn't force himself anymore.
Half a month later, Xue Yue was discharged from the hospital.
He wanted to come to Xinyuan to find Xue Ling, but Xue Ling refused to see him.
He quietly went to the entertainment company to inquire, and found that the company's top management had made a drastic change and had completely changed. There was no one acquaintance who could inquire about the information.
At this time, his wife was divorcing him, and he beat her in anger. Xue Yue was arrested and taken to the police station again and locked up.
Xue Chang called for help, but everyone gave some perfunctory words of comfort and no one was willing to come forward.
Mrs. Liu pestered and begged at Xue Cong's door for a long time. In the end, Xue Cong had to ask a lawyer to adjust the bail, and then Xue Yue was fished out.
Despite this, the daughter-in-law still did not give up and insisted on filing for divorce.
Mrs. Liu went to the nursing home again and pestered the two brothers Xue Heng and Xue Huan to help pay for the house. She temporarily hid it from her daughter-in-law and said that the house was not for sale because she was reluctant to leave her son at such a young age.
Xue Heng and Xue Huan were both very embarrassed and secretly called their old father to ask.
"Dad, our family doesn't lack a big house to live in. We don't need to buy a small house at all. The so-called 'help to buy' actually means that we help pay for the money. The house is nominally ours, and they still live in it.
.”
Xue Zhilan was extremely hesitant and asked: "What do you think?"
"We just don't know." Xue Heng said helplessly, "That's why I asked you!"
Xue Zhilan sighed again.
The eldest son lowered his voice and explained: "What she means is that Xinyuan has helped them withstand most of the pressure, the amount has been negotiated, and my uncle is willing to pay for the remaining money. But our family still has
There is no actual help, so something must be done.”
Xue Zhilan frowned and asked: "Why didn't she look for her daughter? Her daughter's financial situation is also good, why did she only catch you?"
Xue Heng said angrily: "How did I know? She is now in the office and is desperate for life. She even threatened that if her son and wife were separated, she would die."
"You can figure it out on your own." Xue Zhilan said impatiently: "I've been so annoyed by their family recently that I don't even want to talk anymore."
"Okay." Xue Heng had to compromise: "Since our family has to help, let's buy it. However, the real estate certificate must be transferred. If they want to cheat in the future, we also have evidence in hand. Let them live there, no problem.
But since we are selling a house, we must go through the procedures for selling the house.”
Xue Zhilan said, "You two brothers can discuss it," and then hung up.
After receiving a satisfactory answer, Mrs. Liu hurriedly ran to her daughter-in-law and told her that the house did not need to be sold and that a relative was willing to help pay for it.
Unexpectedly, the daughter-in-law was still determined to get a divorce.
Mrs. Liu threatened her that if they got divorced, she would have no share in any of the family's property, because the house was in Xue Chang's and hers' names and had nothing to do with Xue Yue.
Moreover, the family's house and car were pre-marital property, and she didn't have any share in them.
The daughter-in-law didn't care at all, saying that her job was stable, but Xue Yue was burdened with gambling debts and there was evidence of domestic violence, so she would definitely be able to win custody of her two children.
When Mrs. Liu heard this, she became anxious instantly.
She came to Xinyuan to find Xue's father and asked them to help make the decision. She could not let her daughter-in-law fight for the custody of the child, otherwise her daughter-in-law would definitely take them to remarry in the future, and the bloodline of Xue Chang's family would be cut off.
Father Xue was so tired that he gave up.
"I'm going to have to worry about you even for the rest of my life. How can I have so many worries?"
Xue Zhilan was frightened and took her brother to hide in the back garden.