Chapter 2099 The most difficult thing is the parents
Xue Ling packed up the dishes and went to the kitchen to clean them.
Cheng Tianyuan felt a little cold and went back to the room to find an extra thin shirt to wear.
The huge living room became more and more empty. The night was cold outside the window, and the room seemed even more lonely and desolate.
After Cheng Huanran finished eating the pork, he started boiling water to make tea.
"Uncle Heng, let's have some tea."
Xue Heng's head was dizzy and he beckoned: "Have a big drink...I need to wake up."
Cheng Huanran hurriedly poured a cup and said, "It's still a little hot, please wait a little longer before drinking."
"Thank you." Xue Heng apologized: "You are so tired that you have to stay up late with us. However, why don't you go back to sleep first. You have to go to work tomorrow, so don't delay your work."
"It doesn't matter." Cheng Huanran explained: "There is no morning meeting tomorrow, so it doesn't matter if I go there a little later. I can just leave later in the afternoon and finish the work."
Xue Heng couldn't help but sigh: "Your mother has many children, so you are the most suitable successor to inherit the pharmaceutical group. There are many people in the group, and with you here, she hardly has to worry about business now, and she can be fully at home.
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"My mother is still very busy." Cheng Huanran said with a smile: "She has to take care of her grandparents and help take care of Xiaozhu and the others, so it's not easy."
Xue Heng shook his head: "People of our age can't be too busy, otherwise something will happen easily. Your mother is just right like this, she won't be too tired, and she won't have nothing to do. People, I'm afraid of being too busy and anxious, and I'm also afraid of being too busy.
Being so lazy makes you sick."
"Yes." Cheng Huanran agreed: "I also think she is just right now."
Xue Heng couldn't help but sigh; "I am almost the same age as her. But she is much more successful than me, not only in career, but also in family."
"Uncle Heng, you are also very successful." Cheng Huanran said truthfully: "Your career achievements are great, there is no need to belittle yourself."
Xue Heng shook his head: "Without your grandfather's support and your mother's support, it would be completely impossible."
Cheng Huanran chuckled: "Your ability is obvious to all, otherwise why doesn't grandpa help others? Why does my mother always pull you along in everything? Right?"
Xue Heng smiled, holding his head and looking at him.
"Of course, listen to my uncle's advice - you must have more children after you get married."
Forehead?
Cheng Huanran chuckled: "An An and I both like children, and we plan to have three or four."
"Very good!" Xue Heng praised hurriedly: "A woman who likes children will love her family more and have a greater sense of family responsibility. The fact that she can agree to bear several children for you proves that she is a very caring woman who loves her family.
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Cheng Huanran chuckled and explained: "I am not too young, and she is not too young. I hope to be pregnant next year, whether it is a boy or a girl, and I will try to have three."
"Good, good."
…There are too few children.”
"Uncle Heng, your... situation is quite special." Cheng Huanran comforted.
Xue Heng nodded: "I have some obstacles, but the doctor said it will not affect fertility. It may be slower, but it is not impossible. At that time, my mind was all about work, money and future, and I always felt that having Xiaohan was enough.
If I can't bring one of them, how can I bring one or two more. Now that I think about it, I really regret it."
"One child is quite good." Cheng Huanran said: "Many families have only children, one is enough."
Xue Heng shook his head: "It may be good in other families, but not in my family... If Xiaohan could have one more younger brother and sister to keep her company, she would be more responsible and her personality might be more cheerful."
"Yeah." Cheng Huanran agreed: "Children who have brothers and sisters at home will know how to get along with others better, and will also tend to be more cheerful and stronger. In general, it cannot be generalized."
Xue Heng smiled bitterly and sighed: "This is my personal experience and cannot represent everyone. In fact, my uncle has always secretly regretted it. He doesn't want you, the younger generation, to forget the most important things when you are old enough to have children and raise them. Don't regret it after your age.
But there is nothing you can do about it, so don’t make the same mistake I made.”
"Yeah." Cheng Huanran listened carefully.
Xue Heng leaned on the sofa and whispered quietly: "Some people say that having children is only a very important thing in life, but it is not the whole life - I still agree with this. Until I saw the animal world,
I discovered that many animals spend their entire lives just to have children, and are even willing to sacrifice themselves to give birth to offspring. At that time, I suddenly realized that many of us may not truly understand the meaning of 'life'. The most important thing in life is continuation.
, and continuation depends on the reproduction of offspring. If there are no offspring, life will eventually perish and disappear."
Cheng Huanran nodded: "You may not have thought so much when you were young. Only when you get older and have experienced more things can you understand the true meaning of life."
Xue Heng whispered: "It would be fine if I was born unruly or disabled, so I don't reproduce or have children. But I'm not too bad. Our ancestors have reproduced and reproduced for generations, so how come our generation has withered away. Later I
Thinking about it, the main reason is that we pay too much attention to ourselves and only think about ourselves at that time instead of thinking deeply."
"Uncle Heng, you are doing quite well now." Cheng Huanran couldn't help but advise: "You have a successful career, your children have grown up, and the wealth you have accumulated is enough for you to take care of yourself until the end of your life, and for Xiaohan to spend several lifetimes."
Xue Heng shook his head: "I am quite good, but Xiaohan... was raised crookedly by us. She has grown a lot in the past few years, but it is not enough. It doesn't matter whether I am good or not, I just think about the future of my descendants.
I can't help but worry when I'm worried. I entrusted the money in my name to your mother's care just in case, and to take precautions before it happens."
Cheng Huanran secretly felt sorry for him and whispered: "Uncle Heng, don't think too much. Being a parent is the most difficult. You just go to work without any training and rely on yourself to save every bit. If you teach your children well, you can still
Some psychological comfort. If the teaching is not good, you will have all kinds of anxiety and worries. After having children, many people live for their children. In fact, most parents are great and have a hard time - including you.
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Many parents want to raise their children to be excellent and powerful, to be better than others, and even hope that their children will become dragons and their daughters will become phoenixes.
But who can really do it?
Human beings have been exploring how to raise and teach children well since ancient times. Unfortunately, to this day, they have not been able to come up with a set of methods that everyone agrees with.
"Alas..." Xue Heng said melancholy: "After she was born, we didn't know how to take care of her. She relied on the elderly to take care of her when she was a child, and your grandparents were the main force. Later, something happened to your aunt, and she was so cute.
My daughter is not a son who can spank, spank and scold. I take care of her and love her in every possible way. The mistake also started from that time. As she grows up, I have to deal with it in a hurry. Your mother is right, I really don’t know how to educate.