Xue Ling reminded him warmly: "Talk to him more. Duoduo has a bad mouth, but he has always been like this. You know him."
Zheng Duoduo has always been a good talker, not only in business, but also in life.
He has a bit of a venomous mouth and a lot of evil thoughts. She has been in love with him and been married for several years, so she should know him very well.
"Well." Xiao Tong whispered: "I... haven't talked to him for a long time."
Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "How can it work like this? Husband and wife still have to be secretive and can't talk and communicate more, so who can we talk to? Huh?"
There were almost no secrets between her and Cheng Tianyuan. The two of them had always talked about everything and never deliberately concealed anything from each other.
Especially when there is a big event at home, the two of them will discuss it with each other seriously to ensure that they are in agreement.
Husband and wife are essentially one body, and it is not good to be too clear and too clear, and it is not good to be too confused.
Xiao Tong was speechless for a moment and shed tears looking at the bitter coffee in front of him.
"I...I don't know how we got to this point. Auntie, my heart is really messed up...and I am very tired."
Seeing her like this, Xue Ling secretly felt sad.
"You have always been very smart, but you just got distracted and made a mistake. Fortunately, it has not reached the point of irreversibility yet. It would be better to correct it sooner."
Xiao Tong was deep in thought, seemingly unaware of where he had gone wrong.
"Auntie, you...do you find it difficult?"
Xue Ling was stunned by her question, then smiled softly and asked: "What is so difficult?"
Xiao Tong whispered: "We women."
Xue Ling finally heard it and nodded hastily: "Of course it's difficult, it's very, very difficult."
Xiao Tong seemed to hear his own voice and started to cry excitedly.
"When I wasn't married before, I didn't think it was... difficult. But since I got married and had a family, I have to study, have a baby, and start a business... I'm afraid of not being able to catch up with others, and also afraid of falling behind others. I can take care of it.
I didn’t care about this or that…it was all messed up, everything was messed up, and in the end it seemed like nothing could be done well.”
Xue Ling patted the back of her hand and said warmly: "Don't cry, Auntie understands."
"Auntie, was it so difficult for you back then?" Xiao Tong choked and asked, "Have you ever thought about simply being a housewife?"
Xue Ling shook his head: "My children were young and my career had just started. It was indeed very difficult at that time. But I am not suitable to be a housewife. Like you, I have a very strong career ambition, so I never thought about going home to be a housewife.
.However, I am a little better than you. The social environment back then was not as anxious and anxious as it is now, so I had enough time to pursue a career."
"You are also luckier than me." Xiao Tong whispered: "Uncle Cheng has always been very supportive of your career."
Xue Ling nodded: "Yes, but you are just as lucky. In fact, as long as the time is right and the project is good enough, Duoduo will support you very much in the future. His objection to your business this time is because the project is not good enough and you have to endure it.
Success is too difficult, and it’s not about starting a business for you - do you understand?"
Xiao Tong couldn't help but ask: "Really? That's what he said?"
"Yeah." Xue Ling explained: "I'm not familiar with the business your current company is engaged in, but Duoduo and Yangyang have been in contact with each other, and they also got to know each other carefully, and they think it won't work in the long run. He also told me,
It’s not that I don’t support you, it’s that I can’t support this project and will end up losing money and dying from exhaustion.”
Xiao Tong muttered dissatisfied: "He--he didn't tell me what he did!"
"He said that you were in high spirits at the time, so you didn't listen to him." Xue Ling smiled and said, "Young and energetic, like to stick to your own ideas. This is the biggest characteristic and the biggest common problem of young people."
Xiao Tong blushed and hesitated: "Auntie, what do you mean-"
"What I mean is to advise you to re-plan." Xue Ling explained: "If it is really difficult and you can't hold on, it is better to let go and get out as soon as possible to avoid more losses in the future. There is no such thing as a profit in business.
If you lose money, get out of it as soon as possible and don't let yourself get stuck in the quagmire. You must have enough determination and courage to stop the loss in time. It is a difficult decision to make calmly."
Xiao Tong was thoughtful and seemed to be weighing the pros and cons.
"Auntie, if I don't take the opportunity to work hard..."
Xue Ling shook his head gently: "You are still young, and there are still a lot of opportunities to start a business. There is no need to rush. How many people in this world can make a lot of money on their own at a young age? Most people take one step at a time.
It’s accumulated bit by bit. There are people with extraordinary talents, but they are definitely not many!”
After a pause, she added: "If you don't want to go to Duoduo and are afraid of being affected by his halo, then don't go for the time being. The group will definitely not be able to move on without him, but after you left the group for several years, the group is still
That’s great. If you have something else you like, you are free to pursue it.”
"But I..." Xiao Tong smiled bitterly: "I have nothing else for now... and I don't know what to do."
Xue Ling reassured: "Wait, don't be anxious. Look at our Xiaoxiao, she originally wanted to work, but several children at home couldn't live without her, so she gave Yangyang the opportunity and stayed at home for the time being.
She took care of several children. However, she did not waste time. She taught herself economic management in the morning and evening when she had free time. She learned to take care of some properties and shares in Yangyang's name. She was not only Yangyang's good wife, but also his work assistant.
Partner, Xiao Tong, don’t push yourself too hard.”
Xiao Tong's eyes flashed slightly, still a little hesitant.
"Auntie, actually I can't let go of my son, he is still so young... but many people around me advise me to be careful. They said that once I go home and become a housewife and have babies one after another, I will slowly follow the society in the future.
I am out of touch, slowly being eliminated by society, and in the end I have no choice but to be an old mother. When my children grow up, they have their own circle of friends and studies, and my husband has his own career, in the end I am left with nothing, and may even be disliked by my husband.
Or abandon it.”
Xue Ling chuckled: "I have said that it is only temporary. If you are ambitious, sooner or later you will be able to find a career that suits you and start a new business. If you are out of touch with society and eliminated by society, the real person who decides is you, not your husband.
Or children, let alone anyone else.”
Xiao Tong was stunned for a moment, then suddenly smiled.
"Auntie, I...I think I understand."
Xue Ling smiled lovingly: "You are a smart child. With a little guidance, you will understand naturally. You are still young, and you still have a lot of time to seize every possible opportunity. Don't be anxious, let alone
Anxiety, your starting point is already higher than that of your peers, and the lover around you is also capable of giving you a higher platform to develop. Therefore, you should be more confident that you can take it and let it go."