Cheng Huanran lowered his eyes and whispered: "He...may still need time. Maybe he will want to remarry if he has the opportunity to meet the right person in the future."
There are no absolutes in anything, and some things are hard to say too early.
Before he met An An, he had no interest in getting married and was not even interested in falling in love.
When the person in your life appears, everything falls into place.
Xue Yang didn't have much confidence, explaining: "Once a person passes that age, his heart changes. Men, forty is still a flower, but when you reach fifty or sixty, it's a different story."
Cheng Huanran was very optimistic and said: "It would be great to find a partner to live with by then!"
"Hopefully." Xue Yang curled his lips: "Anyway, he already has two sons. He is not afraid of being alone in his life, and he is not afraid of having no one to see him when he dies."
"Go, go, go!" Cheng Huanran laughed and scolded: "Can you say something good? Can you hope that he will be well?!"
Xue Yang smiled helplessly: "No! What's wrong with what I just said? What's wrong? Old people with descendants will not be too miserable, especially a rich old man. After his club is built, his worth
It won’t be low. When the child grows up, he won’t be considered old. Then he will be free and easy, have money and leisure, and there’s nothing wrong with that.”
"That's right." Cheng Huanran chuckled dumbly: "Little Huzi loves to be lively and has a smart mind. He will not make his life miserable."
Xue Yang nodded in agreement and said: "If he didn't have children, he would probably remarry and have children. But he already has two sons. He is busy making money and raising his sons. He is already extremely busy. How can he have time and energy to go there again?
Do something else. For some people, marriage is a pit. Once you fall into it and finally climb out, how can you be stupid enough to get rid of it one more time? After being stupid one time, you will be stupid one more time? Huh?"
"It depends on the person." Cheng Huanran lowered his voice: "Our family still believes in love."
Xue Yang shook his head: "Most people no longer believe in love after getting married. To be honest, most of my friends said they regretted getting married after getting married, and few said they were very happy and regretted not getting married earlier."
"Marriage is different from love." Cheng Huanran analyzed: "Love is the sweet relationship between two people, and marriage will add many other elements. Family, children, work and family triviality, etc. You should not have too much emphasis on marriage.
Have high expectations, otherwise you will be easily disappointed.”
Xue Yang didn't understand what he heard and asked: "What do you mean? Don't you look forward to marriage?"
"How is that possible?" Cheng Huanran explained: "People who want to get married will naturally have expectations, but the content of expectations varies from person to person. I look forward to growing old together with my beloved woman, raising our children well, and spending a lifetime together.
. Some people are looking forward to transcending social classes and achieving financial freedom. For example, my friend’s sister I mentioned just now, she just wants to get to a higher level of wealth through marriage. If her partner disappoints her in the future, she will naturally
You will be disappointed in your marriage."
"Yes." Xue Yang said: "People who are looking forward to love may not be satisfied. Marriage is not as passionate as falling in love. Age, work, children and various trivial things will distract the attention. How can the passion last for decades? For
Right? So, the majority of people regret it.”
Cheng Huanran smiled slightly and shook his head: "Actually, the worst thing is that many people habitually place their expectations on other people. If you place your hopes on others, you will be more likely to be disappointed."
“Yes, yes!”
, and then find excuses to get divorced."
Cheng Huanran said warmly: "Set some goals for yourself and demand less from others, so that you can live a happier life. To put it more elegantly, it means tolerating the loved ones around you, working more and complaining less, and only then can you live a happy life. Don't give, expect.
Others pay, or you just pay blindly, while others sit back and enjoy the benefits. Sooner or later, various problems will arise, and the marriage will be riddled with holes, so how can it be possible to be happy."
"Yes." Xue Yang said very confidently: "I don't have any requirements for Xiaoxiao, and she doesn't put any requirements or conditions on me. I understand that it is not easy for her to raise children, and she understands that it is hard for me to make money. I pay, and she pays, too.
You don’t have to compare yourself to be happy!”
Cheng Huanran nodded: "Yes, An An and I will definitely learn from you in the future."
Xue Yang laughed loudly.
Cheng Huanran said happily: "Don't think I'm joking, I'm serious. You got married a few years earlier than us, and you have a lot of experience worth learning from. There is no happy family for no reason, right? Every family has its own happiness.
The way. You and Xiaoxiao are considerate and tolerant of each other - it’s worth learning from us!”
"Mom and dad are more worthy of your study." Xue Yang raised his fingers and counted: "They are the type who support each other. Grandpa and grandma are the type who love and respect each other. Uncle Ahu and the others are the type where men are strong and women are soft - there are many!"
Cheng Huanran nodded in approval: "Study hard and make progress every day. We will learn one by one."
"The type of parents is the most worthy of recognition!" Xue Yang explained: "Xiaoxiao and I need to learn from our parents. Not only in terms of how to get along as a husband and wife, but also in terms of teaching children."
"Oh?" Cheng Huanran asked funnyly: "Which aspect should you teach your children? Give them enough space and freedom? Or the aspect of marriage choice?"
Xue Yang laughed loudly and said: "To be honest, our family is a breath of fresh air among wealthy families. It doesn't matter what kind of marriage between wealthy families, or whether you don't like how rich people end up getting married, it's all up to you. That's all.
A little is very rare."
"That's right." Cheng Huanran said with a smile: "The main reason is that our parents have laid a good foundation for us, giving us the right to choose and giving us enough space to choose freely. For our parents, it doesn't matter what kind of marriage we use.
Consolidate the family business and continue to do it if you can do it well. Making money is not just about making more money. Parents are not greedy people. Knowing the love of their children is the best foundation for marriage and family."
Xue Yang patted his chest and said: "To be honest, I am very grateful to my parents. They did not trade my marriage and gave me the biggest choice in my life."
"You want to be a sports student, didn't your parents finally agree?" Cheng Huanran chuckled: "Your grades were not too bad back then, so you don't need to take the sports student route. One book is out of reach, but the second book is still
It's very possible. But in the end, your parents still follow your own ideas and let you choose the sport you love most."
"That's right." Xue Yang laughed loudly, "I chose my career and love myself - I have no regrets in this life."