Cheng Tianyuan also felt that this was more appropriate and agreed: "Seek the advice of a psychiatrist first."
Xue Ling actually agreed to take Xue Han over and whispered: "This child needs a more lively and happy environment. Uncle Zhilan is over there. All of us, old and young, are familiar with her and should be more familiar with her condition.
good."
"I think so too." Cheng Tianyuan explained: "She was locked up in the nursing home for too long before she suddenly broke out... Of course there must be other reasons."
Xue Ling couldn't help but asked curiously: "Other reasons? Really?"
"Yeah." Cheng Tianyuan lowered his voice: "I heard from A Chong that maybe Xiaohan's relationship is not going well."
Xue Ling asked: "Lost in love?"
"Maybe not." Cheng Tianyuan explained: "It seems to be a secret love...no results."
Xue Ling couldn't help but sigh: "Why is this kid always getting into trouble?"
"It's not her fault, right?" Cheng Tianyuan said.
Xue Ling covered herself with a thin quilt and whispered: "It's not that I can't blame her. It may be due to her personality, or she may not be able to handle emotional problems well. If it happens once or twice, it may be other reasons. If it always happens
If there is a problem, it must not only be external factors, but also her own problems."
"That's right." Cheng Tianyuan smiled bitterly: "That girl has an awkward personality, has impetuous ideas, doesn't have much knowledge in her belly, is simple-minded and likes to think wildly. The more I interact with her, the more I feel that she has a serious problem."
Xue Ling sighed softly: "Ah Heng didn't know how to teach children, he only knew how to love her and pamper her. It wasn't until he found out the problem later that he couldn't solve it, so he could only worry. Ah Fang missed part of Xiao Han's growth period, and added
She doesn’t know how to guide her children. The more problems accumulate, the longer they go by, the more they will naturally be exposed and explode.”
Cheng Tianyuan still insisted: "As long as the psychiatrist agrees, let's keep her with us. My sister is just such a child... I really can't bear it."
Xue Ling understood his painstaking efforts, but had to remind her husband.
"If they are our own children, we have the responsibility to raise them well. We can scold or even beat them. But Xiaohan is not our biological daughter, and we have to control her size. We can treat her as a child.
You love your daughter, but you can’t teach her as a daughter. She has a grandfather above her and a dad below her, so you can’t take all the responsibilities. Try your best to guide and help as much as you can, but you can’t take over everything, let alone shoulder everything.”
"It's just..." Cheng Tianyuan whispered: "This is difficult to control. If you want to take more care of her, you have to teach her the same way you teach your children."
Xue Ling shook his head: "In my opinion, try not to do it."
Cheng Tianyuan hesitated for a few seconds and said: "When you said that, I suddenly realized that I might have picked up a hot potato and had to throw it away. It might be a typical big trouble."
Xue Ling turned to look at him and whispered: "Don't take it too seriously. I'm just reminding you to control your situation."
Cheng Tianyuan suddenly remembered Xue Yang's words and asked: "Daughter-in-law, have you noticed that none of the children seem to like Xiaohan very much?"
“Yes.”
Brother and cousin, they are not confused at all."
Cheng Tianyuan sighed again.
Xue Ling consoled him: "Nine times out of ten things in the world are not as you wish. It is impossible for everything to come according to your wishes or expectations."
Cheng Tianyuan squinted at the old photos in the album and whispered: "The old man passed away, I shouldn't have talked about it...Actually, my parents loved A Fang so much. They always thought she was still young and waited until she grew up.
It would have been nice to be a few years ago, but as she grew older, she became more and more crooked. She skipped school, dropped out of school, and eloped with someone. Even if she woke up halfway, she still made the wrong mistake. One wrong step, every wrong step, and everything was lost. Xiaohan didn't become unlucky for no reason.
It looks like this.”
"It's all historical reasons." Xue Ling advised: "We can't change it, can we?"
Cheng Tianyuan closed the photo album and whispered: "I'm just summarizing the reasons. I'm not blaming anyone. This has already happened. Even if you know whose fault it is, it can't change the reality."
Xue Ling helped him cover him with a quilt and said, "You should be optimistic and don't worry about being sad. The doctor told you not to be startled and not to think wildly. Try to be as peaceful as possible. Get more rest and don't do strenuous exercise."
"I understand." Cheng Tianyuan said warmly: "You have to take care of yourself first before you can take care of others."
"Yes." Xue Ling patted his chest and said softly: "My parents and Xiaohan are still waiting for us to take care of you. You must get better as soon as possible."
Cheng Tianyuan obediently answered yes and held her hand.
"Thank you for your hard work these days."
Xue Ling leaned on his pillow and whispered: "Don't scare me in the future... Although the children told me in advance that you were fine before they said you were sick, I was still shocked. It was only a few days ago.
If you don't see me, something will happen to you. At our age, we can't bear to be scared."
Because once an accident occurs at this age, it is very likely to be very dangerous.
Cheng Tianyuan stroked her back gently and murmured: "I didn't dare to let anything happen to me. I felt a dull pain in my heart and immediately pressed the emergency button. I didn't dare to waste a second."
After a pause, he sighed with emotion: "When you said you wanted to install an emergency button in our room, I told you no need, just install it for the elderly. Fortunately, you insisted at that time, otherwise you would have fainted if you didn't have time to make a phone call.
Unfortunately, when the children wake up the next morning and find out, it may be too late."
"Fortunately, I persisted." Xue Ling said: "Because I know that we are not young anymore, and there may be an unexpected day. One more button may not be used at ordinary times, but it can save lives at critical moments. What did I tell you at that time?
Come on, it would be better if you don’t have to use it for the rest of your life. Anyway, it’s your own decoration, so it doesn’t cost more than a button.”
Cheng Tianyuan melancholy whispered: "Yes, year after year, and then we will all grow old."
"People will always grow old." Xue Ling has become much more gentle with the word "elderly". "Take good care of your body, don't make yourself uncomfortable, and don't cause trouble to your children."
Cheng Tianyuan asked with a low smile: "What? Some people think I'm troublesome? Have I become a drag on them?"
"No way." Xue Ling said with a sour tone: "Everyone is surrounding you, more nervous than me, and taking better care of you than me."
Cheng Tianyuan smiled happily and said, "They are all well-behaved and considerate."
"It's only a few days." Xue Ling hummed: "There is no dutiful son in bed for a long time. Can you try to wait longer?"
Cheng Tianyuan looked at her funny and said: "If you can't eat the grapes, you say the grapes are sour. I have great confidence in them."
"Farewell." Xue Ling gave him a roll of his eyes, and then simply closed his eyes: "I don't want such 'grapes'."