At dinner, the whole family had a great time and had a great time.
Bei Xinyao sat next to Lin Ming and very wisely did not ask about Lin Ming's visit to his father in prison today.
Because, she also knows.
My parents were not ready to face such a thing.
After dinner, Bei Lieguo and his wife called Lin Ming and Bei Xinyao over, with serious faces.
Lin Ming looked at it, feeling slightly confused.
Bei Lieguo sat at the front of the sofa and looked at Lin Ming and Bei Xinyao who were sitting together, "When are you two going to get married?"
Hearing this, Lin Ming and Bei Xinyao were both stunned.
Lin Ming glanced at Bei Xinyao, only to find that the other party just buried her head slightly, her eyes not daring to look at him, and there was a blush on her handsome face.
It's obvious.
Bei Xinyao knew in advance that the two elders were urging them to get married.
And, looking at it like this, I don’t object to it.
Lin Ming also had a smile on his face. He looked at Bei Lieguo and said with a smile, "Uncle, I'm going to pick a good day next month. Do you think it's okay?"
Bei Lieguo's expression was serious, and his aura was quite majestic. His eyes were fixed on Lin Ming's eyes, wanting to know whether what Lin Ming said was true.
"Lin Ming, you have to know that Yaoyao has your child and is now yours. You must be responsible for her. This is the responsibility of a man."
Lin Ming nodded, "I understand!"
"Also, I hope the wedding will be more grand. Only in this way can we make up for your debt to Yaoyao. You know, she gave birth to a child before marriage. In our country, in ancient times, she was punished with death, even if she was released.
Nowadays, you will be despised by others."
Lin Ming opened his mouth, with a look of confusion and shock on his face.
How old is this, and there are still such ancient ideas?
However, thinking that no matter what Bei Lieguo said, he was always thinking about his wife, so Lin Ming nodded and expressed his agreement without saying anything more.
Lin Ming said: "Definitely, this is Yaoyao's first time, my first time, and it is also the first and only time in our lives, so it must be grand."
Wang Xinlian spoke at this time: "One more thing, the man and the woman have to hold a wedding each."
When Lin Ming heard this, he nodded and said, "It's absolutely okay."
As he spoke, he looked at the woman sitting next to him. Bei Xinyao's head was still slightly buried. At this time, he suddenly found that his hand was held by a strong big hand.
Bei Xinyao was also slightly stunned and raised her head to look at Lin Ming.
In her beautiful eyes, bursts of splendor flashed.
Lin Ming knew that the reason why Wang Xinlian said this was for the sake of her own daughter, so that people among them would know that their daughter was already wanted, and that she was not the kind of widow who was despised by everyone.
As the saying goes, do as the Romans do.
Lin Ming did not object to this, on the contrary, he supported it.
"There are also other things related to marriage, such as betrothal gifts, return gifts, and other necessary processes that must be completed. I am telling you this not to ask how much you want, but to let people know that my family
My daughter is wanted by someone, but she is still the kind of person who cares for her and loves her."
"Uncle, aunt, you can do whatever you say. I don't have any objections." Lin Ming raised his head and looked at the two elders with a faint smile on his face.
In his heart, Bei Xinyao was already his wife.
No matter how much gift the other party wants, he will always agree.
"Mom and Dad, we are not children anymore. We know what to do." Bei Xinyao couldn't help but say something as she watched her man resist the pressure brought by his parents alone.
When Wang Xinlian saw Bei Xinyao speaking, she immediately smiled, turned to look at her old man, and said with a smile: "Look, what I said."
"This girl hasn't even gotten married yet, and she's starting to speak for her man."
"Hey, I'm so sad."
Bei Lieguo also had a serious face and said in a serious manner: "Isn't that what the so-called married daughter is like when she throws water away?"
When Bei Xinyao heard this, she immediately started mumbling: "Dad...Mom..."
When the two elders saw this, they immediately smiled and said, "Okay, okay, can we just stop talking?"
At this time, Lin Ming looked at the two elders and spoke, "Uncle, aunt, no, parents! How much do you think is appropriate for the bride price?"
Although it is sad to talk about money, it must still be talked about.
It can't be too little, otherwise, telling them will only make Bei Lieguo and his wife feel embarrassed when the time comes, but too much, which exceeds the pressure Lin Ming can bear, is not practical.
Lin Ming wanted to ask for 100 million.
But then I thought about it. The two elders were ordinary people in ordinary towns. If they suddenly offered 100 million, the other party would probably reject it directly.
Lin Ming couldn't think of a suitable figure for the bride price, so he simply asked the question to his elder brother.
After hearing this, Bei Lieguo also pondered for a while and said: "The bride price should be according to the customs over there. It is usually between 300,000 and 500,000 yuan!"
When Wang Xinlian heard this, she also nodded and said, "Yes, it can't be too much. Otherwise, people who don't know will think we are selling our daughter."
Lin Ming was stunned when he heard this.
Between 300,000 and 500,000.
So few?
In fact, this is not Lin Ming's fault, because the different circles around him naturally lead to different perceptions.
Ordinary people only need a few hundred thousand for a wedding banquet, and a few hundred thousand for a larger wedding banquet.
Even millions are very rare.
Not to mention weddings and betrothal gifts worth tens and hundreds of millions.
However, Lin Ming didn't want his daughter-in-law to look so shabby when she got married, and the wedding was held in such a grand manner. If the bride price was not even enough for the wedding, then it would be a bigger joke.
After hesitating for a moment, Lin Ming said, "Mom and Dad, let's see. The betrothal gift of 300,000 to 500,000 yuan is indeed too small."
"Let me see, fifty million!"
Upon hearing this, the two elders were instantly shocked.
Bei Lieguo frowned: "How much?"
Wang Xinlian also waved her hands and shook her head, refusing: "No, no, this is too much."
Bei Lieguo looked at Lin Ming, his expression became a little unhappy, and said in a deep voice: "Xiao Lin, for us as a couple, the bride price is just a process. You don't need to take it so seriously. Besides, we take it
When I leave my daughter to you, of course I want my daughter to live a good life with you."
"We are marrying our daughters, not selling them, let alone your money."
Wang Xinlian also nodded and said: "Yes, if you spend so much money at once, what will outsiders think of us?"
Lin Ming listened, with another helpless smile on his face.