Sanbao stood there, holding four candies tightly in his hands.
His eyes were filled with a light he had never seen before.
Lin Ming stood aside, quietly watching the changes in Sanbao, and the corners of his mouth curled up.
Educating children sometimes does not necessarily require beating and scolding.
Regarding children's education, Lin Ming has always advocated focusing on motivation, discovering the strengths in children's hearts and bodies, and at the same time providing clever motivational education.
He used four candies to directly resolve the anger, self-blame, fear and shame in Sanbao's heart.
The four candies each represent different meanings.
The first one is respect for Sister Heli.
The second one is appreciation and encouragement.
The third one is trust and support.
The fourth one is tolerance and consideration.
An education book once wrote: The education method of gentle breeze and drizzle is actually more powerful than the education method of thunder and thunder.
The essence of education is to guide, not to beat and scold.
Just like raising fish is about raising water, raising trees is about raising roots.
The same goes for raising people, the emphasis is on raising the heart.
His words and four candies made Sanbao's eyes shine, and the other little ones also looked at him with seeming understanding.
The eyes are big, watery, and black, and are particularly charming.
"Baby, where have you mom gone?"
Lin Ming looked at Yaomei, who had been hanging next to him, and asked.
"Dad, Mommy is upstairs."
The little girl raised her head and looked at him, and a Nuo Nuo voice came.
Lin Ming smiled and said: "You guys play at home, and dad goes upstairs to find mom."
A few little guys nodded seriously.
Sanbao even volunteered and said, "Dad, go ahead, I will protect them."
The young man's face was full of confidence.
Lin Ming smiled when he saw this, turned around and went upstairs.
When he came upstairs, Lin Ming found that Bei Xinyao was lying on the bed, and her face looked a little pale.
Seeing this, Lin Ming walked over quickly.
The slightest dissatisfaction I had felt about my wife's neglect of the children suddenly disappeared without a trace.
"Wife, what's wrong with you? What's wrong with you?"
Lin Ming sat beside the bed and reached out to directly hold Bei Xinyao's wrist.
Bei Xinyao shook her head, her voice a little weak, and said: "I don't know, husband, I just feel like vomiting all the time, but I can't."
While feeling Bei Xinyao's pulse, Lin Ming comforted her: "It's okay, my husband is by your side. You don't know, but that boy Sanbao was so brave just now and protected his fourth sister."
"Yeah?"
A smile appeared at the corner of Bei Xinyao's mouth, with a look of relief written on her face.
At this moment, Lin Ming's expression changed slightly, and he immediately said with joy: "Honey, a good thing."
Bei Xinyao looked at him and said speechlessly: "I'm already like this, and you still say it's a good thing."
Immediately afterwards, Bei Xinyao also reacted. She looked into Lin Ming's eyes. The two looked at each other, and Lin Ming's face was full of smiles.
She exclaimed: "No way? You mean, I have it?"
Lin Ming nodded solemnly and said with a smile: "That's right, wife, we have another baby."
Lin Ming was so excited that it was beyond words.
After so many years, he still wanted to have a second child, but Bei Xinyao refused.
I didn't expect that happiness would come so suddenly.
After hearing what he said, Bei Xinyao's interest was not high. She frowned slightly and said, "Husband, I, I don't want this child."
Boom.
Hearing this, Lin Ming's heart sank.
The thing he least wanted to see happened.
From the beginning to the end, Bei Xinyao was unwilling to have any more children.
"Honey, do you really don't want it?"
Lin Ming looked at the other party solemnly, his eyes full of pleading.
Although the child is still gestating in the mother's womb, to him, it is also a small life, and it is his child.
Bei Xinyao shook her head resolutely and said, "Husband, we already have seven babies. I feel very happy."
"Actually, I, it's not that I don't want it."
"The main thing is that I'm afraid that this second baby will be multiples again."
Having seven children in one birth has caused a psychological shadow in her heart. She was able to successfully give birth to seven children, and all seven children were able to grow up to such a healthy size.
This was already a blessing, she didn't dare to take risks.
If an accident occurs by then, it will be too late to regret.
Long-term pain is worse than short-term pain, this is the thought in Bei Xinyao's mind.
As for the pressure caused by raising children, she has not considered it. After all, their family situation is now enough to support all high consumption.
After hearing this, Lin Ming also frowned.
At this stage, it is still difficult to tell how many little ones have been conceived, so Bei Xinyao's worries are not unreasonable.
It is a blessing that the first seven children can grow up healthily.
"By the way, isn't there a system?"
At this time, Lin Ming suddenly thought of the system.
"System, are you there?"
Lin Ming called softly in his heart.
System: "Here, host."
Lin Ming was overjoyed when he heard this and hurriedly communicated with the system: "My wife is pregnant again now, but she is just showing signs of pregnancy now. I have no way of knowing how many children are pregnant, and I can't see through it with my X-ray eyes."
"Can you help me figure it out?"
System: "The host is too worried. Your wife is not pregnant herself, but is just a reaction caused by poor food consumption. Her symptoms and pulse are similar to those of pregnancy, but there is no formation of fetal gas. It is just a mass of condensed gas that exists in the body and is expelled from the body.
That’s it.”
"Not pregnant?"
Hearing this, Lin Ming was stunned.
Did you make a mistake in your judgment?
This is impossible.
He was almost certain that his wife was pregnant.
When the system says this, does it mean it doesn't want him to have this child?
Or is this child in great danger after birth?
At this moment, many thoughts flashed through Lin Ming's mind, and he did not believe that he had made a wrong judgment.
At this moment, the system sound sounded again.
System: "Please don't doubt the authenticity of this system's judgment. After a while, the host will take your wife to the hospital and use the equipment to check."
"after a while?"
When Lin Ming heard this, he was stunned again. He became confused and asked, "Why do you need to check again after a while?"
Are the hospital's instruments more powerful than his X-ray eyes?
Lin Ming was really confused.
But this time, there was no sound from the system.
No matter how much he called, it was of no use.
"Husband, I still don't feel well."
At this time, Bei Xinyao's voice came, and her voice was already a little weak.
When Lin Ming saw this, he knew he couldn't wait any longer. He immediately picked up Bei Xinyao and said, "Honey, please be patient. My husband will take you to the hospital for examination right now."
He really refused to believe that his diagnosis would be wrong.