"Everyone is affected by the environment. Their status and the people around them can affect a person's living habits and even his outlook on life and values. This is just like you, who you were when you first came to Bishan two years ago and what you are now.
Are you the same you?" Hu Jiayun asked.
Qin Feng put down his chopsticks, lit a cigarette, and smoked quietly. He understood what Hu Jiayun wanted to express.
"Tell me first, does she love you?"
"Love!" Qin Feng answered affirmatively.
"Then do you love her?" Hu Jiayun then asked.
Qin Feng hesitated for a moment, then nodded and said: "Love."
"Do you want to marry her and be with her for the rest of your life?" Hu Jiayun asked again.
"Think." Qin Feng didn't hesitate this time.
"Then can you give up yourself and love each other without reservation?" Hu Jiayun then asked the fourth question.
"I..." Qin Feng hesitated.
"The fact that you hesitated means that you haven't thought about this issue yet, and it also means that you can't completely give up yourself to be with the other person." Hu Jiayun glanced at Qin Feng.
"Love is a romantic and impulsive emotional game, but marriage should be a rational social behavior. It is easy to fall in love but difficult to get along."
"There are no two people in the world who are completely compatible. If you want a happy marriage, one person must change himself to adapt to the other person's life."
"Actually, you know in your heart what the problem is between you two, Qin Feng. If you love her deeply and are willing to give up yourself for her, and you don't feel bitter or wronged, then I support you to be with her."
"If you can't do it, either let her change to adapt to you, or..." Hu Jiayun stopped at this point and did not say the next words.
"Marriage is a lifelong matter. If you don't make it easy, it will be painful for a lifetime. Think about your sister and my previous marriage."
"In fact, there is no other secret to marriage. The most important thing is that they are suitable for each other. They are like the two ends of a magnet. Only when the magnetic poles are right can they be closely attracted together and never separate. If the magnetic poles are wrong, they will be separated.
No matter how close you are, sooner or later it will bounce away."
"Qin Feng, if you want me to give you advice, I can't give it to you. Only you know what you want in your heart. As a sister, I only hope for one thing. No matter which girl the other person is, I only hope that you can live a happy life."
Hu Jiayun looked at Qin Feng and said.
Qin Feng nodded and said: "Sister, I understand what you mean, I will think it over myself."
The next day, a group meeting was held, which marked the official start of the new year's work.
Qin Feng has set two priorities for Guanshan Town's work this year. The first focus is to solve the aftermath of the Baishan Coal Mine. The second focus is naturally to develop the economy, mainly attracting investment, which cannot be bypassed.
About a month after the new year, Qin Feng received a notice to go to the county committee for a meeting.
The secretaries, mayors and deputy secretaries of each township were notified of the meeting and were required to be present.
Qin Feng understood that this meeting was very important. If he guessed correctly, the new leadership team should be in place.
Those who are well-informed already know the inside story, but Qin Feng is not very interested in this because Hu Jiayun already told him the specific situation last time, so he is too lazy to inquire about the information.
On this day, Qin Feng, Lu Guohua and Liu Xiaobing went to Shannan for a meeting. They drove two cars and Liu Xiaobing sat in Qin Feng's car.
Although Liu Xiaobing took over as deputy secretary, he still served as the director of the General Affairs Office. Moreover, Liu Xiaobing's consciousness had not improved at all. He still followed Qin Feng closely and acted as Qin Feng's housekeeper and follower.
"Secretary, what is the content of today's meeting? The wording in the notice is very serious." Liu Xiaobing asked.
"The results of the 113 case should be out soon, disciplinary sanctions against some of the leaders involved in the case should be implemented, and the appointment of new leaders should also be out. If nothing else, today is the meeting of the new leadership team, otherwise the party committees in various places will not be
The person in charge was called over for a meeting." Qin Feng analyzed.
"I heard that Minister Luo took over as deputy secretary."
"You are quite well informed."
"There are rumors in Bishan that Minister Luo has become Deputy Secretary Luo, and Deng Xincheng may be able to reach a higher level."
"Who did you listen to?"
"It's all being spread, and I have some gossip. It is said that Deng Xincheng's sister is Minister Luo's daughter-in-law. Not many people know about this. A classmate of mine happened to be in the Organization Department of the County Party Committee, and I heard what he told me after drinking.
." Liu Xiaobing said.
Qin Feng frowned. Thinking of the way Deng Xincheng got acquainted with Luo Xuemin at Luo Xuemin's house last time, he began to believe that this was true.
If there really is some kind of special relationship between Deng Xincheng and Luo Xuemin, then it is questionable whether Luo Xuemin played a role in the last time Qin Feng was kidnapped by Deng Xincheng as Secretary Bishan.
Qin Feng couldn't help but think about it. After thinking for a while, he shook his head. The matter had passed and there was no use thinking about it anymore.
"These are just rumors. Not long after Deng Xincheng took over as party secretary, although he had achieved results in Bishan, it was not easy to take a step forward. Luo Xuemin was not qualified for promotion, and he did not even have the right to recommend. At most, he had
Just transfer him to a better place." Qin Feng said.
"Secretary, you said that you have made such a great contribution this time, so there should be some indication from the higher ups, right? Now there are rumors everywhere that you will be promoted to deputy county magistrate." Liu Xiaobing was very excited.
"You can just talk to me about this matter. Don't go out and talk about it. Do you hear me?" Qin Feng said to Liu Xiaobing seriously.