Wang Xiaoxiao sighed helplessly: "My grandma's health is getting worse day by day, and she has long been unable to take care of herself. She has to rely on my parents to take care of her."
Xue Ling couldn't help asking: "Are the nurse hired by Yangyang before satisfied? Are you serious about your work?"
Some time ago, she secretly gave Xue Yang advice, asking him to pay for a nursing worker to help reduce the burden on his father-in-law and mother-in-law.
"It's pretty good." Wang Xiaoxiao explained: "Fortunately, she has the help, otherwise my parents would not be able to hold on. My parents are also older, and they are considered an old man. If it's ten days and a half months, they can barely hold on
But day after day, staying up late and working, I fell ill one after another. After the nursing staff came over, I helped me take care of three meals, clean up, etc., which reduced the burden on my parents and allowed them to take a breath occasionally.
rest."
"That's good." Xue Ling reminded: "If you need it, you can help hire an extra one."
"No, no," Wang Xiaoxiao shook her head: "My parents would not agree. They were going to pay the money, but the nurse said that Yangyang had already paid her salary. She paid for her for half a year, and my parents felt very sorry.
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Xue Ling said, "Ah!" and said, "We are all our own family, why be so polite? As juniors, you and Yangyang also had to help be filial to the elderly. However, you are too far away. One wants to make money to support the family, and the other has to take care of you.
Children can’t separate themselves at all. If they work hard, they must at least help pay some money, otherwise they will feel uncomfortable.”
"I thought so at first." Wang Xiaoxiao explained depressedly: "But my parents disagree, saying that it is not easy for Yangyang to make money, so I am not allowed to spend money randomly. I contacted the agency, but my mother scolded me so hard that I dared not.
Keep in touch.”
Xue Ling chuckled: "Some things have to be done well before your parents will be happy to accept them."
"Thanks to your reminder." Wang Xiaoxiao smiled and said, "After having a nursing worker, my parents have relaxed a lot and have enough time to take care of their bodies. In fact, my mother had many brothers and sisters, but unfortunately... she is willing to take care of her...
The only one who paralyzed my grandmother was my parents.”
Xue Ling praised in a gentle voice: "Your parents are pure filial people, and they deserve your respect and learning!"
Wang Xiaoxiao's eyes were red and she whispered: "When my grandmother was hospitalized at first, her uncle and aunt were willing to see the elderly. Later, over time, the number of people gradually decreased. The aunts all said that they would send the elderly to nursing homes.
, All the children are sharing the fees together. But my grandmother can no longer take care of herself and cannot live without people for 24 hours, so how can she send them to the nursing home? My parents disagreed and said that everyone took turns to take care of her. Others made excuses that they were too busy and cared for her.
Not going to go, some people say they are busy with their work, and some people say they want to take care of their grandchildren. My parents had no choice but to take their grandmother back to our house. In the past, some people were willing to pay some money to help buy medicine for their grandmother. After a long time, they didn't even have any money.
I was willing to pay it. My parents had to take out their pension to buy medicine for my grandmother. They usually save money and dare not spend money randomly. My sister and I wanted to help, but they didn't let it go, saying it was their previous generation's responsibility.
There is no need for us sisters.”
"Your parents feel sorry for you." Xue Ling sighed: "It's very hard to take care of the elderly, and they don't want to add to your burden."
Wang Xiaoxiao sobbed: "I understand... I just think they work so hard but refuse to accept our help. As children, I feel really distressed."
"I understand your mood very much." Xue Ling lowered his voice: "If you need to pay or hire someone, let Yangyang go. You tell your parents that Yangyang has successfully started a business and has made a lot of money, so they can spend it as long as they want.
, don't worry about it."
Wang Xiaoxiao smiled and wiped away the tears in the corners of her eyes.
"My parents are even more reluctant to spend his money... With the caregiver, my parents are already happy enough and keep praising him. This time I had a quarrel with him, and when my parents found out... they scolded me.
It's so bloody that I blame myself for being too pretentious and thinking, and keep saying good things to Yangyang."
"It's Yangyang wrong, you can't blame you." Xue Yang did not stand on his son's side and said warmly: "It's good that you can help your parents. You have to tell Yangyang everything they trust and recognize Yangyang so much,
Let him be filial to his mother-in-law and father-in-law."
Wang Xiaoxiao felt a little embarrassed: "He...he has always been very filial to my parents. Recently, no matter what he sells in the live broadcast room, he will ask the people below to send a copy to my parents."
Xue Ling chuckled: "You have to help him check it out to see if your parents are suitable for you, don't send it randomly!"
Wang Xiaoxiao smirked: "I sent several boxes of imported chewing gum last time, but my parents didn't know what it was. I sent a box of cosmetics half a month ago. Fortunately, my sister was there and took them all into her bag and took them back.
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"By the way, how are your sister doing recently?" Xue Ling asked with concern: "Do you have a partner?"
"...I've blown again." Wang Xiaoxiao explained awkwardly: "The men I met in the blind date market are uneven, and there are all kinds of crooked melons and cracked dates. I originally had a pretty good one last time, but his family conditions were too complicated. I
The girl did not agree in the end. The man didn't have his own house, and lived with his parents, grandparents, brothers, sisters-in-law, nieces and nieces. He had his own separate room, but the big family was very messy and complicated. My sister discussed that she could move after marriage.
When I came to her house to live, the man was too masculine and said that he could not let others misunderstand that he wanted to marry into our family, and he refused. Not only that, before my sister confirmed her relationship with him, his family made trouble in various ways
, I ran to my sister's unit to see her, and then I ran to our house, asking and measuring our house in various ways. My sister was very disgusted and broke up with him."
Xue Ling nodded well: "Your family is very simple, and the family atmosphere is also good. It is not surprising that your sister doesn't like such a family."
"Oh!" Wang Xiaoxiao smiled bitterly: "My sister is not young now, she is getting older every year. We are twins and were born almost at the same time. My children are all in kindergarten, but she is still alone. My parents
Not only are I busy taking care of my grandmother, but I also have to worry about why my little daughter has not been married yet. Seeing that my sister has become an older single woman, I don’t know what to do at all.”
"I'm not going to solve the problem." Xue Ling said softly: "Marriage requires fate. When fate comes, everything will come naturally. But her true destiny has not arrived yet, so she can only continue to wait."
Wang Xiaoxiao smiled helplessly: "But... I don't know when it will be! She was very open-minded and felt that marriage could not be settled, nor was it a compromise. Unless it was someone she really liked, she would never marry.
”
"Yeah." Xue Ling nodded: "It's right for her to think so."
Wang Xiaoxiao's eyes turned and she whispered: "My mother said that if it were decades ago, in their era, she would have been a basic requirement. But in the current blind date market - it is the highest requirement and it is not easy to achieve.