"After getting married ... love again?" Wu Zi couldn't help laughing, asking, "How about love? If it is not suitable, then you are already married!"
Xue Ling didn't surprise he asked like this, whispered: "He is a few years older than me, and we have lived one by one since he was a child. It was considered to be a bamboo horse. Later, the family changed.
His father was seriously ill. He and my mother -in -law found the emperor, saying that he would marry me to pass the door. I was embarrassed at the time, and naturally I was unwilling. But my dad was very determined.
It is suitable for us, and then let me marry him south to marry him. "
I couldn't hear the head and shook his head: "How can you agree! When you grow up, you can see him? You shouldn't know him? Too arbitrary! You know this is your lifelong happiness!"
"Yeah!" Xue Ling's eyes moved slightly. "When I live in a large apartment in my house, when I marry Chengjia Village, there are two adobe houses at home, owed a lot of debt, and even a bicycle can not afford it.
It's so big. At first I was stunned and didn't know what to do. But A Yuan was calm and told me that if I really don't want to, I would never force me. He also said that he would leave home the next day
The county seat is working, and I will not stay at home. I was moved by him at that time. "
"What about later?" 问 “asked low.
"I didn't say too much at that time. I first took the marriage properly. I also took the money to help his family pay off the debt. Then I packed my luggage and came to Rongcheng. At first I lived in a small hotel. He was afraid that I was not safe at night.
Come to accompany me, sleep on the chair outside. He works very hard, eats three meals, but he is generous to his family. He suffers from suffering.
One or two dollars more. But no matter how night, he will come to help me keep the night, because it is not safe. At that time, he always thought that I didn't want to live with him, but he was still so good to me. "
Zi moved slightly.
Xue Ling continued: "This man, even if I want to betray the marriage contract and betray the marriage, he has no blame, but supports me to find a job in the county, and do my best to cover me from the wind and rain.
The county seat returns to the emperor's capital, I don't think he will have a complaint. I know that he likes me in his heart, but he thinks there is a distance between us, so he respects me and gives me freedom and choice. "
"What about later?" 问 “asked again.
Xue Ling laughed, and said: "I found a job in the newspaper and found a place to live. I told him that I want to rent with him, I want to live with him. He dare not agree at first, and saw my attitude firmly.
In the end, we agreed. When we moved over, the two still lived separately. He cooks three meals a day, work during the day, part -time at night, and work hard and work hard. And my heart has identified him earlier. "
Jun Zijun's face was reddish and asked, "Are you in love with each other?"
"It is." Xue Ling explained: "More importantly, I know he is a man who can rely on his life for a lifetime. First, he respects me, hurts me, and likes me. I am very sure. But he chooses me to choose me.
Freedom, this is a great respect. Second, he is a man who can live together. He loves his family diligently and struggle hard. Such a man, even if he lives with him, often has no meat for three meals, and I am willing to be willing
And I am also willing to believe that such a man will never be bad in the future. Good quality, calm people, love family, such a good man can find it where you can find it. "
Xue Ling laughed and shrugged.
"I am lucky, I have picked up such a good lover, so where are you looking for? Who do you give up?"
Tong Zi seemed to understand it, and after a moment of silence.
"So, after you get married, you find that each other is the one in your marriage, so you finally come together."
Xue Ling nodded, "Don't conceal you, I personally think that marriage and love are too different. Love, everyone just feels that you love me, you love me and love, then the marriage is different. The marriage is different.
It's a life. Love someone, not necessarily happy with her. For example, you see Liu Xing and Wang Qing. They are the best examples. "
Wang Qing and Liu Xing are their peers. Everyone has the same ambitions. They are all literary youths. When they are together, everyone wrote love books and love poems, walks and watch the sunset together, go to the cinema to watch movies together.
"But after getting married, it is not necessarily happy. Marriage is two people live together. There are not so many winds and snowy moons, that is, three meals a day, the elderly and children, the family is often at home.
Tomber. "
"On the contrary, when we start the marriage as the test, if we can live together to live together, then there is no other hindrance. You are now in love for marriage, so you have to see that person is suitable for that person is suitable
Not suitable for living with you. "
Xue Ling smiled bitterly, and said, "It's not good to say, Liu Xing is the lesson of the front car. His love is very beautiful, and he also enjoys the feeling of love. But his marriage finally failed.
He did not find a person who was really suitable for him. The second was that he was unclear, and he didn't understand what he really needed. Actually, Wang Qing is not suitable for him. "
Tong Zi listened and laughed slowly.
"Sister Xue, the so -called listening to the king's words, I won a book for ten years. Just now listening to you, I ... I seem to be suddenly cheerful."
Xue Ling smiled and asked, "Go back to the topic just now, do you like Alan?"
"... yes." Wu Zi lowered his voice: "I think she is a good girl. She has a good temperament, patience, honesty, and very good.
vegetable."
Xue Ling asked again: "But you still hesitate, why? I think she might have no topic with you?"
"Is it?" Tong Zi whispered: "At first, there was no common topic. She didn't necessarily understand what I said, so she just talked to me with a politeness, and now it is better. Let's get photos together.
Most of the things are doing it. Now when I talk about the quality of the photos, she can do the Tao. Also, I work on the radio, and I occasionally listen to my show, and even give me some of the Kenyan suggestions.
I think she is very suitable for me, and I also think ... living with her should be very peaceful and warm. "
Xue Ling laughed and asked, "Don't you know yet? She was your audience long ago, and I was so fascinated by your show!"
"Really?!" 讶 问 asked in surprise: "She -why didn't she tell me?"