Xue Ling laughed and said, "Everyone is suffering, and you are suffering, and I am suffering. Everyone is working hard for life, but the suffering is different, and the others are almost the same."
"It's far from it..." Xiao Jiaxue drank the sour plum juice and muttered: "My parents told me that I must get married within this year. A poor young man, a native of the imperial capital, lives in the old city, in yours
That mall sells shoes.”
"What then?" Xue Ling asked: "Is it confirmed? My parents' order? Do you agree?"
Xiao Jiaxue's eyes were red and she whispered: "My dad said, he said I am not qualified to dislike others! People don't dislike me fat, I don't dislike others' poor, that's enough. They don't want any betrothal gifts, they just hope I'm
Shunshun Dangdang married a down-to-earth person. My mother scolded me, saying that I was in my thirties and still wanted to stay at home as an old girl? She said that she and my dad would not dislike me, but now there is a sister-in-law at home.
Their old housekeeper is just one thing, and they open their eyes and close their eyes. If it were my sister-in-law... I would definitely be rolled."
Xue Ling couldn't help but sigh and asked, "What do you mean? How about the other party's person? If you are really a down-to-earth and reliable person, you might as well learn more about him."
"Honest, I can't even say a word." Xiao Jiaxue choked up and said: "How do I understand? I have no chance. My mother said, I can't lose weight every day, and if I delay it, I will be forty, so I must be married.
If you don’t go out, I should nod immediately while someone wants me now. I am fat, but I also have dignity! I am disliked wherever I go, and even your jeans dislike me!"
Xue Ling secretly felt so innocent and whispered: "You are so unfair to me! People place orders for jeans, and I produce them based on the order. I can't control the number of numbers."
Xiao Jiaxue couldn't drink it anymore, so she put the bowl down.
"I just can't control myself and always want to eat. I can't stop every three meals, and I can't do anything! I'm despised by being fat, and I don't expect anything from others, but I can't imagine that even my family members dislike me now.
.My parents wanted me to get married immediately. The man looked a little ugly, but he was quite tall and had nothing to do with anything else. He was poor and had only an old house. Now he rented a small storefront in the mall and hired it.
One person sells shoes for him and does some small business, saying that his income is stable, but he has nothing else.”
Xue Ling sighed softly: "If you really don't like it, then don't. You are rich and have a stable job now. If you are afraid of being disliked by your sister-in-law, then you go out to buy a house to live in. Marriage is not a transaction, if you measure this
, measure that, and eventually lose the dependence of marriage because of these things."
Xiao Jiaxue sniffed and choked: "But my parents said... I have no choice."
"The world is so big, there are so many people on the earth!" Xue Ling shook his head: "What does it mean to have no choice? I don't agree. You are a woman in the new era with stable work and thoughts. You should have your own ideas. If that person is
It's really not what you like, but you choose him because you have no choice for the moment. Then such a marriage will soon be unable to persist. It's not right to leave at that time, nor will it be true that you never leave. That's the real pain. You should calm down.
, keep looking.”
Xiao Jiaxue embarrassedly: "But I am so fat..."
"People in some countries regard fat as beauty!" Xue Ling retorted: "Didn't you tell me last time? What kind of tribe in a certain country is that fat as beauty. The thinner the girl, the less you want it.
Such a figure is not fat in the eyes of foreigners. Why don’t you look farther? You are not the kind of person who can make ends meet. You are confused and soft-hearted now, and you will definitely regret it in the future."
"I haven't married yet... I'm already regretting it." Xiao Jiaxue hummed: "A man who can't even communicate, I'll take a look at the man who wants to vomit! Let me live with him for the rest of my life... This is not something I want
Is my life?"
Xue Ling shrugged: "Look, I'm right. You are not the kind of person who can compromise and live a life of just one's life."
Xiao Jiaxue then drank the sour plum juice and whispered: "Then I will listen to you, and I will push you when I go back. I have saved a lot of money over the years, and I will buy a house to live in..."
"But you can't stop looking for a partner." Xue Ling said: "Don't always hide in the publishing house and home, go out for a walk when you have time. You can't keep getting fat! Go out for a walk and exercise in the morning and evening, it doesn't matter if you are fat,
But you have to be healthy! I see your face is much worse than before."
"Can't it be bad?" Xiao Jiaxue sighed: "I can't eat or sleep well every day."
Xue Ling patted her shoulder and asked with a hilarious question: "Why are you still so fat if you can't eat it?"
"Go to you!" Xiao Jiaxue smiled and scolded: "I'm in a bad mood, don't mess with me!"
Xue Ling laughed and asked her to continue drinking sour plum juice, "The weather is hot outside, so you have to pay attention to avoiding the summer heat."
"The sun is very poisonous." Xiao Jiaxue wiped her sweat and asked, "Is the summer vacation coming soon? Is your child on vacation?"
"Not yet." Xue Ling explained: "In another two weeks, my parents will come to pick him up to live in Chuncheng."
"Spring City?" Xiao Jiaxue suddenly felt energetic and said, "I heard that the weather is very comfortable over the years there. The mountains, water, good air, and the key is the scenery."
"Yes." Xue Ling smiled and said, "My parents, father-in-law, and young son have lived there for half a year, but I still can't bear to come back now. They have changed a few places and recently chose to live on a mountain side. I
My dad said he would come to pick up his eldest son and come back when the summer vacation ends."
"It's great for rich families." Xiao Jiaxue muttered: "Travel wherever you want, and stay as long as you want."
Xue Ling snorted coldly: "My father and my mother struggled until they were in their sixties before they retired. How old are you? Do you want to do whatever you want?"
"Hehe!" Xiao Jiaxue smiled, knocked on the edge of the bowl, and whispered: "Tell me and talk to you, I feel much better. When I go back, I will talk to my parents in detail, and then find a suitable place to buy it.
”
"Does your unit have a separate house?" Xue Ling asked.
Xiao Jiaxue shook her head: "There are old colleagues. Our generation is gone, but there will be certain subsidies for buying a house. I have earned more than ten years and saved some money, which is enough to buy it. The house next to the publishing house is not expensive, so I plan to
Go to the building next to the Foreign Languages College to buy it. Many teachers buy houses there, and they are surrounded by cultural people and get along well. High intellectuals generally do not need to make careful decisions about whether they are obese or not."
Xue Ling smiled and said, "You are more familiar with the imperial capital than me, so you naturally know where to buy it. Anyway, it is close to the unit and it is convenient to enter and exit, so that is a good place."
The two chatted until the evening when Xiao Jiaxue reluctantly left.
She gave Xiao Jiaxue a denim fabric that was more than ten meters long, and the other party thanked him happily.
Xue Ling happened to be going home, so she drove her back to the city and took her to the vicinity of her home before turning the car back to the city center.