Cheng Tianyuan told her before that on the day Shan You left, Xiaohuzi came late. He was full of alcohol, looked flustered, and even choked and said sorry to Shan You.
That night, Xiaohuzi's team participated in the celebration, and Shan You also went to participate.
The young people drank, got drunk, lost their composure, and eventually made mistakes.
She thought that the two of them had made mistakes after drinking, so she didn't think much about this.
It was not until Xiaohuzi earlier that Shan You took the initiative to send a message to him and said that he missed him that Xue Ling couldn't help but guess that Shan You didn't have any feelings for Xiaohuzi.
"Sister Chen, even if you have feelings, you shouldn't be deep... Otherwise, how could Youyou escape from the imperial capital and stay in the South Island and not go back?"
Chen Shuiyu shook her head and sighed helplessly: "Young people have many problems, what kind of love is the most? When the days go by, and the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea are tinkering with a lot of food, you will know that life is bitter, where does the sweetness of love come from?
I like it enough, don’t expect too much.”
In her opinion, no matter how deep the relationship or sweet the love is, it will sooner or later become a mess with the day-to-day struggle of marriage.
"Let me be used as an example. Shanyue and I grew up together, and my childhood sweethearts have a very good relationship. But at the age of marriage, my family looked down on each other at all. No matter what kind of love you are, I shook my head and refused. We elope all over.
The world is running and working and doing business. At first, I was happy, but I knew that as life goes on, I lived like that every day, and there was nothing left except making money to live."
"Over the years, I have been popular with his family and almost lost my life. But even if he doesn't interact with his family, many people always come to him secretly. He always dares not let me know, but I
I was still angry that he said one thing and did another. If it were in the past, I would definitely divorce him hundreds of times! Really!"
"No matter how deep the relationship is, once the days are torn, nothing is left. Now, it is the relationship between an old couple and an old couple. I will help him, he will help me, and everyone will live together, and someone can
Chat and talk. I feel sick. Someone knows that I can pour you a glass of water and get some medicine. There is no love, only partnership is left."
Speaking of this, Chen Shuiyu smiled bitterly.
"No matter how good the relationship is, there will always be a time to fade away! I have a little good impression. I have a while to live my youth and wait for the child to grow up and the old man to get old, and I feel dizzy every day. Where can I have strong feelings?"
Xue Ling was speechless for a moment and could not find anything to refute.
Chen Shuiyu held her hand, as if she was teasing and envious.
"Lingling, how many women in the world can be as happy as you? Ah? Let me tell you honestly! Too little! It's just that - rare! Your mother's family is rich, her husband loves you, and her husband loves you even more.
You, you have a lot of children, your husband supports your career, and you are even willing to hide behind you to take care of your children and take care of your family. How many men can be like him in the world? Very few! Look at you, your career is so good
, Your husband is not jealous or angry, but still loves you like treasures! You, because you are in love and love, and you are not lacking in the nourishment of love, so you like to keep your feelings in your mouth."
Xue Ling smiled bitterly when she heard this: "Maybe you are right."
It is not completely unreasonable for the other party to say this.
People like to look at problems from their own perspective. Even if they are almost at the age of knowing their destiny, they are still prone to making such mistakes.
She and her husband are in harmony with each other, and they are very affectionate, so she instinctively believes that Xiaohuzi and Shan You also need to have a deep relationship to get married.
"But, Sister Chen, I have to remind you that Shan You is very simple, and Xiao Huzi is not well-versed in the world. At their age, we cannot see through so clearly, and it is even more impossible for us to understand our words. In other words,
They all value feelings and freedom over others.”
Among all Xiao Huzi's words, there was no suggestion of "marriage", and even repeatedly stated that he must not get married.
If a couple of half-aged children who are not in love with each other are forced to form a pair, there will definitely be many problems in the future.
Chen Shuiyu couldn't listen and asked, "Ahu said so, what about Wang Qing? She also agreed to let them get married, right?"
"...It should be consistent with Ah Hu." Xue Ling replied.
Chen Shuiyu was happy and said, "That's good, that's good! Wang Qing is an intellectual, a little noble, but has a very good temper and is kind to others. I have a lot of contact with her and I like her temperament very much. She
That person is always kind even if he quarrels. A person like her will never treat his daughter-in-law badly as a mother-in-law."
Xue Ling: "..."!!! Why has it been so far?
Chen Shuiyu continued to excitedly say, "Wang Qing is still very young, better than me. Xiaohuzi is their only son and the eldest, so they can definitely help take care of the children. I am a little older, now
I am not as energetic as before. After the child was born, Shan Yue and I couldn't help taking care of it. Fortunately, the family's financial situation was pretty good. At that time, hire a nanny to help with housework. Wang Qing could take out his hands to help take care of the children."
Xue Ling was speechless and rubbed her temples.
"Sister Chen, I forgot to tell you that Brother Shanyue does not agree with their marriage."
Chen Shuiyu didn't care at all: "That's because he didn't think it clearly. It's okay, when we go out later, I will talk about him and analyze it clearly. He, he loves his daughter more than his own life. As long as we live a good life,
He can't say anything, what can he object to!"
Xue Ling smiled bitterly and dared not say that Xiaohuzi disagreed.
"Sister Chen, although we are parents and elders, the protagonist of this matter is not us after all, so we can't decide everything. The protagonists of this matter are Youyou and Xiaohuzi. It depends on their own.
Opinion."
Chen Shuiyu hurriedly stood up and said, "I'll go in and tell her."
After speaking, she rushed in.
Xue Ling let out a sigh of fatigue and followed him quickly.
Only Shan You heard him whisper: "Mom...will this matter...I didn't think so much about it."
"Follower!" Chen Shuiyu said in a deep voice: "Since you want to keep your children, you have to get married. If you don't get married, do you want to be an unmarried mother? Your father and I will definitely disagree! You are willing to let your child go without it as soon as you are born
Dad? Imagine, can you accept it?"
"No." Shan You thought for a while and whispered: "The child... still needs his father."
She grew up in love with her parents and could not accept the love and care of her children without any parents.
Chen Shuiyu smiled and applauded: "Okay! Since that's the case, then you guys are ready to get married."