"Mom, then - according to what you said, do you and dad want to compromise? My brother doesn't want to compromise himself, why do you agree on it instead?"
Xue Ling sat at the head of the bed, looked at her sleeping eldest son, and smiled bitterly.
"Our family members all have a very good advantage - they value feelings. From a few elderly people to you juniors, they are all people who value feelings very much. People who value feelings are good, and they are easy to go anywhere.
If you make friends, you will easily be trusted. But things are often too much. If we are too serious about feelings, we will easily be hurt by feelings."
"That's not it!" Xue Yang said in a muffled voice: "Money is like dirt to us, and feelings are the true meaning of life we truly pursue."
Xue Ling smiled softly and asked back: "If you really treat money as dirt, you should give up dirt for your feelings, right? Isn't this an obvious truth?"
"...I can't say that." Xue Yang curled his lips: "Money and house are not earned by us, but given by our parents. If it is our own, we will naturally be willing to share it with the other party. But the key is not all!
The things that parents own are given to us are legal inheritance, and they are both in line and legal. Why do the other party want to share our property before entering the door? Why? We all have to rely on our parents to pay tuition and living expenses, and we are not qualified to talk big.
What are our great abilities? But we are willing to fight and experience storms and failures. Why do we feel qualified to share the fruits of my parents' hard work for decades because of a marriage certificate? Why?"
"Yes." Xue Ling nodded and asked, "Is there any other? Do you think it is legal to share the money you have to work hard with your partner in the future, but now what your parents give you, the other party should not covet it, right?"
"That's sure!" Xue Yang shrugged: "Women don't advocate feminism all day long, what is the true equality of men and women? I fell in love with her and got a marriage certificate. In law, we have an equal relationship. In marriage, we are in equality.
It is also equal. I never thought that her parents’ money was too much. I felt that we should rely on ourselves to work hard and work. In the future, the amount of money given by our parents can only be used as a helper. So why should she share my parents’ money and house?
”
Xue Ling praised and smiled softly, held his hands and stood up.
"It's pretty good. But the perspectives of men and women are different, and they also look at problems. In our cultural background, many women must rely on men to live after they grow up and get married, so they are used to lacking a sense of security. When the two families are financially
In the case of unequality, the other party’s parents will naturally want to make more considerations for their daughter, hoping that their daughter will be more secure in the future and will not be wronged."
Xue Yang shook his head disapprovingly: "My girlfriend is not the traditional women. She is a high-intellectual and a woman from the new era. Mom, occasionally I really don't understand. How can women nowadays be so greedy!"
"What a greedy method?" Xue Ling asked curiously.
Xue Yang replied: "They want the freedom and independence of women in the new era, but they also want a sense of security and security. If the man she chooses is responsible enough, how can they not give her a sense of security? Why can't they figure it out? Really
The security and sense of security lies in how she chooses a man herself, and it depends on herself. It varies from person to person and cannot be generalized. A man like my brother is tall, handsome and good-looking, a high intellectual, and a future elite in the medical field.
How could his girlfriend feel that she needs to rely on the name on the property certificate to protect her happiness, rather than on him? I really don’t understand what a woman thinks!”
"Haha!" Xue Ling was so happy that she heard it, "Your mother is also a woman. I didn't think so complicated!"
Xue Yang also smiled and hugged her shoulders.
"Mom, you are not an ordinary woman. You are a woman who truly confidently trusts your husband to give you happiness. The happiness you think is not in materials, but in your heart. It is precisely because you have a correct concept that you can always be so happy
.”
Xue Ling laughed again and nodded in praise.
"Our family may have the potential to be a philosopher. Look at how high-sounding these principles are-"
"Where!" Xue Yang interrupted him, confidently thrusting his chest: "What I said is real and appropriate to people's hearts. It's not the kind of chicken soup that looks good but is not the kind of chicken soup that is pretty good!"
Xue Ling was amused by him again and patted his chest.
"Okay OK. You accompany your brother, I'll bring him sobering tea."
"oh oh."
...
That afternoon, Cheng Huanran finally woke up, but his headache was so split that he couldn't get up.
Xue Yang had no choice but to find a brain massager used by his grandmother to help him relieve the pain.
"How is it? Is it better?"
Cheng Huanran murmured in confusion: "It doesn't seem that painful..."
"What do you do when you drink so much alcohol? How harmful is alcohol harming your body? As a doctor, it is impossible not to know!" Xue Yang snorted coldly: "You know you can't do it - you deserve it!"
Cheng Huanran looked at him with a funny look and asked, "Why are you at home? Haven't you returned yet?"
Xue Yang pouted with grievance: "The Empress Dowager asked me to take leave to accompany you at home."
Cheng Huanran laughed and ordered: "Pour water for me."
A certain brother had to be obedient.
Cheng Huanran drank the water, twisted his head in discomfort, and continued to lean against the buzzing massager.
"...Is there anything to eat? I seem to be hungry."
Xue Yang rolled his eyes and said, "Mom has asked the big kitchen to cook white porridge early in the morning, but it is still insulated."
After speaking, he wandered out lazyly.
Cheng Huanran looked at the familiar and spacious warm room and closed his eyes unconsciously.
No matter how you are outside, it is always the best to go home, and family is the best.
"Son!" Xue Ling hurried in and asked with concern: "Are you awake? Are you feeling uncomfortable?"
Cheng Huanran whispered apologetically: "...Mom, I'm fine. I'm sorry, I've made you worry again."
"Boy!" Xue Ling sat over and said angrily: "I know it will make us worry, but I shouldn't make us worry. How old are you? Why do you still do such a childish useless trick of drinking to relieve your sorrows? I'll let you go for nothing.
I have studied medicine for so many years!”
Cheng Huanran was wronged and buried his head: "Mom, I was wrong."
Xue Ling couldn't help but sigh and helped him turn off the air conditioner.
"How is it? Do you need your parents to negotiate with Xiao Qiao's parents? Son, our family does not lack houses, and you don't lack it in your name. If you really like other girls, why not add more of her name? Even in the future
If you can’t live, it’s no big deal to give up half of the house. As long as you work hard enough, money can be an external object.”
As long as she does not waste or waste, does not get involved in bad habits, and as long as she cares and cherishes her carefully, it will be enough for them to live a comfortable and relaxed life for several lifetimes.
"The elders give you huge amount of money so that you can live a better life and make you more qualified and capable of not being trapped by money, rather than becoming a burden and shackle for you."
A trace of tears flashed through Cheng Huanran's eyes and he grabbed Xue Ling's hand.
"Mom, if everyone can be as confident and capable as you, wise, considerate and kind as you... that would be great."