Wan Yun was stunned when she heard this, and finally realized after a while.
"Mom...I...I'm actually very confused. He always said that we are very suitable for me to marry him...but I don't have much confidence in him in my heart, really."
Wang Qing smiled bitterly: "When I got married, I was full of confidence in him, full of longing and hope for our future, and even more confident in our marriage. But what about it? I got divorced in less than a few years. He had nothing to do with me.
Bad or bad habits, people are good, and parents are honest. We are even getting to the point of divorce, do you think a man who doesn’t even have confidence in him can give you happiness? Can you follow you
How long should we be together?"
Wan Yun was stunned by her mother's questioning and hesitated and couldn't say it.
Xue Ling held her hand and lowered her voice: "You were too impulsive tonight, which scared all of us. Xiaoyun, getting married is easy to get divorced. Take a photo, sign a letter, and get a certificate. It seems
It’s very easy. But once you get married, your wealth, life, family and work are all involved. With the future children, it’s easy to combine, and it’s difficult to unbind it.”
"I..." Wan Yun buried her head awkwardly and whispered: "I always told me to consider it, but he kept urging me, and said that as long as I got the certificate and cooked the raw rice, my parents could only agree.
.I...I am actually very nervous and scared."
"You silly girl!" Wang Qing cursed: "Your parents have given birth to you for twenty years, and they are not as good as a man's words? If we don't recognize him, there are naturally reasons and reasons for not recognizing this. You
Have you ever thought about it?! Is there any?!"
Wan Yun had red eyes and did not dare to answer.
Xue Ling couldn't help but agree: "If he wants to marry you, he has to be honest and rely on himself to gain the recognition of your parents, rather than fooling you behind your back! He is forcing your parents to do this.
Submit, use you to threaten and coerce your parents, forcing them to recognize your relationship. Xiaoyun, have you ever thought about how disappointed your parents are and how angry you are with you? What can't your parents do to him?
Likewise, he will only expose his anger on his daughter. Before you formally marry him, he will only think about himself, completely ignore you and not consider you for a slightest consideration. For such a man, you must follow him.
Can he live a happy life? Is it possible?"
Wan Yun shrank her neck timidly and murmured: "...He is indeed very selfish, and he only thinks about himself and his family."
"Then what do you still love him?!" Wang Qingsheng asked angrily: "What can a selfish person give you? Marriage is a life of a man and a woman who live together, which means that both men and a woman must give for this family. He is so selfish. He is so selfish
, You will rely on your work to work hard in the future - do you want to exhaust yourself? Are you the kind of capable and powerful woman? Are you?"
Wan Yun shed tears and shook her head gently.
“…I’m not.”
Wang Qing asked again angrily: "Then why did you do to steal the household registration book to marry him?! You are pushing yourself into the fire pit, do you know?"
"Okay, okay." Xue Ling hurriedly held Wang Qing down and advised: "The children are all back. Let's analyze them carefully for her, speak well, and persuade them well, and she can understand."
Wang Qing held his forehead tiredly and lay back.
"Tonight I... was really angry with you..."
Wan Yun choked up and said, "Mom, I'm sorry."
Wang Qing sighed and pulled the quilt to cover it.
"You are really sorry for your dad and me... If you live a good life, even if you marry farther, we will feel more at ease. If you live a bad life, we will not be happy even if we eat delicacies every day. You
, I haven't been a mother yet, I don't understand the heart of being a mother."
Wan Yun buried in her arms, sobbing and crying.
Wang Qing patted her back and started crying.
Xue Ling coaxed them not to cry, told them to go to bed soon, and turned around and returned to the room.
He was so tired that he was so sleepy that he could hardly open his eyes, but unexpectedly found that Cheng Tianyuan had not come back.
She took out her cell phone and found that he sent a voice over half an hour ago.
Xue Ling quickly turned on the voice.
——Wife, Ah Hu is not very comfortable. Xiao Huzi and I took him to the hospital for a look. After you finish your work, you go to bed first and don’t wait for me.
Xue Ling frowned when she heard this.
Ah Hu's three highs have always been serious. I guess he was frightened by this tonight, and the old problems came to him.
Xue Ling couldn't help but sigh and put his phone aside.
Close your eyes and soon fell asleep.
At around four o'clock, everyone went to bed one after another.
The summer morning comes early, and in less than an hour, the east begins to turn white - it’s dawn!
It was dawn in the morning, and several old men got up.
After washing up, they all went to the back garden to clean up the flowers and plants, and there was no noise among the young people who were still sleeping.
After all, Xue Ling is old and has no sleep quality as good as that of young people. She wakes up at around eight o'clock.
My head was still slightly dizzy, but I was much better and I was in good spirits.
She quickly washed up and turned around and went out.
Wang Qing also woke up and was in a daze in the living room to drink water.
"Ling Ling... I was so disturbed last night."
Xue Ling stopped and said, "Why are you polite to me! By the way, are you calling Ah Hu?"
"I just got a shot." Wang Qing sighed and whispered: "Xiao Huzi said that his father was sleeping and his blood pressure was soaring that he almost couldn't measure it. He was taking an IV drip now and couldn't come back for a while. I'll hear what the doctor said later.
Hope to be discharged from the hospital tomorrow or the next day.”
After speaking, her eyes turned red again.
"I'm old and have a lot of problems. It's okay for the family to be fine, but we just need to cook ourselves. Once something happens, our children can't take care of themselves, but we are powerless and even have to fall down and become more and more messy.
”
Xue Ling couldn't help but comfort her and said, "Don't worry too much. As you get older, you will naturally have more problems. There is no big mess, don't make things up."
Wang Qing sighed tiredly and whispered: "Ling Ling, I have to advise the younger generation to not get married and have children too late, otherwise they may be as helpless as us in the future. We marry late and have children late, and the children have just grown up and we are already old.
We have not been able to help the children enter a stable period yet, we are already unable to take care of ourselves and cannot do anything."
"Yes." Xue Ling nodded: "Don't worry, I will tell the children this. Xiaohuzi married and had a child early, and had a son at a young age. He soon became the father of two children. He will be the future.
There is no worries in this regard."
Wang Qing smiled sadly and stood up.
"Xiao Xiaohu is very cute and will become an older brother in a flash. Youyou are about to give birth, and you always sleep poorly at night. I will go back to see her and come back."
Xue Ling should be fine.
Wang Qing paused and turned his head.
"They're the two... please help keep a close eye."