"No." Cheng Tianyuan shook his head gently: "It's not that you can't pursue happiness if you have poor grades, but you are not yet the age to pursue. You are only fourteen or fifteen years old, just a yellow-haired girl, knowing what love is and what happiness is."
"Who said I don't understand?" Xue Han blushed and shouted: "I really love him! I am very happy with him, free and comfortable, do whatever he wants, and he depends on me!
He loves me very much too!”
Cheng Tianyuan secretly felt that it was ridiculous and said, "There is no real freedom in the world. We live in this world and are subject to a lot of laws, regulations and moral controls and restrictions. Ninety percent of those who do whatever they want to do
In prison, if you follow you, you love you? What is your stupid reason?"
"You don't understand!" Xue Han burst into tears: "You don't understand at all! You don't understand what love is! No one in your era had the so-called love! You and your aunt even arranged a marriage! You didn't enjoy it yourself.
The beauty of free love, you just think that there is no such beautiful thing as love in the world!”
Cheng Tianyuan was slightly stunned and raised his eyebrows.
"Who told you that I and your aunt were arranged to marry? We just married first and then fell in love. Who said we don't have the so-called "love"? On the contrary, the love between your aunt and I have been flowing slowly and gradually became the love of our relatives.
.I don’t have to be free to fall in love, my love and marriage are all very happy. I don’t have to compare with anyone else, I can just compete with your father Xue Heng, I’m definitely much happier than him.”
"You—" Xue Han muttered dissatisfied: "My father and my mother divorced. What are you comparing with them?"
Cheng Tianyuan calmly put the water cup down and said, "Your father and your mother are in love freely. Both parents agree, and everyone says they are a couple of talented men and women, and they are made of heaven and earth. At that time, your father had already made a lot of money, you
Mom has a unit and doesn't have to worry about the food, food, food, and salt. But they live a mess and end up in divorce. Who says free love is definitely good? They are not arranged marriages, but also marriages where men and women love each other.
They are the typical examples. Do you think you can still think that free love is good? Can it?"
"Different..." Xue Han's eyes rolled in his eyes: "I'm just a few years younger than Miss Xiaoxin. They agreed to her, but they refused to agree to me... Is it because my boyfriend is not outstanding enough and not good enough?
money?"
Cheng Tianyuan sighed helplessly and frowned: "You child! Why do you have problems with you, but you will only go to other people to find the problem? Can you find it? Whether it is our family or your family, who is short of money
The first thing to do is to marry is people, not money, otherwise what is the point? Our family is not short of money, so what should we do to pursue other people's money?"
"Me-what else?" Xue Han cried and choked: "My father scolded me for not having brains, and even called me to deceive him in his trust in me... He was very disappointed in me."
Cheng Tianyuan asked: "Put your heart in mind. If you were deceived by your father for so long, would you be disappointed? Would you be sad?"
Xue Han shook his head and cried: "It's different... I'm just in love, and I didn't do anything unforgivable."
"Fall in love is not a sin." Cheng Tianyuan said: "It's just that you shouldn't deceive your parents for a long time, and you shouldn't completely abandon your studies and just pursue fun and love. Many animal cubs can run after they are born
Jump, but we humans are different. We must study for a long time to keep up with this era, and even learn for life. Otherwise, the current technological progress is so rapid that if you don’t study, you will be abandoned by this era. You are in school
Once you miss your study time, it will be difficult to have such an opportunity in your life.”
"I...I'm not suitable for reading." Xue Han said in a muffled voice: "I'm not a material for reading."
Cheng Tianyuan said: "You can't just drop out of school. You are only in your teenage years. Xiaohan, my uncle will tell you something. Back then, our family was very poor, so poor that we often ate wild vegetables, and we couldn't eat meat once a year or two. I'm very
I love to study, and my grandparents have always supported me in school. But my family is too poor and I can't afford my tuition at all. I have to save money at home and borrow money from others to pay tuition. I insisted on going to high school to get into college
Just when I received the admission letter, your grandfather
I fell ill again, and my family couldn't even afford to take out the blame. At that time, rural areas were generally poor, and every household was equal, and there were very few people who could take out a ten yuan at home. I didn't want my grandparents to beg their neighbors again.
I borrowed money from my fellow villagers, turned around and tore off the admission letter, and went to the county town to work as an accountant for the supply and marketing cooperative to make money. At that time, I was so eager to continue studying. At that time, I occasionally thought of the admission letter for key universities, and I couldn't help but cry.
Several times I wet my pillow with tears..."
Xue Han was stunned when he heard this.
For her little princess who grew up in a honeypot, this should have been something that could have happened hundreds of years ago and would never remain with people today.
She just can only spend tens of thousands of dollars on a casual bag, which makes her understand the embarrassment and hardship that she can’t even pay ten dollars!
Cheng Tianyuan sighed softly: "So I always hope that your mother will study hard. No matter how poor or hard you are, you must send your mother to school. Who knew that your mother dropped out of school halfway... almost failed. Fortunately, she graduated from a technical secondary school later.
With the help of my aunt, I was able to go to the imperial capital and be assigned to work in the unit. It is my biggest regret in this life. I don’t want my children to have the same regrets as me in the future, so I always strictly require them to complete their university studies, at least they have to be a university.
Graduated. They are all in college now. Your cousin still graduated from a master's degree and finally lived up to my expectations for them."
Xue Han looked at him with pitiful eyes and whispered: "Uncle, actually... it's not necessarily good to go to college. Many college students work for you, and my aunt's group has a lot of top students, and the money they make
There are no more you, no more you are.”
"Follower." Cheng Tianyuan laughed softly: "I don't necessarily make a lot of money when I go to college. I understand this principle. But that is my lifelong dream, and it is a dream that cannot be fulfilled. It is my first dream in my life, but unfortunately I
But it cannot be achieved. It's still the same sentence - my lifelong regret."
After a pause, he sighed and advised: "Xiaohan, don't be innovative when you should do anything in your life and give up what is really important. For you, the most important thing now is your relatives and studies. You are a student.
You must study at the age of your life. If you drop out of school at this time, you will definitely regret it for life in the future.”