"The family is stable, but the spirit is empty!" Shan You said puzzledly: "When you have sufficient wealth, shouldn't you pursue spiritual satisfaction more?"
Xue Ling laughed and said, "You have watched too many TV series. How can you have time empty if you can get high wealth? His life and work have all kinds of things, and he can't even be busy.
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"Really?" Shan You was obviously poisoned by idol dramas and whispered in a low voice: "How can you not be empty in spirit if you only want to make money? Those who seek young girls to accompany you and seek fun every day should be very good.
Is it empty?”
Xue Ling shook his head: "There is no need to worry about this when people who have truly reached the rich class. We can't give other people an example, just take Xinzhi as an example. He is not an old money, but a new man who started from scratch.
Rich. Do you think he is empty and empty? People who pursue and have ideals in their hearts will never be empty."
"That's because he has Xiaoxin!" Wang Xiaoxiao teased and smiled.
Xue Ling laughed silently: "The emptiness on the spiritual level cannot be solved by just one lover. Similarly, there are many satisfactions on the spiritual level, and the enjoyment of women's color is just one of them, not all."
Shan You couldn't understand and whispered: "Many men say... What men pursue in their lives is nothing but money, and nothing else."
"Haha!" Xue Ling was amused again and said, "That's what only a young boy with a strong spirit would say. Anyone who has seen the ultimate wealth can see through these things. Most rich people love to pursue their families more
Harmonious, not wanting to have some messy relationships only adds to my worries. I have a friend who is a few years younger than me. He has really made a fortune in his forties. He refuses any of the women who are dedicated and doesn't want any one. He just wants to stay at home
The head is stable, so that he can concentrate on making money."
Wang Xiaoxiao asked curiously: "He must love his wife very much, right? A wife who is a slutty person must not be abandoned."
"No." Xue Ling shook his head: "He didn't love his wife much. On the contrary, he worked hard every day to make money, and lived with his wife for a long time, and his relationship was very indifferent. He survived a lot of hardships and stood up, so he
He cherishes every penny he earns very much. He said that those women who give him diligence, who really like him, are all for his money. Although his wife is old and ugly, she is with him.
The relationship has become indifferent, but after all, he has been with him for so many years, and he is the only one who is not following him for his money, so even if he has no feelings, he will never get married. He said that his energy is no longer as strong as before, and he just wants to keep it.
Now, success. It has consumed all his energy to run a business well, and he doesn’t want to waste time on other women.”
"Is it not worth the gain?" Wang Xiaoxiao thought about it seriously and said, "After reaching a certain level, it will be easier to care about gains and losses."
Xue Ling chuckled and explained: "It's not about calculating, but about not wanting to waste time and energy on unnecessary things. There are many wonderful things in life, and love or women are just one of them. There is no need to over-indulge."
"Maybe he is an exception." Shan You laughed and whispered: "How many men will divorce and marry younger women when they succeed, and regard women as their subordinates or flaunts to their success."
"Different ages and different personalities." Wang Xiaoxiao analyzed: "The choices are different. Mom said just now that her friend succeeded in her forties and fifties, and she was already over the age of spending time and drinking."
Xue Ling nodded: "This is one of the reasons. At the age of age, the fertility hormones on your body are far less than before. Naturally, I am not so passionate about beauties and handsome guys. No matter how good or beautiful things are, they are actually far away.
It is not as attractive as it is to be interesting or wise. Of course, not everyone thinks so. There are also people who are still hugging each other in their seventies or eighties, but the number is relatively small. People like this are mostly rebellious, not for the world, and not afraid of
If you have a burden of reputation, otherwise you wouldn't be able to do it!"
"Some men who are responsible and pursue pursuing certainly won't." Yamayu said: "When you are young, you may not be able to hold your heart, so you may become thrilled. As you are older, most of them just want to keep a good family and pursue family harmony.
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Xue Ling smiled and explained: "This is also a spiritual pursuit."
Wang Xiaoxiao laughed and whispered: "I have a different concept from Youyou. I think rich people should be more afraid of divorce. Dividing their property into two is similar to peeling a layer of skin."
"There is no need to be afraid of a real rich man." Xue Ling explained: "After the property reaches a certain level, even if half or one-third are divided, they are still rich, and there is no need to worry about this. Instead, it is ordinary
The people think that I only have a little property anyway, and I will separate you from each other, and I will be indifferent. In fact, such families can't stand it, but they still have to do it, which will eventually only cause bones and tendons and hurt the family and children.
, hurt myself too."
Shan You understood and said, "Yes! Because the little property in their eyes is their entirety and cannot be judged based on the amount of property."
"Yes!" Xue Ling fanned with a big straw hat: "Don't watch news and entertainment reports all day long. Who is divorced again, who is married again, and then he posted a lot of his own marriage theories. In fact, they
Marriage has nothing to do with us, and it cannot be generalized. For some people who have completely free wealth, marriage and divorce can be completely free. Their marriage may be a strong alliance, and divorce may be just unpleasant cooperation and the relationship will not be very large.
But for most ordinary people, marriage is the division of labor and cooperation between husband and wife to support a family. Once separated, the family will be disbanded. It is a serious injury like a life injury that can never be compensated for in one's life."
Wang Xiaoxiao said: "Some people always say that the divorce rate is high because people have free thoughts, and both men and women are economically free. I think there are good and bad things."
Xue Ling smiled softly: "Actually, when this mountain looks high, many people are confused by some illusions. No one is extremely happy with anyone's marriage. There are many reasons for a happy marriage, and there are also unhappy marriages.
Many reasons for misfortune. If you don’t believe it, you can consult with a secret investigation report - keep it more than 90% of people dissatisfied with their marriage, more or less. For example, the three of us are currently
There are two who are not very satisfied with their husbands.”
Wang Xiaoxiao and Shan You looked at each other and blushed one after another.
Xue Ling didn't feel strange at all: "You go and ask, how many people can be very satisfied with their marriage - there must be very few. As long as you recognize this fact and manage your marriage well, there will be no big problem.
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"Mom, that's all you say..." Wang Xiaoxiao giggled and teased: "Marriage seems quite terrible, and there is no need to pursue it!"