Ahu sneered: "One time, two time, three time - you can't let others tolerate them all the time, right? Others will not be able to stand it, they will feel tired! They will be bored!"
Cheng Tianyuan couldn't help asking: "This time is not a big deal, why did it make such a serious incident again?"
"It's all because of money!" Ah Hu explained angrily: "My daughter wants to get married, why are we preparing some dowry for her? Is it unreasonable? She helped Hu Zi take care of the club for many years, and she has made contributions and worked hard.
What happened to her brother who gave her a little more dowry?!"
Cheng Tianyuan nodded slowly and asked, "Do you agree? Don't exaggerate it too much. It's not easy for young people to make money now, and the economic pressure is very high."
Ah Hu told the truth: "He agreed at the beginning of Xiaohuzi, but Shanyu and his family jumped out to object. He was caught in the middle and couldn't make up his mind!"
Cheng Tianyuan raised his eyebrows and asked, "How many?"
"I said, just a house and a car." Ah Hu emphasized: "The young man Xiaoyun is looking for is only an ordinary family. I don't know how much effort it takes to buy a good house! I don't want to be small.
As soon as Yun'er entered the door, she was complained by her elders, saying that she had emptied her wallets from two generations to buy a house in order to marry her. Her car has been used for several years and it is almost necessary to change it. Why not take this opportunity to change it together.
It was her dowry, and her in-laws dared not use her indiscriminately."
After a pause, he added: "The dowry is more generous, and I don't want her in-laws to bully her in the future. I marry my daughter to be happy, I'm not trying to earn any bets! I won't charge a penny, I want it.
Give her a generous dowry!”
"It's pretty good." Cheng Tianyuan finally understood and asked in a low voice: "Have you explained to Shanyue and the others - just let Xiaohuzi mat a mat temporarily, and you will return it to him in the future?"
"Yes!" Ahu said excitedly and sternly: "I've said it all! I said that the lease has not been completed yet. When the time is almost done, I will sell two stores or several houses and return them to Xiaohuzi. But they-
—They said it was not necessary! It was not easy for Xiaohuzi to start a business again now, it was a time when he was short of money. He also said that this was a fat man who was slapped in the face and was not necessary at all. Now it is time to invest well, and when he has money in the future, he wants to
Give your sister as much as you want!”
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "There are some reasons."
"But--" Ahu glared and said, "The truth cannot be said like that! Xiao Yuner is going to get married now, so of course the dowry must be purchased now, so it will be prosperous! Marriage is a major event in life, when will you miss it?
Oh? Besides, investment is risky, who knows that the boy will make a profit after he continues to do it? Yes? If he loses money, will there be no chance in the future? I love my son, but I love my daughter even more!
If they force us again, I will give Xiao Yuner all the property in the provincial capital! No share of Xiao Huzi! And no share of their daughter!”
"Calm down." Cheng Tianyuan lowered his voice: "What are you trying to do like this? Just try to be happy for a while? You please and coax your daughter well. Where is the son? If you do this, can he feel balanced? Can he feel good in his heart?
You want him to hate you?"
Forehead?
Ah Hu was speechless for a moment and shut up in embarrassment.
Cheng Tianyuan reminded again: "Don't forget that Xiao Yun'er gave birth to a child after she got married is the surname of her husband and the grandchildren of someone else's family. You and Wang Qing both live on Xiaohuzi's side and raise you
He is responsible for any illness after three meals. When you get angry for a while, as long as your daughter is good. What if you offend your son, what should you do? Go back to the provincial capital and be lonely? Isn’t it also lonely when you go back to your hometown?"
After hearing this, Ah Hu finally calmed down a little.
"...In fact, Hu Zi is much more responsible than before, and has made a lot of success over the years. I know that he loves Xiao Yun'er, and he also wants to prepare a dowry for his sister."
Cheng Tianyuan reminded again: "You have to take care of your daughter's happiness, can you ignore your son's happiness? Do you have the heart to bear it? If you make too much trouble, the two of you can't survive, the worst thing is that you are two little ones."
Ah Hu woke up a lot in an instant and sighed a long time.
Cheng Tianyuan whispered in a low voice: "Everyone has advantages and disadvantages. If there are many advantages, others will generally use a "good person" to praise it. If there are more disadvantages, they will be classified as "bad person". In fact, good people and bad people cannot be defined. The family is getting along with each other.
Some people have to pay more and be more tolerant, otherwise they will be petty in everything and they will not be able to live a stable life."
"But Shanyue and the older couple are getting weirder!" Ahu said with dissatisfaction: "Shanyou has never had his own ideas, and he listens to her parents in everything! Look! He has been there for many days, and he looks back at a moment.
There is no sign! Should I live this life?"
Cheng Tianyuan also felt it was inappropriate and said, "Let Ling Ling talk about Shan You."
They are already parents, so how can they ignore their children because of conflicts?
I used to run back to my parents' home if I was unhappy, but now I'm in a mess and run back with my parents. I'm in my thirties, not a three-year-old child, so why don't I have any sense of responsibility at all!
Ahu said angrily: "I left my child when I was angry! If I hadn't taken care of the two children, I would have been relying on the nanny alone! How can I rely on the nanny without the owner? Now I'm on the Internet on TV.
There are a lot of news reports about nanny child abuse, and every time I see it, I am frightened! She was so sad that she threw it to the nanny and ran away! Who can be so cruel to be a mother!"
"Calm down." Cheng Tianyuan analyzed: "Shan You is not mature enough, has a weak sense of responsibility, and has insufficient abilities, but she is not a cruel person."
"Oh!" Ah Hu whispered depressedly: "But she is not a good daughter-in-law, nor is she a good mother. For Xiao Huzi, she is not a good wife. She doesn't expect her to help make money to support her family, she just hopes she can
Don't make trouble all day long, make trouble for this, make this happen sometimes, make this happen again."
Cheng Tianyuan thought about something and nodded in agreement.
"Shan You have been back to her parents' home many times in recent years. However, last year, the elderly couple of Shan Yue fell ill, so it was her duty to take care of her."
Ah Hu said angrily: "I didn't say that no! It's okay to be filial to parents, but you can't listen to her parents in everything - that's stupid filial piety! There are old people and young people in this family, and no one is that relaxed!
Why do their family always rely on others to tolerate? People's patience is limited! If this family breaks apart, what can their family get? If she leaves Xiaohuzi, can she still rely on herself? She has been married for several years
, She can't even cook a meal! Don't take yourself too seriously, everyone will turn around if the earth is missing!"
Cheng Tianyuan glanced at his friend and pushed the small plate.
"Stop being angry, eat some peanuts. This is salt-baked and won't get too angry."
Ahu grabbed a handful of hands and did not forget to remind him: "Remember to ask his sister-in-law to help and persuade him."
"I know, I know." Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "I'll tell her later."