Xue Zhilan shook her head: "When looking for a partner, no one thought so much... Later, even if he regretted it, he could only pass it."
Many of them are of their age without a marriage certificate. Some workers in the unit or people living in big cities have a sense of marriage law, so they will get a marriage certificate that looks like a grand prize.
Strangely, even if you don’t have a marriage certificate, many people will not divorce. Even if you live a bad life, they will just keep going and will not divorce randomly.
Therefore, people in their era have almost no so-called divorce rate, and even if there are, they are so low that they cannot be as low as possible.
Dad Xue told the truth: "My third brother told me that he was not satisfied with his two daughters-in-law, but he has always been enlightened people. Just think that his son likes it. Anyway, it's his son who gets married, and it's not him, so he doesn't.
How to manage it.”
"I'm not satisfied after marrying, right?" Xue Zhilan asked.
Dad Xue nodded: "Yes! Otherwise, why did he find it bad? The third brother said that whether a person has the ability is one thing, but narrow-mindedness and selfishness are moral issues. He said he regrets it and teaches his son to read.
Writing, teaching my son to be well-educated, but I forgot to teach my sons how to choose a partner.”
"This..." Xue Zhilan smiled bitterly: "Even today's parents may not understand this. I am a person who has read books. When the children grow up, we are all ashamed to talk about such topics. My wife and I were originally
They just let things go, and they are busy with themselves. They think that when their children grow up, they will naturally find a partner - there is nothing to teach."
I believe that most parents come here like this, and it is not only the couple.
"Facts have proved that marriages with parents' guidance will be more practical." Xue Dad explained: "It will also be more solid and happier. After all, parents are experienced people and have experience in choosing a partner. Especially the kind that I already regret.
, and we should also guide our children not to repeat the same mistakes in marriage."
"It makes sense." Xue Zhilan echoed: "Many times the so-called enlightenment should not be laissez-faire, but slowly teaches how to choose a partner who is suitable for you in the process of getting along with your children. The ancients said - marry a wife, you should marry a virtuous person.
It's the best teaching material."
"The ancients said it too general." Xue Daddy laughed: "However, this is a famous saying throughout the ages. A virtuous and intelligent woman is naturally the best. With the virtues, even if her abilities are ordinary, her family will still be stable, safe and happy.
.”
Cheng Tianyuan watched Xue Sheng and the other two leave, walked back to the living room, and heard the two old men chatting happily.
"Dad, uncle, you should teach us earlier! I am just coming to sigh now - it seems that it's too late."
Both old men laughed.
"We used to be young and when we were parents, we didn't understand it."
"Yes! They were all realized as they were older and their ideas gradually matured."
Cheng Tianyuan joked: "I have married a wife for the rest of my life, and finally realized the truth that the ancients really did not deceive me."
All three of them laughed.
Suddenly, Xue Zhilan remembered something and asked, "Ayuan, Young Master Qing has helped a lot this time. Should we prepare some thank you?"
"No need." Cheng Tianyuan said: "It's all your own people, so there's no need to worry."
Xue Zhilan knew that Lin Qingzhi was walking a lot in Xinyuan and was inseparable from Cheng Huanchong. He didn't force him to say this.
Half a month later, Xue Yue was discharged from the hospital.
He wanted to come to Xinyuan to find Xue Ling, but Xue Ling refused to see him.
He quietly went to the entertainment company to inquire and found that the company's senior executives had been resolutely and had changed everything, and there was no one who could inquire about the news.
At this time, his wife had a divorce with him. He beat his wife in anger. Xue Yue was arrested and locked up in the police station again.
Xue Chang called for help, but everyone comforted him perfunctorily, and they were unwilling to come forward.
Liu was begging at Xue Cong's door for a long time, but Xue Cong finally had to ask a lawyer to go over and adjust the bail before he took out Xue Yue.
Despite this, the daughter-in-law still refused to give up and insisted on suing for divorce.
Liu went to the sanatorium again, and betrayed that the two brothers Xue Heng and Xue Huan had to help buy the house. They temporarily kept it from their daughter-in-law saying that the house would not be sold, and they were reluctant to let their son leave their children at a young age.
Xue Heng and Xue Huan were both in a very difficult situation and secretly called to ask about their old father.
"Dad, our family does not lack big houses to live in, so we don't need to buy a small house at all. The so-called "help to buy" is actually asking us to help pay the money. The house is ours in name, and the people who live in it are still them.
.”
Xue Zhilan hesitated and asked, "What do you think?"
"We just don't know." Xue Heng said helplessly: "I'll just ask you!"
Xue Zhilan sighed again.
The eldest son lowered his voice and explained: "What she said means is that Xinyuan has helped them withstand most of the pressure, and the amount has been negotiated, and the uncle is willing to pay the remaining money. But our family still
There is no substantial help, it must be expressed."
Xue Zhilan frowned and asked, "Why didn't she go to find her daughter? Her daughter's financial conditions are also good, why are you only looking for it?"
Xue Heng said angrily: "How can I know! She is going to live to death in the office now, and even threatened that if her son and his wife are separated, she will not live."
"You can do it yourself." Xue Zhilan said irritably: "I was so annoyed by their family recently... I don't want to talk anymore."
"Okay." Xue Heng had to compromise: "Since we have to work with our family, then buy it. However, the property certificate must be transferred. If they want to cheat in the future, we have evidence in hand. It is no problem to let them live,
But since it is selling a house, you must go through the procedures for selling the house."
Xue Zhilan said, "You brothers are going to discuss it", and then hung up.
After receiving a satisfactory reply, Liu hurried to find his daughter-in-law and said that the house would not be sold and that some relatives were willing to help pay.
Unexpectedly, the daughter-in-law was determined to divorce.
Liu threatened her that if she had divorced, she would not have any possessions in her family, because the house was in Xue Chang and her name and had nothing to do with Xue Yue.
Moreover, the house and car at home are all pre-marital property, and there is no share in her.
But her daughter-in-law didn't care at all, saying that she was stable in her work, but Xue Yue was burdened with gambling debts and evidence of domestic violence, so she would definitely be able to obtain custody of her two children.
When Mrs. Liu heard this, she became very anxious.
She ran to Xinyuan to ask Xue's father to ask them for help. She should not let her daughter-in-law fight for the custody of the child, otherwise her daughter-in-law would definitely take them to remarry in the future, and Xue Chang's bloodline would be broken.
Dad Xue was so tired that he gave up.
"I'm going to be annoyed by you even my life, so I can't worry about that much."
Xue Zhilan was frightened and led his brother to hide in the back garden.