Xue Ling cleaned up the tableware and went to the kitchen to clean it.
Cheng Tianyuan felt a little cold on his body, so he went back to the room to find an extra thin shirt to wear.
The huge living room became more and more empty, the night outside the window was colder, and the room seemed even more quiet and deserted.
After eating the pork, Cheng Huanran began to boil water and make tea.
"Uncle Heng, have some tea."
Xue Heng's head was dizzy and waved: "I need to wake up the gods."
Cheng Huanran hurriedly poured a cup and went forward, reminding him: "It's still a bit hot, wait a little longer before drinking."
"Thank you." Xue Heng apologized: "You have to stay up late with us so tired. Ranran, why don't you go back to bed first. You have to go to work tomorrow, don't delay your work."
"It's okay." Cheng Huanran explained: "There is no morning meeting tomorrow, so it doesn't matter if I go there a little later. Leave in the afternoon and finish the work."
Xue Heng couldn't help but sigh: "Your mother has many children, and you can choose the most suitable heir to inherit the Pharmaceutical Group. There are so many groups on the other side and you here. She doesn't have to worry about business now, and she can be at home with all her body and mind.
”
"My mother is still very busy." Cheng Huanran smiled and said, "It's not easy for her to take care of her grandparents and help take care of Xiaozhu and the others."
Xue Heng shook his head: "People of our age should not be too idle, otherwise something will happen easily. Your mother is just right, she will not be too tired, nor will she have nothing to do. People are afraid of being too busy and anxious, and they are also afraid of being too busy and too anxious.
I am lazy and get sick.”
"Yes." Cheng Huanran agreed: "I also think she's just right now."
Xue Heng couldn't help but sigh, "I am about the same age as her. But she has succeeded much more than me, not only in her career, but more in her family."
"Uncle Heng, you are also very successful." Cheng Huanran said the truth: "Your career achievements are amazing, don't belittle yourself."
Xue Heng shook his head: "It is completely impossible without your grandfather's support, and without your mother's help."
Cheng Huanran smiled: "Your ability is obvious to all, otherwise why didn't my grandfather support others? Why did my mother hold you together in everything she does? Yes?"
Xue Heng smiled and looked at him with his head in his arms.
"Ranran, listen to my uncle's advice - you must have more children after getting married."
Forehead?
Cheng Huanran smiled lowly: "An An and I both like children very much. We plan to have three or four."
"Very good!" Xue Heng praised: "Women who like children will love their families more and have a sense of family responsibility. The ability to agree to have a few children for you proves that she is a very caring and loving woman.
”
Cheng Huanran chuckled and explained: "I am not young anymore, and she is not young either. I hope I can get pregnant next year, whether it is a boy or a girl, and strive to have three."
"Okay, okay." Xue Heng couldn't help but praise: "I used to be young and strong, but I didn't feel that there were great regrets in my life. Until the past two years, as I grew older, I found that my biggest regret in this life was
...There are too few children."
"Uncle Heng, your situation is quite special." Cheng Huanran comforted.
Xue Heng nodded: "I have some obstacles, but the doctor said it would not affect fertility, and it might be slower, but it wasn't impossible. At that time, my mind was full of work and future, and I always felt that Xiaohan was enough.
I can’t bring any of them, so how can I get one or two more reborn? Now I think about it, I really regret it.”
"One child is also good." Cheng Huanran said: "Many families are only children, and one is enough."
Xue Heng shook his head: "Other families may be good, but not in my family... If Xiaohan could have one more younger brother and sister to accompany her, she would be more responsible and her personality might be cheerful."
"Yes." Cheng Huanran agreed: "Children with siblings at home will know better how to get along with others, and will tend to be cheerful and stronger. It's just general, but it can't be generalized."
Xue Heng smiled bitterly and sighed: "This is my personal experience and cannot represent everything. In fact, my uncle has always secretly regretted it. I don't want you younger generations to forget the most important thing at the age when you can have children and raise children. Don't regret it after you get older.
And yet powerless, don't repeat my mistakes."
"Yeah." Cheng Huanran listened carefully.
Xue Heng leaned on the sofa and whispered quietly: "Some people say that having children is just a very important thing in life, but it is not the whole of life - I still agree with this. Until I look at the animal world,
I found that many animals spent their entire lives on "having children" and were even willing to sacrifice themselves for their offspring. At that time, I suddenly realized that many of us may not really understand the meaning of "life". The most important thing about life is to continuate
, and the continuation depends on reproduction and reproduction. If there are no descendants, life will eventually perish and disappear.”
Cheng Huanran nodded: "When I was young, I might not have thought so much. Only when I get older and experience more things can I understand the true meaning of life."
Xue Heng whispered: "If I were born with a bad or disabled person, it would be fine if I didn't reproduce or have children. But I was not too bad. My ancestors have reproduced and lived through generations, but why did the population wither in our generation? Later, I
Think about it, the main reason is that we pay too much attention to me, and only think about ourselves at that time, and not deeper."
"Uncle Heng, you are pretty good now." Cheng Huanran couldn't help but persuade: "You have a successful career and your children have grown up. The wealth you have accumulated is enough for you to live your life and spend your whole life in Xiaohan."
Xue Heng shook his head: "I'm pretty good, but Xiaohan... has been raised by us. In the past few years, she has grown a lot, but it's not enough. It doesn't matter whether I'm good or not, but just think of the future of future generations.
I can't help but worry. I ask your mother to take care of the money in my name, just to prevent it just in case."
Cheng Huanran secretly felt sorry for him and whispered: "Uncle Heng, don't think too much. Being a parent is the most difficult. You can go to work without any training and accumulate little by little by little. Your child can teach you well and you can
Some psychological comfort. If you don’t teach well, you will have various anxiety and worries. After having children, many people live for their children. In fact, most parents are great and difficult - including you
.”
Many parents want to raise their children very well, and even hope that their children will become successful and their daughter will become phoenixes.
But who can really do it?
To raise children and teach them well, humans have been exploring what to do since ancient times. Unfortunately, to this day, we have not yet been able to develop a set of methods that everyone recognizes.
"Oh..." Xue Heng said sadly: "After she was born, we didn't know how to take her. When she was a child, she was always led by the elderly, and your grandparents were the main force. Later, when something happened to your aunt, she was so cute again.
My daughter is not a son who can beat, beat, scold or scold me. I care and love me in every way. The mistake also began from that time. As she grew up, I was in a hurry to deal with it. Your mother scolded her right, but I really couldn't educate her.