Xue Ling reminded in a gentle voice: "Talk to him more. Duoduo has a strong mouth, but he has always been like this, you know him."
Zheng Duoduo's mouth has always been powerful, not only in the business world, but also in life.
His mouth is a bit poisonous, he is black-bellied and has many thoughts. She has been in love with him for several years and has been married for several years. She should know him very well.
"Yeah." Xiao Tong whispered: "I... haven't talked to him for a long time."
Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "How can this be done? The couple still have to hide their hiding situation, and they can't talk more and communicate more. Who else can they tell me? Hum?"
There is almost no secret between her and Cheng Tianyuan. Both of them have always talked about everything and have never deliberately concealed each other.
Especially when there is a big event at home, both of them will discuss with each other seriously to ensure that they agree with each other.
A husband and wife are one, and it is not enough to be too clear or too confused.
Xiao Tong was speechless for a moment and shed tears at the bitter coffee in front of her.
"I...I don't know how we got to this point. Auntie, my heart is really messy and chaotic...and very tired."
Seeing her like this, Xue Ling felt secretly distressed.
"You have always been very smart, but you just thought it a little wrong and did something wrong. Fortunately, you are not yet irreversible, so just correct it earlier."
Xiao Tong seemed to think about it, but still didn't realize what he was wrong.
"Auntie, do you...will you find it difficult?"
Xue Ling was stunned by her question, and turned to a soft laugh, "What's hard?"
Xiao Tong whispered: "We women."
Xue Ling finally heard it and nodded quickly: "Of course it's difficult, very, very difficult."
Xiao Tong seemed to hear his heart and started to cry excitedly.
"I didn't think it was so difficult when I was not married before. But since I got married and had a family, I have to study, have to be pregnant, have to start a business... I am afraid that I can't catch up with others, and I am afraid that I will fall behind others. I can do it.
This, I don’t care about that... I’m all confused, everything is messed up, and in the end it seems that nothing can be done."
Xue Ling patted the back of her hand lightly and said warmly: "Don't cry, aunt understands."
"Auntie, did you have such a difficult time at the beginning?" Xiao Tong asked choked up and asked, "Have you ever thought about being a housewife?"
Xue Ling shook her head: "The child is young and his career is just starting out. It was really difficult at that time. But I am not suitable to be a housewife. I have a very strong career aspiration like you, so I never thought about going home to be a housewife.
.But I am a little better than you. The social environment back then was not as anxious and anxious as it is now, so I have plenty of time to do my career.”
"You are also lucky than me." Xiao Tong whispered: "Uncle Cheng has always been very supportive of your career."
Xue Ling nodded: "No, but you are also lucky. In fact, as long as the time is ripe and the project is good enough, Duoduo will support you very much in the future. He opposed your entrepreneurship this time, because this project is not good enough, and you have to endure it.
It’s too difficult to succeed, not to start a business targeting you – do you understand?”
Xiao Tong couldn't help asking, "Really? That's what he said?"
"Yeah." Xue Ling explained: "I'm not familiar with the business you are currently engaged in, but Duoduo and Yangyang have both come into contact with each other, and they have learned about it carefully, but they all feel that it will not be the long term. He also told me,
It’s not that I don’t support you, but that this project cannot be supported, and I will only lose money and be exhausted in the end.”
Xiao Tong muttered dissatisfiedly: "He--didn't he say what he did earlier!"
"He said that you were in high spirits at that time, so you didn't listen to him." Xue Ling smiled and said, "Young and energetic, and like to stick to your own ideas. This is the biggest characteristic of young people and the biggest common problem."
Xiao Tong blushed and hesitated: "Auntie, what do you mean-"
"I mean I advise you to re-plan it." Xue Ling explained: "If it is really difficult and I can't hold on, it's better to let go as soon as possible and get out as soon as possible, so as to save you from losing more and more in the future. There is no reason to make a fortune in business, so you will lose.
If you want to get out as soon as possible, don’t let yourself get stuck in the quagmire. You must have enough determination and courage to stop losses in time, which is a difficult decision made calmly.”
Xiao Tong was thinking, and seemed to be weighing the pros and cons.
"Auntie, but if I don't take the opportunity to work hard..."
Xue Ling shook her head gently: "You are still young and have a lot of opportunities to start a business, so don't rush to do it. How many people can make a lot of money by themselves at a young age? Most people are step by step,
There are people with extraordinary talents who have accumulated little by little, but there are definitely not many!"
After a pause, she added: "If you don't want to go to Duoduo's side and are afraid of being affected by his halo, then don't go for the time being. Without him, he will definitely not be able to move on, but you have been away from the group for a few years, and the group is still
OK. If you have anything else you like, you can go and pursue it freely."
"But I..." Xiao Tong smiled bitterly: "Nothing else for the time being... I don't know what to do."
Xue Ling comforted her and said, "Wait, don't worry. Look at our Xiaoxiao, she originally wanted to go to work, but even a few children in the family couldn't live without her, so she gave Yangyang the opportunity and was at home for the time being.
Taking care of a few children. However, she did not waste time and taught herself economic management sooner or later when she had time. She learned to take care of some real estate and shares in her name. She was not only a good wife, but also at work
Partner. Xiao Tong, don’t force yourself too much.”
Xiao Tong's eyes flashed slightly, and she was still hesitant.
"Auntie, I can't bear to part with my son, he's still so young... but many people around me advised me to be careful. They said that once I go home and become a housewife, one child after another, I will slowly follow the society in the future
Being disconnected, slowly being eliminated by society, and finally having no choice but to be an old mother. When the child grows up, he has his own circle of friends and studies, and his husband has his own career. In the end, I have nothing, and he may even be disliked by his husband.
Or abandon.”
Xue Ling chuckled: "Everyone said it is only temporary. If you have a career aspiration, you will sooner or later find a career that suits you and start a business again. Being out of touch with society and being eliminated by society, the person who really depends on you, not your husband.
Or the child, not others.”
Xiao Tong was confused for a moment, then smiled suddenly as if she was enlightened.
"Auntie, I...I think I understand."
Xue Ling smiled: "You are a smart child. You only need a little tip and you will understand. You are still young and you still have plenty of time to seize every possible opportunity. Don't be anxious, let alone
Anxiety, your starting point has been higher than your peers, and your lovers also have the ability to give you a higher platform to develop. Therefore, you should be confident that you can take it and let it go."