Unexpectedly, Xue Ling underestimated Xue Han's "stubborn" nature. Even after explaining it two or three times, Xue Han was still confused and persistent in asking Cheng Tianfang to "enter the genealogy".
"No!" Xue Han was angry: "Anyway, my mother can't be a human inside and outside! I must add my mother's name to the genealogy of the Xue Family Ancestral Hall!"
Xue Heng felt a headache when he heard this, and he held his head and sighed.
"I've told you that I can't... Why can't you understand, a child?"
Xue Yang lay on the sofa beside him, sleeping soundly, and his nose made low snoring from time to time.
Xue Ling comforted her: "Xiaohan, don't think too much. The most important thing now is to let your mother be buried in peace first."
"Don't lie!" Xue Han red eyes: "My mother must be recognized by the ancestors of the Xue family before she can cremate her! Otherwise, she will die with her eyes open and she will not know where to go!"
Xue Ling was stunned when she heard this and asked, "What soul? Why can't you die with your eyes open?"
What era is it? There are still young people who believe this?
Xue Han wiped away the tears and choked and explained: "My mother has married my father, so she must be a member of the Xue family. Only when the Xue family ancestral temple accepts my mother as a daughter-in-law can my mother's soul have a home, and there is no need to be a lonely ghost.
.”
Xue Ling was secretly shocked.
It seems that the child is in a serious condition.
"Oh!" Xue Heng frowned and stopped: "The ancestral temple is used to worship ancestors. The genealogy only records respected juniors or outstanding juniors. I didn't even put your mother on the genealogy?"
"Let Grandpa Xue go!" Xue Han said excitedly: "Let Grandpa go and do it together! They are all older generations of the Xue family! They are all helping to manage the ancestral hall, and there are still some in recent years!"
"It's gone." Xue Heng asked back: "Don't you know how old your grandpa and the others are? Ah? Who dares to let the elders in the clan work?"
Xue Han shook his head: "Then let grandpa plead with love, right? Where is grandpa? How could he not come back? My mother is his daughter-in-law! You are the eldest son, my mother is the eldest daughter-in-law! My mother is gone,
How could grandpa not come back? When is it? He still has the heart to go on vacation!"
"Shut up!" Xue Heng scolded in a deep voice: "Don't bite people when you are excited! What nonsense is it! Your grandfather is an elder. Even if he knows, he cannot attend the funeral of his younger generation. This is a very taboo thing.
.Besides, the imperial capital is still in a panic. How can we let your grandpa take the risk back? The elderly have many underlying diseases and are weak. Once they are infected with the virus, the consequences will be unimaginable! People here are too busy to take care of themselves, so how can they let the elderly come back!
”
Xue Han shouted in anger: "What should I do if my mother? She has nothing! She is dead, you don't even want to give her a title! She has given birth to a daughter for your Xue family! She is enough for grandparents.
OK! Why don’t you give her a title? Mom is most afraid of not even knowing where she is buried after her death! She is afraid of not having an identity! Do you know! Do you know?!"
"Be quiet, calm down." Xue Ling coaxed: "Don't be angry, let's talk about something."
Xue Han shook his head: "How can I say it well! Do I say it well?! You don't want to listen to me in anything! Just because I am the youngest in this family! I don't even have the right to speak!"
"No." Xue Ling shook his head slowly: "You misunderstood, my aunt didn't mean that."
"What do you mean!" Xue Han shouted loudly: "You don't listen to what I mentioned! You don't listen to what I said!"
"Stop!" Xue Heng scolded: "Who is the one who is allowed to talk to your aunt like this?! She is my cousin! She is your cousin and your own aunt! How old are you?! Even the most basic respect for your elders is
No! You have lived for more than twenty years in vain!"
Xue Han was still very excited and shouted: "I'm not living for nothing! I shouldn't have lived! I'm not using any use to live!"
"No, no!" The psychologist on the side hurried forward and calmly grabbed Xue Han's hand. "Xiao Han, if you have something to say, you are too excited. Come on, take a deep breath first, take a deep breath first."
Xue Ling winked at the psychologist and pulled Xue Heng away.
"Xiaohan, take a deep breath, come! Let's take a deep breath together! Take a deep breath...be good! OK, very good, very good."
After a while, Xue Han's mood finally eased a little.
Xue Ling hugged Xue Han's shoulder and said warmly: "Your dad is a little tired, let him take a good rest first. When he gets rested, we will come to him to discuss it. Come on, you can go to the doctor for some drinks first.
Or go back to your room to rest. When your dad gets better later, we will discuss your mom's funeral. The way you said is a bit special, but it is not impossible to adopt it. Don't worry, your dad and I will try our best to meet your requirements and work hard to complete it.
”
"Really?" Xue Han frowned and asked nervously, "Auntie, are you lying to me? Perfunctory?"
"Of course not." Xue Ling smiled slightly and said warmly: "I keep my word and try my best to do what I can."
Xue Han asked seriously: "Can my mother write about the Xue Cheng family on the tombstone?"
"Yes." Xue Ling nodded: "This is no problem."
After Xue Han received the guarantee, his face improved a lot.
"Then-that's fine. Dad, you have to agree, because my aunt has agreed."
Xue Heng looked at her with complicated eyes, and his eyes were red and he didn't speak.
Xue Ling stepped forward and said, "This is no problem."
The doctor echoed a lot and finally persuaded Xue Han to leave.
Xue Heng looked at his daughter's departure back and fell down like a dejected look.
"Uncle Heng!" Xue Yang hurriedly supported him.
Xue Heng sighed and whispered: "Is this kid... crazy?"
"No." Xue Ling glanced at him and said, "She was just stimulated, causing her previous mental illness. The doctor said that she would recover slowly."
Xue Heng closed his eyes like a loss and leaned on Xue Yang's shoulder, but he didn't move for a long time.
Xue Ling sighed softly and said, "I know you are not feeling well now and are not feeling well. Xiaohan's current situation is so we can't help but miss her. It doesn't matter if you can't get into the genealogy, isn't there a family list?
?I went back to the ancestral hall, brought the list, and added Afang's name to your name to satisfy her first."
"She is not clear now, how can you listen to her?" Xue Heng sighed weakly: "How can you do this so random..."
Xue Ling shook her head: "A Fang's funeral cannot be delayed at the moment, so let her be buried earlier. Xiao Han's behavior requires us to work together. First, calm her emotions, and when the tombstone is recorded... they are all engraved
Fang is your wife. You and Afang cannot remarry, but Xiaohan has a sharp thorn in his heart. Now Afang is gone, so he takes the opportunity to take this thorn and stop irritating the child.”
"You can do it." Xue Heng still hesitated and asked, "Can the list really work?"
Xue Ling whispered: "No one dares to make decisions on the genealogy. The older generation of clans must nod together, otherwise no one dares to write randomly. Afang can't tell the difference for the time being, so use the list to deal with her."