Cheng Tianyuan also felt that this was more appropriate and agreed: "First ask for the opinions of the psychologist."
Xue Ling actually agreed to bring Xue Han over and whispered: "This child needs a lively and happy environment. Uncle Zhilan is there, all of us are familiar with people, and we should be more aware of her condition.
good."
"I think so too." Cheng Tianyuan explained: "She was banned in the nursing home for too long before it suddenly broke out... Of course, there must be other reasons."
Xue Ling couldn't help but ask curiously: "Other reasons? Really?"
"Yes." Cheng Tianyuan lowered his voice: "I heard from Ah Chong that Xiaohan's relationship may not go well."
Xue Ling asked: "Are you broken up?"
"Maybe not." Cheng Tianyuan explained: "It seems like he is a secret love... there is no result."
Xue Ling couldn't help but sigh: "Why is this kid always having trouble with things that are not going well?"
"It's not her fault, right?" Cheng Tianyuan said.
Xue Ling covered her quilt with a thin blanket and whispered: "It's not that you can't blame her. It may be because of her personality, or it may be because she cannot handle the emotional problems very well. If it's one or two times, it may be other reasons.
If there is a problem, it will definitely be more than external factors, but there will definitely be her own problems."
"That's it." Cheng Tianyuan smiled bitterly: "That girl has awkward personality, has impetuous thoughts, has not learned much knowledge in her abdomen, has a simple mind and loves to think randomly. The more I come into contact with her, the more I feel that her problems are quite serious."
Xue Ling sighed softly: "Aheng doesn't know how to teach children, he only knows how to love and pamper her. Until later he found out that the problem was, he couldn't solve it, so he could only be anxious. Afang missed part of Xiaohan's growth period, add
She doesn’t know how to guide her children. If she accumulates too much problems, she will naturally be exposed and exploded after a longer period of time.”
Cheng Tianyuan still insisted: "As long as the psychologist agrees, let's take her by my side. My sister is just a child... I really can't bear it."
Xue Ling understood his painstaking efforts, but had to remind her husband.
"If it is our own children, we have the responsibility to raise them and educate them well. We can say that we can scold or even beat them. But Xiaohan is not our biological daughter, we have to control our size. We can treat her as a
My daughter is in love, but she cannot be taught as a daughter. She has a grandfather and a father. You cannot take all the responsibilities. Do your best to guide and help, but you cannot take on a big responsibility, let alone take on everything."
"Just..." Cheng Tianyuan whispered: "It's hard to control this. If you want to take care of her more, you have to teach her children as you teach them."
Xue Ling shook her head: "In my opinion, try not to do so."
Cheng Tianyuan hesitated for a few seconds and said, "After you said this, I suddenly realized that I might have taken a hot potato and I can't throw it away. It may be a typical big trouble."
Xue Ling turned his head and looked at him in a low voice: "Don't think too seriously, I just remind you to control your position."
Cheng Tianyuan suddenly remembered Xue Yang's words and asked: "Wife, have you noticed that no children seem to like Xiaohan very much?"
"Yes." Xue Ling lowered his voice: "The main reason is that Xiaohan's personality is not likable and he doesn't know how to get along with others. But they are all very sensible and don't show this on their faces. They should care about how to be a good example.
My cousin, they are not confused at all.”
Cheng Tianyuan sighed again.
Xue Ling comforted: "Nine out of ten people are unsatisfied in the world. Nothing can happen according to your wishes or expectations."
Cheng Tianyuan narrowed his eyes and looked at the old photos on the album and whispered: "The old man passed away, so he shouldn't have taken it out and told me... In fact, my parents loved Afang so much, and always thought she was still young, so they waited for her to grow up.
Just so I thought that the longer I got, I got more and more crooked, and I dropped out of school and elope with others. Even though I woke up halfway, she was still confused and made a mistake. One step was wrong, every step was wrong, and the whole thing was lost. Xiaohan didn't just do it
Cheng Tianyuan closed the album and whispered: "I just summarize the reasons, not blame anyone. It's already like this. Even if I know who's fault, it won't change the reality."
Xue Ling helped him cover the quilt and said, "You should be optimistic and don't be sad. The doctor told you not to be surprised or think randomly. Try to be calm and rest more and do not do intense exercise."
"I understand." Cheng Tianyuan said warmly: "You have to take good care of yourself first before you have the ability to take good care of others."
"Yes." Xue Ling patted his chest lightly and said softly: "My parents and Xiao Han are still waiting for us to take care of you, you must get better as soon as possible."
Cheng Tianyuan replied obediently and held her hand.
"Thank you for your hard work these days."
Xue Ling leaned on his pillow and whispered: "Don't scare me in the future... Although the children hadn't said you were sick, they told me in advance that you were fine. But I was still shocked. It's only been a few days
If you didn't meet, something happened to you. At our age, I can't stand being scared."
Because if an accident occurs at this age, it is very likely to be very dangerous.
Cheng Tianyuan gently stroked her back and murmured: "I dare not let myself have something to do. I found my heart pain, so I immediately pressed the emergency button and did not dare to delay for a second."
After a pause, he sighed: "When you said you wanted to install an emergency button in our room, I told you not to use it, just install it for the elderly. Fortunately, you insisted at that time, otherwise you would faint if you didn't have time to call your phone.
But when the children wake up the next morning, it may be too late."
"Luckily I persisted." Xue Ling said: "Because I know we are not young anymore, and there may be an unexpected day. One more button may not be used in normal times, but it can help you at critical moments. What did I say to you at that time?
Come on, it would be even better if you can never use it for the rest of your life. Anyway, it’s not enough to have a button to decorate your home.”
Cheng Tianyuan whispered in a melancholy: "Yes, year after year, and then we are all old."
"People always grow old." Xue Ling's word "older people" has become much more peaceful. "Protect your body well, don't make yourself uncomfortable, and don't cause trouble for your children."
Cheng Tianyuan asked with a low smile: "What? Some people dislike me for being in trouble? Is it their burden?"
"No," Xue Ling said in a sour tone: "Everyone revolves around you, they are even more nervous than me, and they take care of them more thoroughly than me."
Cheng Tianyuan smiled with relief and said, "Everyone is very well-behaved and considerate."
"It's just a few days." Xue Ling hummed: "There is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time. Do you want to try it after a longer time?"
Cheng Tianyuan looked at her with a funny look and said, "If you can't eat grapes, you will say that the grapes are sour. I am very confident in them."
"Farewell." Xue Ling rolled his eyes, then simply closed his eyes: "I don't want such 'grapes'."