But Xue's mother was still not relieved and reminded: "This is not in the imperial capital. There are all foreigners outside, so it's hard to let the children find a partner."
Finding a partner means getting married. What if you find a foreigner and can't communicate with him even if you say a word?
After all, this place is not an imperial capital, so let it go without any care!
"Yes." Dad Xue echoed: "If it's in the imperial capital, we'll send someone out to ask. Even if we can't know the truth, at least we can quickly understand the details of others. It's different here!"
Ah Hu laughed and joked: "What if he finds a black man with black hair, what should he do?"
Wang Qing glanced at him and reminded: "Most of them are Chinese... There are no black people here."
Ahu explained embarrassedly: "I'm just an example. There are no black people, but there are quite a lot of local people. They don't look very similar to us."
Xue Zhilan sighed, "Oh!" and explained: "I have asked her, but the child's mouth is like a clam shell, so he can't ask. She doesn't let her ask, and I can't force it. Fortunately, Ling Ling
Let someone follow her all the time, otherwise... Otherwise, I would not be assured."
It’s hard to control it, but whoever makes me an elder can’t sit still and let it go.
His son is thousands of miles away, and his granddaughter is under the care of his "guardian", so he cannot escape the blame.
But he was really powerless and had a vaccination with his son in advance, saying that he had tried his best.
Mother Xue glared at her daughter and asked, "Have you found something? Did you?"
"No." Xue Ling said the truth: "I didn't go to inquire anything. I just let the people who follow Xiaohan be cheered up and not let her be injured or deceived."
When Xue's mother heard this, she couldn't help but get angry: "What kind of advice is this? The people who follow her can protect her from being injured at most. What if the man makes her sad, hurt and deceived?"
"It's not guaranteed." Xue Ling asked back with a hilarious question: "Who can guarantee that his daughter will not be deceived and injured when she goes out to fall in love? It's enough to protect her outside. As for whether she will be hurt in her heart - no one can guarantee that she can't.
Bar?"
Nowadays, young people are very willing to fall in love. They chat when they meet each other, and even turn around and go to the hotel.
There are people who protect the physical harm, as for the breakup, the breakup, and the sadness - no one can guarantee that there will be no foolproof!
Xue Zhilan also felt it made sense and said, "Xiao Han's child is a little weak. If she suffers more, she may be stronger."
"You're going to let it go!" Dad Xue was not angry and reminded: "What if she gets depressed again? Her condition has only improved a little recently."
Xue Zhilan couldn't help laughing and crying: "What else can you do if you come to prevent the water and soil? Excessive protection will definitely not work. You can't stand a little setback. Once you can't stand it, you will make trouble. It's better not to watch it too tightly and give her the right space.
Float, then close the line if it doesn’t work.”
"What if it floats too far away?" Ah Hu muttered: "Can't you take it back? Could it be that you are married abroad?"
Xue Zhilan was amused and asked back: "If it can be successful, wouldn't that be good? A girl will get married sooner or later. Will she find a reliable person to get married and get married sooner or later? Wouldn't it be better for her to find a reliable person to get married and start a family and start a business earlier?"
"That's right!" Ahu nodded: "It's better to fall in love and get married earlier than being a leftover woman! My Xiao Yuner is almost becoming a 'leftover fighter', and my wife and I are so worried!"
Mother Xue thought about it and did not object anymore.
"If the other party is a serious person, it must be a good thing. Foreigners are foreigners, as long as they can get along with young people."
Since the reform and opening up, there have been more or less young people around me who have married or married foreigners.
For example, when Ah Heng was studying abroad, he brought back a foreign woman with an "embarrassing" identity.
For example, Xiao Xiao, who had passed away, married a chubby foreigner.
Although the results are not ideal, there are still some that should be there.
Dad Xue still didn't agree much and reminded: "I still have to ask... If it is a Chinese descendant, there will be no problem. If it is not, then you have to be more cautious. Our Xue family has no foreign species yet, so it is difficult to make any strange things.
A weird mixed-race guy."
"Hey!" Ahu said with a funny look: "Uncle, don't worry. The mixed-race boy is pretty good and looks so handsome! He didn't have one before, which doesn't mean that there will be no one now and in the future!"
"Yes!" Xue Ling chuckled: "People have to look forward, and they cannot stick to the old rules and regulations. For example, Tietou, who has lived here before and has obtained his nationality here. He is also considered a sacred person.
Half a foreigner, right? We Xiaoxin married him, don’t you object? As long as Xiaohan likes him, as long as he is a serious person, why bother to care too much?"
Xue Ling is still quite open about this.
Xiaohan is very sensitive. The more she blocks her, the more she likes to sing opposites to her elders.
Instead of being counterproductive, it is better to let go and give her enough freedom to play.
If she breaks up and feels hurt, she will take it herself.
She told Xue Heng that bringing Xiaohan over is to change her environment and let her learn to adapt to the environment better, rather than giving her a completely sealed and generous environment to protect her to the point of being more ignorant of the world.
Some things cannot be solved by keeping them strictly guarding them. Instead of being trembling for the rest of your life, it is better to face them calmly.
Xue Zhilan also felt that there was no need to worry too much, and said, "Our older generations are half-walking people, and their ideas are inevitably too old and aging. Even if they are looking for foreigners, it is okay. It is okay to have a few mixed-race children. Anyway,
There must be someone in the family who is the first to eat crabs and break the record, right?"
Dad Xue smiled: "You said so, then there is nothing to worry about."
"Good mentality!" Ahu raised his thumbs up and praised: "Uncle Zhilan is becoming more and more open-minded! This personality is simply! The feeling of déjà vu like a fairy-like trait!"
Xue Zhilan laughed: "You're really old! The so-called immortal style is not yet open-minded and open-minded? When you're old, you'll be indifferent to many things, and your demeanor will naturally be different."
Xue Ling laughed with her.
Wang Qing was still curious and asked: "Is it really... a foreigner? Really?"
Xue Ling shook her head: "It shouldn't be. Xiaohan's English is not good, and the language in Wenguo is not good. If you can't communicate, you will definitely not be able to fall in love. So I guess it's mostly Chinese or international students."
"That's good, that's good." Dad Xue breathed a sigh of relief and said in a muffled voice: "Don't really mess with a black-haired foreigner! Give a few little brats like charcoal black - it feels strange to think about it!"
Xue Ling was amused and shook her head: "Not necessarily! In short, let's wait and see. If the person can't talk and they will be separated after turning around, then we are worried about it for nothing here, right?"