Zheng Duoduo is not afraid of being joked, and he tells the truth: "I'm a little dizzy."
Xue Heng and Cheng Huanran did not force him. They did not force him to eat together until the sashimi was placed there one by one.
"It's so fresh and sweet!" Xue Heng praised: "It's delicious! By the way, where is Ling Ling? Why didn't you call her to come and eat it?"
"My mother doesn't like to eat sashimi." Cheng Huanran replied: "In recent years, her stomach and intestines are not as good as before. She has begun to avoid eating raw and cold foods, and the raw foods are even more untickable."
Xue Heng felt a little regretful and said, "Such fresh and delicious food - it's hard to come by! Take a few bites!"
"No." Cheng Huanran shook his head: "Uncle Heng, you should know my mother. She wouldn't eat it if she didn't eat it."
"That's right." Xue Heng chuckled: "She has always been a very self-disciplined person."
Zheng Duoduo seemed to remember something and said, "Ayuan's brother-in-law is also a very self-disciplined person."
"Yes." Xue Heng echoed: "He is too. The old couple have many similarities."
Zheng Duoduo's chopsticks paused slightly, his face slightly dark.
"Some people say that it is the most suitable for couples to complement each other. But I think Sister Ling and her brother-in-law have never quarreled... The relationship has been going well for decades."
Cheng Huanran smiled and said nothing.
Xue Heng nodded, "Yes! The relationship is good! I have known them for so long, longer than you. But I have never seen them quarrel one day - it really hasn't been once."
"There must be something when there are different opinions." Zheng Duoduo said: "But they are all smart people and know how to reconcile."
Xue Heng disagreed: "With more smart people in the world, not every marriage can be happy."
Zheng Duoduo subconsciously looked at him.
Xue Heng was embarrassed and asked back: "What's wrong? Did I say it wrong? I - I'm divorced, and my marriage is indeed unhappy, but it doesn't mean I can't participate in such a topic. On the contrary, I have the most say,
OK?"
"It makes sense!" Zheng Duoduo gave a thumbs up: "After all, you are a veteran, so of course you have the most say."
Xue Heng was a little fluttered when he praised him. Perhaps because of drinking, the conversation immediately opened.
"My marriage is different from Ling Ling and the others... When we first got married, we also had a lot of oil in our hearts and our relationship was very good. But as time went by, we started to quarrel and disagree. I didn't want to argue with her, and I didn't care about it.
She treated me violently from time to time, and even refused to go home. She refused to show weakness to me. When I saw that I didn't go home, she simply asked other men to have fun and cuckold me. You were still young at that time, and the adults tried their best to do their best.
It's hidden, so you don't know much about the inside story."
Zheng Duoduo was a little embarrassed and touched his nose.
"I didn't know very clearly, I vaguely guessed something, but I didn't expect it to be so... embarrassing."
Xue Heng no longer cared about it and said, "There are thousands of people in the world who get married and divorced. They have their own reasons and their own reasons. Ling Ling and his brother-in-law are so good that they must be.
Their secret to getting along. My marriage with Afang ended in failure, and it was all our fault and we couldn’t blame others.”
"...secret?" Zheng Duoduo became interested and asked: "Is Ayuan's brother-in-law obedient to Sister Ling? He does not have an advantage in economics, but economic status determines family status. I can understand this.
.”
"Barring!" Cheng Huanran couldn't help laughing and scolding: "Nonsense! My parents never compete for family status. They respect each other and love each other, not what you call "obedience" or "decided."
Xue Heng glanced at Zheng Duoduo and joked: "You boy is full of money, and you always have to say that you cannot live without the 'economic'! The position determined by the economy is a helpless and sad position. Any capable man - who can do it.
Can you accept it? Well? Can you not?"
"Me?" Zheng Duoduo didn't even think about it: "Definitely not!"
Cheng Huanran thought about it and explained: "My dad just gave my mom enough space to respect my mom's career. My mom also respected my dad's career and tried to cooperate with him. When we were young, my dad sacrificed a lot of time to take care of his family.
, so my career is not as good as my mother. He sympathizes with my mother's business and it is not easy for me to start a business. My mother sympathizes with his efforts for the family. No decisions are decided, only mutual understanding, love and support each other."
Zheng Duoduo thoughtfully and murmured: "What a tolerant heart..."
"Most people can't do it." Xue Heng shouted: "Especially young people today! People nowadays are impetuous and like to determine their status by "money" and "economic strength". Whether it is a man or a woman,
As long as you get money, you think you have extraordinary abilities. In order to prove yourself, you climb up all kinds of books. The older generation will not think so. For example, my parents, they don’t make much money, but
They feel that they are worthy of the trust of the patients and the honorable title of "doctor". My father worked diligently for decades, and later he was rehired for many years. The money he earned in his life is not as good as Ling Ling took him to take him.
After two years of investment, they still feel very proud. Being a person who is useful to society will live up to their lives. After all, it is mainly because people's hearts have changed, not other reasons."
Cheng Huanran nodded in praise: "It is true that the change in concepts is too big, and people are too impetuous nowadays."
"Yes!" Xue Heng raised his chin slightly: "You can ask your father. He would not think that taking care of the family and taking care of the children was an irreparable pain, or how great it was.
Sacrifice—He certainly wouldn’t feel that way. On the contrary, he felt that he had to do it because the family needs it and the children needed it, so he was willing to give."
Zheng Duoduo raised his eyebrows and fell into deep thought.
Cheng Huanran chuckled: "It should be. In my opinion, my dad never feels wronged, nor does he feel that my mom owe him anything, or that our family owe him anything."
"Your dad is really amazing." Xue Heng praised without hesitation: "Not to mention thirty or forty years ago, even now, you may still be ridiculed. You are looked down upon by others, and even your own wife will look down upon you.
There are many people here. He is neither humble nor arrogant, and he is not as popular as what young people say nowadays say, "self-esteem or desire for victory or defeat". He manages the family in an orderly manner and allows you to grow up safely and healthily. At the same time, he gains everyone
The respect, including the elders, and you guys - of course, your mother."
Cheng Huanran smiled and said, "That's true. My mother said from time to time that her career would never have been successful without my father's strong support. This alone would have been successful enough."
"This concept is correct!" Xue Heng shook his wine glass and said, "You don't have to make a lot of money and have a high social status to be considered a successful person. We all think your father is very successful - really!"