"Yes." Lin Qingzhi nodded: "I think the aunt is very likely to have a trick."
Everyone was very curious and looked at it one after another.
Lin Qingzhi explained: "As far as we know, Zheng Duoduo and Xiao Tong did not have a breakdown in their relationship. At most, family life and raising children are too trivial, making them too irritable and unwilling to face it. Even the reasons and requirements for divorce are exactly the same.
Two people with such consistent steps are mostly just angry with each other, rather than sincerely wanting to divorce."
"I'm really angry with each other." Cheng Huanchong continued: "Miss Xiao Tong just blames Duoduo Ge. No matter what he says, he hopes that she will quit her job and be a full-time housewife at home and go out to work when the child is grown up.
My sister said that he couldn't stand Duoduoge's attitude, so why should she be at ease and sacrifice her child's life as a mother? Her position is hard-won. Once she is over the best age of her career, she wants to find a suitable one or her in the future.
The job you like is impossible. Why is it her who sacrificed it, not Duodogo? She cares about this matter very much in her words and outside."
Everyone was stunned.
"This is the real reason, right? They are unwilling to sacrifice some working hours for their children and families, and then accuse each other of not sacrificing them."
"It's just Duoduo asked Xiao Tong to resign and take care of the children. Xiao Tong refused, right? It's strange! It's not bad! When two people can't take care of a child, why do they think that they can take care of the children when they are alone? After divorce, they can take care of the children when they are divorced.
?Ah? What logic is this?"
"That's right! I'm reluctant to quit and don't want to take care of my children at home. Then why are they fighting for the custody of their children? When the two of them get together, they can't take care of their children well. Could it be that if they get divorced, they can take care of their children alone?
Two monks don’t have water to drink, one monk has water to drink? If this is the case, it’s really their problem.”
Cheng Huanchong explained: "The child is sick. I heard that the food allergies were very serious a while ago. The two had to go to work and work, so they didn't care about the child at all. The nanny was fired one after another, and the child could not be taken care of.
So the two kept quarreling, the more they got bigger and worse they became.”
Lin Qingzhi analyzed: "This should be the biggest difference between them. Children are not reliable only by relying on nanny, and they must have one more person to accompany their children. Whoever resigns to accompany their children at home has become the biggest difference."
"Someone has to sacrifice!" Xue's mother looked at her for granted: "It's not possible to rely on a nanny, so she has to help take care of it. Either dad or mom. Since she chooses to have a child, she has to take care of the child well and take the responsibility she should bear.
Take it."
Cheng Huanchong shrugged helplessly: "Now Duoduoge hopes that Xiao Tong will die, but Xiao Tong refuses, and hopes that Duoduoge will die. There may be many reasons, but after listening to it, this is the main difference."
"No one will?" Ah Hu frowned and asked, "Then - who will take care of the child now?"
Cheng Huanchong replied: "My mother."
Xue Zhilan couldn't help laughing when she heard this and gave up.
"No young people today are not fussy. Look at this couple of enemies, they are unwilling to give up their work and future, and no one is willing to retreat or sacrifice. If I don't understand the inside story, I may still be able to sympathize with you.
.But I know Duoduo has a net worth of billions. Oh my God, why is it so puzzling!"
Then he patted his chest.
"When Ah Heng and I got married, we were all hospitals assigned to the superiors. We were far away from our mother-in-law's house, and no elderly man could help us. At that time, we didn't have the so-called nanny now, and the salary was only I can't afford to hire people. I can only try to transfer the shifts and try to get an adult at home. I used to work night shifts for several nights because of the shifts. Fortunately, I was young at that time, otherwise I wouldn't be able to hold on. I was at the door occasionally. After leaning on the bar for a few seconds, you can fall asleep immediately. When you really can't adjust it, you will carry your child to work and take turns taking care of him. When you have time in the department, your colleagues will take care of each other for a few glances. The children will sleep one by one I carry it back in the medicine box after get off work.”
"When the child grows older, in nurseries and kindergartens, I will give him away whenever I should, and run away whenever I should. We raised our two children at work. At that time, there was no villa or car, even
A honeycomb coal has to be saved. Lu Liu, we, guarded our children and often slept for less than a few hours. But as we watched our children grow up day by day, our hearts were full of hope. Nowadays, young people have houses, cars, and money, and can hire them
The nanny can hire a worker, but she can't take care of a child. Haha! Haha!"
Everyone also found it quite ironic.
Ah Hu muttered: "Not to mention billions, even hundreds of thousands, I feel that there is no need to divorce... It's not that life can't continue."
Cheng Huanchong explained: "Miss Tong said that she would fight for the custody of the child and let her parents come to the imperial capital to help take care of the children. Duoduoge did not respect her, did not respect her ideals and work, and was not worthy of her nostalgia."
"Duoduo - he is young and promising, and has outstanding abilities." Xue's father analyzed: "He is indeed a bit arrogant and mal-minded in character. He still prefers the traditional family atmosphere model. I hope Xiao Tong is the same as his mother.
With family as the center, work second, and be a good wife with a good mother type.”
"In the past, Sister Achun could help them take care of their children." Cheng Tianyuan analyzed: "They just hire an extra nanny, and there is no need to worry about this. But Sister Achun is gone, and the child is weak and sick, so she beat them both at once.
It collapsed."
"Miss Tong can't do it!" Cheng Huanchong shook his head: "She is very strong and has a very strong career aspiration. She said that it would be better to kill her directly if she told her not to work."
Ah Hu shook his head, saying, "Xiao Tong's child is really strong, he has been like this since he was a child. He has to be the first in his studies, and he has to be the first. I heard from Ah Min that she once participated in a competition.
After winning the third prize, she directly tore the certificate and said that she didn't want it, she had to work hard to get the first place. This is her character, born!"
Everyone looked at me, I looked at you, and finally they were silent.
Things caused by personality are not so easy to change. After all, everyone has heard of the saying "The country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change."
Lin Qingzhi smiled slightly and continued, "The stronger the person is, the stronger the person is. At this time, you cannot force anyone to retreat, otherwise it will inspire their fighting spirit."
"What should I do?" Cheng Huanchong frowned and asked, "When they will regret it in the future?"
"It's certain that I regret it!" Dad Xue blurted out without thinking: "They are really separated, and I will definitely regret it in the future!"
Lin Qingzhi nodded: "If they don't fall into trouble, they won't realize their mistakes, and they won't accept that they will fail."