Cheng Tianyuan raised his eyebrows and smiled softly.
"Many men have this problem, some are different, but they generally have such troubles."
Xue Ling asked in surprise: "How do you know?"
Cheng Tianyuan hugged her in his arms with a funny look and whispered: "When men are with men, they like to tell dirty jokes. Occasionally they will show off how good they are and say everything in a mess."
Xue Ling was shocked about this!
"Really? I-we girls don't."
Cheng Tianyuan explained: "It's probably different from men and women. There are so many topics and jokes like this among men."
Xue Ling blushed and muttered: "Then you wouldn't tell us... about the two of us... in bed... to others, right?"
When she thought of this, she felt like she was going to dig a hole in the ground and drill it directly!
Cheng Tianyuan quickly shook his head and whispered: "I don't like to tell these dirty jokes. I won't talk nonsense about my wife and me. Moreover, after I married you, I didn't go to the dock anymore and I didn't have the chance to listen.
, there is no chance to say it. Even if I have the chance, I won’t say it.”
When he was working as a short-term worker at the dock, a lot of men squatted together at night, either smoking and chatting or playing cards.
He doesn't smoke, usually listens to their chats, and occasionally interjects a sentence or two.
At that time, he was not married, had no wife, and had no experience in speaking. Others brag about it and talked about everything, and he was usually only responsible for listening.
Xue Ling can trust this.
He is a serious man, both inside and outside.
Cheng Tianyuan explained: "Some men will have problems with this when they are older, while others will not work from the beginning. Liu Xing, who is probably not able to do it from the beginning, cannot last long, and he feels frustrated and nervous.
Even if I have no face, the more I think about it, the worse it will be. I have heard a lot of this situation."
Xue Ling has been married to him for more than a year, and knows that he has no worries about this at all. On the contrary, she occasionally blames him for being too physically strong and pestering her, so tired that she doesn't want to get up.
"He...can he just got married, so he has no experience?"
Cheng Tianyuan stretched out his hand and flicked her pretty face.
"It's definitely not. Men are instinctive in this regard. They may be impulsive or too excited for the first time, and they will not be able to control it well. But after only one or two times, they will be able to learn it without a teacher soon."
Xue Ling blushed and muttered: "Then Liu Xing is probably an obstacle in this regard."
Cheng Tianyuan whispered: "Some people become a little hard and become weak soon. This is the case with Liu Xing. This is his privacy. You remind his wife to ask him to see a doctor or ask someone to ask him for a question. This is also a method.
”
"Is this a psychological or physical problem?" Xue Ling couldn't help asking.
Cheng Tianyuan shook his head: "It should be possible. However, this has something to do with the wife in the bed. This matter has always been to both parties, and one of them cannot be blamed on them all. Of course, men still dominate, and the responsibility lies mainly with him."
"Oh..." Xue Ling blushed, embarrassed to worry about this shy topic again.
Cheng Tianyuan was very calm and explained: "Where men gather in a crowd, they will talk about such topics. Some experienced seniors will teach people. The ratio of men and women in your newspaper is similar. Everyone is at work and eating together, so Liu Xing didn't have much chance to follow him.
There are a lot of men together, so I don’t have the chance to consult with my seniors.”
"This... I don't know." Xue Ling muttered: "Maybe we'll talk about it privately. After all, this is one of the bad habits of men!"
Cheng Tianyuan smiled and whispered: "This is one of the nature, not a bad nature. Men are not as shy as women, so they dare to do and speak. There are also some aunts and aunts who talk outside without any hindrance, but you don't have the chance to get in touch.
”
"Really?!" Xue Ling was completely shocked and asked, "Talk loudly outside?"
"Yes." Cheng Tianyuan explained: "In the streets and alleys of the village, some aunts and aunts would also say such dirty jokes, occasionally chatting while eating melon seeds, without any hindrance. The people you come into contact with are serious and cultural people, so they make such fuss.
.”
Xue Ling couldn't help laughing and crying: "So... I'm still ignorant! This was originally a matter of how private and intimate the two of them were before, how could they tell the big thorns! I-I can't stand it!"
Cheng Tianyuan laughed softly: "It varies from person to person. Your personality is related to your age and your experience. Maybe we are chatting here shyly now, maybe in ten years, you will start talking to me.
This is like talking about whether it will be windy and rainy tomorrow.”
"Maybe!" Xue Ling murmured: "I am still very able to accept new environments and new ideas."
Cheng Tianyuan bent down and kissed her pretty face.
"Wife, this is not a new concept! This is human instinct, food and sex. As early as the history of our ancestors, there were a lot of such topics and stories. You, put your attitude naturally and generously."
Xue Ling smiled softly and echoed: "You seem to be right."
Cheng Tianyuan's eyes were dim, and his big hand touched her waist and straightened up.
“I not only say it right, but I also like to do it right and do it well.”
Xue Ling was shy and muttered: "My son is not asleep yet!"
Cheng Tianyuan grinded his teeth secretly, complaining dissatisfiedly: "Since this guy sleeps beside us, I've been furious."
When the two were intimate, they were afraid of arguing the little guy, and they were afraid of having too many moves to wake the little guy up, so they always dared not be too reckless.
He was a young man, and the woman he was sleeping beside him was his beloved woman. He was easily distracted and it was normal to want to do something shameful to her.
But now there is a little guy...
He said in a deep voice: "When he gets older, let him go and sleep with my parents."
Dad spoke up, cruel and merciless.
Xue Ling, a damn person, was really reluctant to let him go: "He is still so young! Let's talk about it when he is old."
Cheng Tianyuan looked at her with a angrily look down on her and couldn't help asking: "How old? When he gets older, he will understand some things and say some simple words. If one day he accidentally sees it, he will say it randomly or chase you to ask,
How should you answer?"
Xue Ling: "..." She didn't think so long at all!
"Then...that..." Xue Ling weighed the embarrassment and heartache, and finally chose to feel heartache. "When the weather gets warmer, let him sleep with his grandma at night."
Cheng Tianyuan smiled and kissed her pretty face.
"That's what it's decided!"
Xiao Ranran, who was beside him, played with his little fingers, occasionally chewing his thumbs, licking them around, and was so happy that he danced with joy, without knowing that his father had already begun to dislike him.
Two days later, they packed up two large bags of New Year's goods and Xiao Ranran's clothes and prepared to set out to the imperial capital.
Ah Hu came early in the morning and had breakfast at their house.
Cheng Tianyuan took his luggage, Xue Ling held his son, said goodbye to the old man at home, and then hurriedly got on the bus and headed to the provincial capital.
The little guy rarely takes a car. When he saw the scenery outside the car window passing by quickly, he shouted happily, and seemed very excited.
Ah Hu laughed: "Xiao Ranran is very happy to take the bus! This child is obviously very active!"
Cheng Tianyuan disagreed and defended: "He is very obedient. He is not necessarily naughty and active except sleeping."
"That's because he's still young!" Ah Hu smiled and said, "You won't say that after two years!"