Chen Xinzhi was a little excited and raised his voice: "Madam, this is what I really think - please allow me to be with Xiaoxin!"
"This..." Xue Ling was very embarrassed. He looked at Cheng Tianyuan who had been silent and found that he lowered his eyes and did not express an opinion. He seemed to not want to speak, and he was also very hesitant in his heart.
After a pause, she whispered: "Tietou, it's really too early to talk about this now..."
"No." Chen Xinzhi said sincerely: "Actually, it's not too early. Xiaoxin is already an adult. Nowadays, children are very precocious, and some fall in love several times in their teens. I will try not to affect her study and strive to grow up.
Help her on the road, accompany her to grow up and mature, and then build a beautiful and happy family together."
After hearing this, Xue Ling sighed slightly.
"Tietou, you may have some misunderstandings about my views on education. Although my children are not among the best, overall they are not too bad. It is due to our many efforts and the efforts of the entire family.
Ayuan even gave up his career for a time and focused on his family and several children. Because we were afraid that both of them were busy making money and had no time to take care of the education of several children, which would eventually lead to their worldview and values being distorted, and they would be in trouble in life.
If you take a detour on the road, or even take the wrong turn, you will regret it for the rest of your life.”
"Yeah." Chen Xinzhi finally calmed down a little and whispered: "Xiaoxin has a good personality and is simple. You don't have to worry about these."
Xue Ling nodded: "We know that the best thing for our children is not money, but the best education and correct guidance. If both of us work hard for our careers, our children will eventually grow crooked. Even if we make a fortune,
Silver mountains, children can destroy them all in just a few years. For us, children are the largest, most focused and most prudent 'investment' in our lives."
"Madam, I understand what you mean." Chen Xinzhi nodded slowly: "But Xiaoxin is a girl after all. I can give her better protection and environment, and ensure that she has a worry-free life."
Xue Ling shook his head and whispered: "Tietou, Xiaoxin is a girl with great potential. Your premature love and protection for her may cause her to lose the opportunity to express herself. If you truly love her,
She should be allowed to make her own choices and encourage her to face the difficulties in life, instead of letting her hide behind you and let you shelter her from the wind and rain."
"I have the ability to protect her." Chen Xinzhi continued to argue: "My childhood and adolescence were too hard, with too many hardships. I don't want her to suffer in life and work, because I am already strong enough."
"But this is not the purpose of training her." Xue Ling continued to shake his head: "Tietou, a truly long-term marriage is not about one party's permanent care and dedication, while the other party is cared for and accepted, but about each other's dedication and care for each other.
.Actually, it was so difficult for you in the past, and you need a woman who understands you, cares about you, and can also care for you."
"Madam..." Chen Xinzhi frowned and whispered: "So, you are opposed to Xiaoxin and me going to study in Wenguo?"
"Yes." Xue Ling said: "The learning environment in Wenguo is very relaxed, and with you accompanying and protecting her, she can easily complete university studies and even graduate courses. But this
It goes against our basic purpose of educating her."
"Tietou, you have outstanding ability, so you can quickly create such a huge wealth in Wen Kingdom. But after you came to the imperial capital, you found that the competition here is very fierce, the market is large, there are many talents, and each industry has its own hidden rules, so
You must let me help and hire more professionals to help you work. You can adapt to the cruel competitive environment in the imperial capital from a relaxed atmosphere, but once Xiaoxin stops and becomes comfortable at the age of study, it will not take a few years.
Weeded out by society."
"You dote on her and love her very much, so you want her to grow up happily and comfortably under your protection. You feel sorry for her that she is too busy with her studies in Didu No. 1 Middle School, so you want to apply for her to study in Wenguo in advance, even
You don’t have to take the college entrance examination. This way, you can spend more time together and kill two birds with one stone."
Having said this, Xue Ling shook his head again: "I'm sorry, if that's the case, then we would rather stop you now."
"No." Chen Xinzhi quickly compromised and said, "Madam, sir, you still have to ask Xiaoxin what she really thinks..."
Xue Ling smiled helplessly: "Everyone loves ease, unless they are very self-disciplined. A person cannot be defeated by the word 'ease'. She also really wants to study in Wenguo now, and also wants to go to Wenguo now very much."
When I'm with you, I wish I'd never be apart every day, right? No need to ask, we all know that's what she thinks."
Chen Xinzhi was slightly embarrassed and whispered: "...Yes."
Xue Ling nodded lightly: "Freedom of love and freedom of marriage. As parents, we should not dictate our children's love or marriage. But we only give the most pertinent suggestions and advice. We can agree to your relationship, but you don't
You should do it your way. If you are really good for Xiaoxin, you should let her stay here and continue her studies. She must stay and adapt to the fiercely competitive environment, and she must also learn to take care of the career I gave her.
.Tietou, a spiritual partner who can fight side by side with you is no worse than a little woman who is cared for behind you."
Chen Xinzhi was thoughtful and did not respond for the time being.
Xue Ling glanced towards the door and deliberately raised his voice.
"We know that you feel sorry for her and don't want her to suffer the cruel beatings of society. But we can't keep her close all the time. She has to learn to adapt. She is the child of our hard work and risk of death.
As parents, we feel sorry for raising such a big girl every day. But if she wants to fall in love with you, she has to work even harder."
"Tietou, you are so outstanding and extraordinary. You are the most outstanding boy I have ever seen. I don't want your partner to be protected by you, but a woman who can stand side by side with you, even if she is not a woman."
A strong man, but he cannot be useless and live by your favor."
"No matter how calm the sea is, there will be rough times, and no matter how powerful a person is, there is no guarantee that he will remain standing in the mall. It is not easy for you to struggle until today. If she loves you, she should not hide.
Living comfortably behind you. She can share the wind and rain and the sunshine with you, which is also a beautiful scenery."
"A marriage that relies solely on one party's dedication and output cannot guarantee that it will always be strong. Xiaoxin has very good potential. You should not bury her, and she should not bury herself. Real happiness must be achieved by herself.
, you shouldn’t do it all by yourself and make her lose many opportunities. In the end, the bottom line is - we are also good for her, good for you, and good for your future."
After saying that, Xue Ling let out a sigh of relief and said: "This is what we think. We agree to let you fall in love. The conditions are here."
Chen Xinzhi sat calmly, frowning slightly.
Suddenly, a pretty figure burst into the door: "Mom! I accept the conditions! I agree!"