Xue Ling smiled gently and said confidently: "With Xiao Huzi's foundation in this industry, he should be able to make a comeback soon. There is no need to worry that he will not be able to raise two children."
Xiaohuzi is a pioneer in this industry and one of the first people to make big money.
With his current connections and abilities, as well as the sufficient capital chain around him, I believe he can turn the situation around very quickly.
"Auntie, I know you will help him." Shan You whispered in embarrassment, "But it can help for a while, but not forever. His mother is seriously ill now, and Xiao Xiaohu's grandfather has to take care of her. The two old people can no longer help.
The child needs the care of his parents and the warmth of the family, and it is far from enough for a nanny to take care of him. He has to be busy starting a new business and taking care of his mother, so he can't take care of his two children."
Xue Ling shook his head: "He will do his best. In addition, we will also help. The two families live so close to each other so that they can take care of each other when it is inconvenient."
"But... the child needs the company of his parents." Shan You still refused to give up and insisted: "If he can't do it, he should think about the child and leave the child to me to take care of him properly."
Xue Ling did not answer directly, his eyes fell on her belly.
"Yuyou, you are still pregnant with the child. You will be in confinement for the next delivery, and you also have a baby to take care of. How can you spare time to accompany the little tiger brothers?"
"Um...don't I still have my parents?" Shan You hesitated: "My parents can help pick her up and accompany her."
Xue Ling shook his head: "Your parents are not in good health either. Let them take care of themselves first. In addition, the two brothers Xiao Xiaohu grew up here, and they are used to Wang Qing and A Hu's care.
It would not be a good thing for them to rashly let them change to a new and unfamiliar environment."
What she told was the truth and she didn't mean to target anyone or anyone.
Sometimes the failure of a marriage cannot be blamed on one person, but it is really inappropriate to let the two children follow Shan You at the moment.
Firstly, she has never been very good at taking care of children, and now she is pregnant with Liujia, so she obviously has too much time to take care of herself. Secondly, Xiaohu and Minihu have been raised by their grandparents to help take care of them since they were young, so they cannot live without the environment in the imperial capital.
Furthermore, these two little guys are Wang Qing and A Hu's lives now. If they were taken away, Wang Qing would be in a panic.
With her current condition, she must not be allowed to suffer any further stimulation, especially such an incident of flesh and blood being stripped off.
"Children change quickly and have better adaptability than adults. They can get used to it quickly." Shan You whispered with red eyes: "Auntie, you are also a mother. You should understand my mood. I am very sad these days.
I miss them so much that I almost go crazy."
Speaking of this time, Shanyou was heartbroken again.
The child is the flesh that has fallen off her body, how could she not miss him or miss him!
If she hadn't needed to take care of her baby and her body, she would have come to visit them all long ago.
Every time she thought of the scene when the two little guys looked at her with unfamiliar eyes, her heart couldn't help but throb in pain, and even breathing was painful.
Xue Ling's face was dull and his voice was low: "Yuyou, this is your choice, isn't it? Your choice will definitely cause the collapse of your family. Either the two children will live alone, and the brothers will live in different places. If you give
Either way, the child will either lose his father's love or his mother. This is the inevitable result, isn't it?"
Shan You was stunned, tears sparkling in his eyes.
"Auntie, I... I'm not a good mother, I know. But I... I love my two children, can you understand?"
"Yes, I understand." Xue Ling smiled bitterly and sighed: "But love is one thing. I have no confidence in you whether you can take good care of them and give them a better and more stable environment."
Shan You lowered his eyes, tears falling down.
Xue Ling whispered: "Although Ah Qing fell ill, Xiao Huzi can still take care of the two children. At least for now, the two children are living a good and stable life. Not to mention that Xiao Huzi cannot agree. Let's see first
Look at you. You are still pregnant with a child, and it is very likely that you will start a new family in the future. Are you sure your lover can accept Xiaohu and the others? How difficult will it be for you to be caught in the middle? "
It is obvious to everyone how good her abilities are. Ever since Xiaohu was born, the family had to have a nanny and a nanny, otherwise she alone would not be able to take care of the child.
Later, Wang Qing and Ahu came, and the family even hired a nanny, otherwise the housework would not be completed at all.
After Little Tiger went to kindergarten, Wang Qing and Ahu devoted themselves to taking care of Little Tiger. Until now, he can go to kindergarten. During this period, the two elderly people mainly contributed.
In the past two years, she often traveled to the South Island for two to three months or even longer, leaving very little time with her two children.
It's not that Xue Ling is cruel, or that she doesn't understand Shan You, but she guesses that Shan You is simply not capable of taking care of the two children.
In this case, why should we fight for the custody of our children now?
"I-I can give it a try." Shan You choked.
Xue Ling slowly shook his head: "Yuyou, the child's childhood is only once, and the child's growth process is only once. You must never try. Because if you fail, you may never be able to recover. If the child stays with Xiaohuzi, at least they will
They will grow up in a familiar and comfortable environment, surrounded by their grandparents, father, aunt, and our whole family. We are all their closest relatives and will definitely love and care for them. But if the children remarry with you, there will be no one around them except
Apart from you, there is no one who is related by blood. How much love can they get?"
Shan You was stunned and couldn't answer for a moment.
Xue Ling looked indifferent and whispered: "Yuyou, you are about to give birth to another child. How much love, energy and time can you give to each child equally? Have you ever thought about it? In addition, how much will you have in the future?
How much can I love Xiao Xiaohu and the others? How confident can you be?"
Shan You hesitated to speak, but in the end she couldn't speak because she was not sure in her heart.
It goes without saying that it is natural to love one's biological children.
But Xiao Xiaohu had no blood relationship with him, so she didn't know how much he could tolerate them and how much pain he could have.
Xue Ling sighed softly: "Yuyou, a person's greed should match his ability, so that he is not greedy. If he exceeds his ability, he will be ridiculed by others, which is wishful thinking. Asking others to do things to achieve your own success, then how much should you do?
Difficult. Many people actually don’t know that asking yourself is the easiest thing in the world, while asking others is always unknown and far more difficult.”