Chapter 1,344 The peach and plum are speechless, and they are making their own mistakes
Fang Xuanling laughed and comforted: "Why do you have to look so dejected? You have done well enough. Looking at the young generation of nobles, you are already far ahead of others. As the saying goes, good fortune comes with misfortune.
Misfortunes are where blessings depend, and small setbacks can have unexpected benefits in tempering your temperament."
At such an age, he is already a second-grade high-ranking official. The promotion speed is too fast. He should settle down before he can find the right path.
Fang Jun smiled bitterly and said: "Ten thousand years is too long. My son is seizing the day..."
Of course, he knew that his rocket-like promotion speed was actually not a good thing. His foundation was shallow and insufficient, and he mostly relied on his father Fang Xuanling's background and His Majesty Li Er's holy family. But if he could calm down and get promoted step by step
, when will one day be able to hold the power in hand and unleash all the vengeance in one’s chest?
The level of medical and health care these days is extremely low. Even if you catch some disease, you may be dead. Even if you are disease-free and disaster-free, it is considered normal to live to be fifty or sixty years old. You can't even hope to be seventy years old.
Seventy years of life are rare, are you really joking?
Now that the government is stable, unless there were many meritorious deeds at the beginning of the founding of the country, stable promotion is too slow. My father, Fang Xuanling, followed His Majesty Li Er from the king of Qin to the emperor, and is the most trusted and core staff member of His Majesty Li Er.
, he was appointed Zhongshu Ling at the age of forty-eight, and was fifty-one when he was promoted to Shangshu Zuopushe...
That was during a war, and there was also the skill of following the dragon!
According to the steady promotion rate, I might be able to enter the center at the age of forty, and when my hair is gray, I can become a cabinet minister...
If you are going to die by then, what else will you have the energy to do?
Instead of doing this, it is better to just wait for death and be a dandy, which is worthy of this life...
Fang Xuanling said displeasedly: "The imperial court has its own system for promotion. I don't know why you are so greedy for power, but you are so focused on opportunism and taking the wrong path. Even if you can succeed for a while, you will inevitably plant hidden dangers. You may not usually do so.
It’s obvious, but once you make a mistake and make a mistake, it will be an irreversible outcome!”
You are already a second-rank Jingzhaoyin before you are twenty years old. You will serve for several terms steadily, and then you will find a prosperous place and be promoted to a feudal official for two terms.
With his qualifications and experience in local governance, when he was in his thirties, he was transferred back to the capital to join the central government. After another ten or eight years, he was able to hold the position of prime minister and assistant.
Such a speed of promotion is still appalling after the founding of the country, but you are still clamoring to "seize the day and the night"...
How can you make me feel so sorry for you?
Fang Jun had been an official in his previous life, so he naturally knew that his father's words were the safest way to go. One step at a time, he could not only inherit his father's political legacy, but also expand and stabilize his own personal connections. At that time, he returned to the center.
Fang has a solid foundation and strong strength.
"Isn't my son thinking about doing something? If you want to do something in this world, you must have power in your hands. If you continue to endure hardships steadily, when will you be able to fully express your revenge?"
"Your idea is wrong. Not only is it wrong, it's even very dangerous!" Fang Xuanling suppressed her smile, stared at the proud second son in front of her with a serious face, and taught her painstakingly: "The way of a gentleman, such as traveling far away, must be
For example, if you climb high, you will have to humble yourself. Whether you are a human being or an official, you must aim high and dare to think and do, but you must also start from a place of "humbleness" and "near", be down-to-earth, and proceed step by step. This is what a gentleman does.
The Tao is the Tao of Heaven! Now you are eager for quick success and blindly take the wrong direction. You will build a tall building without laying a solid foundation. One day you will reap the consequences and it will be too late to regret it!"
These words were extremely serious. Fang Jun was startled and quickly reflected.
Seeing that his son realized the meaning of his words, Fang Xuanling softened his tone slightly and said warmly: "My father has always not commented on your behavior. In fact, he hopes that you can wake up and correct yourself. This is better than
The effect of a father's advice is better. In the past, his official position was not prominent. In the eyes of the world, he was just a playboy. He had a more irritable personality and acted more wantonly, but it was not a big deal. Who would really care about a playboy? But now your status is getting higher.
As the official position becomes more and more prosperous, it would be very wrong if we continue to act as usual."
Fang Jun quickly said: "My son realizes his mistake."
He realized his mistake. A dandy can beat a prince or a minister, but now that he is Jing Zhaoyin, he still beats people to disability in the street. What is the nature of this?
What did the civil and military officials of the Manchu Dynasty think of him?
How do people in the world view him?
The most important thing is...what does His Majesty Li Er think of him?
Do you still have some awe in your heart? Is it so swollen that it’s about to fly?
He finally understood what his father meant when he said "you will suffer a loss this time". It was not that he handled it wrong, nor was it the pressure on the family members, nor was it His Majesty Li Er's trade-offs that made him a victim, but...
His Majesty Li Er will feel that he is out of control now!
How can a person who has no fear in his heart become a loyal minister and good prime minister?
Now that His Majesty Li Er is in his prime, he certainly doesn't care what happens to Fang Jun, but if ten years later... when the crown prince is stable and the kings rise, will Fang Jun still have the ambition to be loyal to the emperor?
When I think about this, fear suddenly arises in my heart, and cold sweat breaks down...
Seeing Fang Jun's expression of concern, Fang Xuanling smiled and asked, "What, are you scared?"
Fang Jun forced out a smile: "I'm not afraid, and your Majesty can't chop off your son's head..."
"hehe……"
Fang Xuanling chuckled, and actually picked up the teapot and poured a cup of tea for Fang Jun. Fang Jun quickly took it with both hands: "How dare you let your father pour tea for your son?"
Fang Xuanling waved her hands and said not to care, looked at her son with a smile and teased: "My father has been shocked by your performance in the past few years. You are both talented and good at making money. Even your official position has skyrocketed and you are almost catching up with my father."
... My father is even thinking, could it be that there is a monster in my family?"
Fang Jun grinned, what he said... you are about to point out the truth, dad!
"But one thing you don't do well is that you are too sharp and aggressive!" Fang Xuanling held the tea cup in his hand and said slowly: "You always take advantage of everything and refuse to suffer the slightest loss. As a father, you often
Worry, if you get used to taking advantage, you may feel that a small loss is a big loss in the future, which is not good. Who in this world can take advantage of everything?"
Fang Jun remained silent and listened to these words.
Since my rebirth, everything has gone too smoothly for me, and I have unknowingly developed a bad habit of being extremely egotistical. I can't bear to be angry, I can't bear to suffer, and I have an impetuous temperament and too many obsessions. This is not a good thing.
People who always think that they often suffer losses, no one knows the obsession in their hearts, and it is also painful. No one understands and sympathizes with this kind of people.
People who are willing to suffer some losses on unimportant issues have a kind of open-mindedness and tolerance in their temperament, as well as some sense and self-restraint. People like such people wherever they go. Who would like someone who only takes advantage and does not suffer losses?
Fang Xuanling continued: "Letting you suffer does not mean that you will not speak up or fight back when you are bullied, but that you will not be aggressive everywhere and have a broad mind. You will always be unwilling to suffer, no matter what your nature is, you will definitely be in the end.
Too careless, too concerned about gains and losses, often losing everything for trivial matters, sacrificing the good for the last. As a person, you must be open-minded, know how to forgive, and know how to give in. Forgiveness does not mean weakness, and giving in does not mean fear. Showing weakness to the enemy, and using retreat to make progress.
, these are the best military strategies, and they are also the best way to be a human being. Only when you understand this principle can you have a charming personality and a broad mind. You don’t need to advertise yourself, let alone brag about yourself. People in the world
They all have eyes, and the peaches and plums are speechless, and they are all in trouble."
Forbearance a moment, calm, take a step back, a brighter future!
This is the wisdom of our ancestors and the most truthful saying between heaven and earth.
It is a pity that as a reborn person, my knowledge and knowledge surpass those of people in this world for thousands of years, but I have lost my mind and gone astray.
Fang Xuanling's words were like a bell, making Fang Jun's mind buzz, but they also made him suddenly realize it like an enlightenment!
So what if you suffer a loss?
Some losses cannot be suffered, but some losses are blessings...
No one wants to be with someone who never suffers, so a gentleman should be as gentle as jade, and a gentleman should not fight.
In this people-oriented society, as long as you know how to share benefits and understand that suffering is a blessing, people will naturally surround you, lift you up, help you, and support you.
The peach and plum trees are speechless, and they create their own mistakes...
Fang Jun stood up and left his seat, shook up his robe, bowed uprightly and bowed his head to Fang Xuanling, and said seriously: "Thank you very much, father, for your teaching. I will benefit from it throughout my life."
Fang Xuanling stroked his beard under his chin with his hand and laughed heartily: "You can teach a kid!"