Chapter 98 Our ancestors all knew that spanking children is a matter of knowledge
Yan Bugui said that Zhuzi's lesson this time was different from Duan Hongxuan's last time. Everyone, including the deaf old lady and the first man, nodded in agreement.
Yan Bugui then looked at Duan Hongxuan and asked: "Hongxuan, how do you feel about it? Come and tell us."
Silly Zhu also said: "Hongxuan, come and tell me.
Why did they say that I was beaten differently this time when you were beaten last time?
What's the difference? It's because you are a cultural person and I am a cook!"
Silly Zhu’s words made everyone amused.
Unexpectedly, the second uncle suddenly made a humorous remark: "What's wrong with you being a cook? This is to compare beating people, not to ask you to compare how to chop people!"
This made everyone laugh even more.
The deaf old lady looked there with a smile and said nothing.
Duan Hongxuan saw that everyone was laughing, and then he said: "Brother Zhuzhu, we are both making jokes, and the purpose is to educate him.
It makes no difference!
But the difference is huge next, you made two important mistakes here!"
"Two more mistakes? Tell us about it!" Yan Bugui looked curious.
"The first point is that you teach your children to look at their surroundings and see who is around them!
Give me an example!
Let's assume that Liu Guangqi, the second uncle's family, gave birth to a son. This son is now seven or eight years old.
The second uncle loves his eldest grandson very much. He dotes on his younger grandson and won't allow anyone else to lay a finger on him.
One time, Liu Guangqi's son was naughty, and Liu Guangqi, as his own father, taught his son a lesson.
The second uncle happened to be nearby, watching his precious grandson being beaten. Do you think the second uncle can stop being anxious with Liu Guangqi?"
When Duan Hongxuan said this, everyone began to think about it carefully.
Yan Bugui said: "I understand, last time you taught Bangge a lesson, his grandma Jia Zhang was not there.
Although Qin Huairu is in front of him, Qin Huairu is sensible and can understand what he says.
This time, Zhuzi slapped him in front of Mr. Jia Zhang, who was unreasonable and especially pampered his grandson.
Let me tell you, this is the difference!"
When Yan Bugui said this, the master suddenly realized it!
Duan Hongxuan continued: "This point is actually very important. Liu Guangqi taught the child a lesson in front of the second uncle, but in turn, he himself was taught a lesson by the second uncle.
Then not only can this child not correct his mistakes, but he also knows that he has a backer, and he will not be afraid in the future!"
After hearing this, Yi Zhonghai sighed: "Not only did Zhuzhu fail to educate people today, but they actually had the opposite effect!"
Silly Zhu was stunned for a moment, and said dejectedly: "I really didn't expect that there are so many ways in there! Then I am doing bad things with good intentions.
Sister Qin still hates me to death!"
Everyone rolled their eyes at Silly Zhu, secretly cursing him for being useless.
"So it is very important to educate children to distinguish between occasions!"
"What's the second point?"
"The second point is Brother Zhuzhu's habit of beating people!
Third uncle, you should know how the teacher taught students who made mistakes in private schools in the past?"
Yan Bugui thought for a moment and replied: "Stand still, and then hit the palms of your hands with a ruler!"
"Yes, sir, he hit the child's palm with a ruler.
Why? The palm of the hand, especially the root of the palm, is thick and fleshy.
Even if your hands are swollen, as long as you don't hit your fingers, your muscles and bones will not be injured and there will be no sequelae.
If a student makes a serious mistake, there will be a spanking board in the private school.
Find a stool and lie down, take off your pants halfway to expose your butt, and then spank your butt with a paddle.
Why?
There's a lot of meat here, so I spanked Bangge's butt last time.
Even if you beat your butt to pieces, he won't be injured.
Unless you use a thick stick to strike hard, you may injure your muscles and bones.
Brother Zhuzhu, if you come up and slap me, you will break the child!"
"You can't, right? The second uncle slapped the second and third sons of their family with all their might. He also slapped them in the face!"
Silly Zhu's words made Liu Haizhong glare at him angrily.
Duan Hongxuan continued: "Our ancestors were very wise.
When a child is growing up, his body bones are weak, including the brain, including the heart, liver, spleen, lungs, kidneys and other internal organs. He is weaker than an adult and can be easily injured.
For an adult, if you give him a round slap, at least it will make his head buzz, and sometimes there will be stars in his eyes.
You can fool him in one go.
In more severe cases, you may feel dizzy, nauseous and vomiting after the injection.
I went to the hospital for a checkup and found out I had a concussion and had to stay in bed!
Why? It’s obvious that you’re not hurt when you look outside!
Because my mind was shaken.
Brother Zhuzhu, you are a cook. Let me give you an example and you will understand.
You take a piece of soft tofu and put it in your big teapot, and then you slap your big teapot hard with your hand.
No matter how much you take pictures, your big teapot may look fine on the outside, but the tofu inside may be shattered.
This is the same as the human brain!"
"Hiss!"
Duan Hongxuan's metaphor was so vivid that everyone took a breath after hearing it and imagining the scene in their minds.
Duan Hongxuan didn't wait for them to finish being shocked, and continued: "Even if you hit the body, there are still things like heart, liver, spleen, lungs and kidneys in there, and they may be damaged by you.
Compared with the brain, many internal organs are the difference between old tofu and tender tofu.
So you see, when our ancestors were educating children who made mistakes, they only spanked them in two places, the palms of their hands and their buttocks, and they only spanked them with a board, not a stick!
In this way, the child will not be hurt, and the child will have a long memory!
You really can’t fight in other places!”
Having said this, Duan Hongxuan looked at Silly Zhu with an incomprehensible look: "Brother Zhuzi, you really need to change your habit of beating people.
When you fight with people since childhood, you either slap them in the face or rush them down the street.
Even though it looks like there are no injuries on the outside, it’s really easy to cause trouble!
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Some problems cannot be seen, but even if they are injured, they will have some impact.
Especially for children, if something goes wrong when they are growing up, it will be a lifetime thing!"
After saying that, he looked at Liu Haizhong: "Second uncle, you have to change the way you spank your children.
Hitting the head and face indiscriminately can really break the child!
We should all have heard of those street gangsters outside. They often fight, and some of them have their brains damaged and become fools in the end!"
After saying this, everyone nodded: "Yes, I have heard of this kind of thing! I fought with someone and ended up being beaten into a fool!"
"Apart from being beaten to death, this is more serious.
But there are some people who are not stupid, you can’t tell.
In fact, the brain may have been injured, but it is not easily visible on the outside.
If you observe carefully, you will find that some characters will undergo some changes, and some people used to study well, but then they feel that they have become stupid and can no longer learn!"
Liu Haizhong was listening, and the more he thought about it, the more he felt like he was talking about his own child.
He didn't know if it was an illusion or something, but he thought that the second and third children were doing well in studies, but why couldn't they do well after they entered middle school?
Could it be that he was damaged by himself?
Thinking like this, Liu Haizhong couldn't keep calm.
He said a few words, and then asked Duan Hongxuan eagerly: "Hongxuan, you said that this child studied well when he was a child, but then he couldn't learn anymore. Isn't there really something wrong with his brain?"
When he asked this question, everyone looked at him with strange eyes, thinking in their hearts, could this second uncle really cause problems for the second and third children in their family?
The second aunt next to me was also anxious, and just asked: "Hongxuan, is it really as serious as you said?"
Duan Hongxuan replied: "Second uncle and second aunt, no one can say for sure.
Firstly, it can't be seen from the outside, and secondly, there are no instruments to check it out.
But there will always be some impact!
Let me give you another example. You all know the scars in wood!
That is, during the growth process of the tree, the trunk is injured, but it has no impact on the tree, and it can continue to grow.
When it grows up, it looks like nothing on the outside, but when you cut the tree open like this, there is such a scar inside!"
Everyone understands this.
The second aunt suddenly became angry. No matter what, it was her own child, so she got angry at the second uncle: "You damn old man, you usually hit your children carelessly.
You're going to beat anyone you catch? You really don't think he's your own!
If the children really have a problem, I’m not done with you!”
